is this something that actually happens to normal guys? i've seen posters here mention that their gfs asked them out, these guys surely aren't normal. the fuck? could this happen to me?
>>84236249It only happens to guys who are actually really attractiveAnyone who claims otherwise is lying
>>84236249I approached a guy in high school. He was disgusted by me, it was really humiliating. No idea why he even gave me his number
The other day a cute one said she recognized me from earlier that day. I didnt know wtf she was talking about since the sun was in my face when I passed her earlier. Not used to being talked to by random girls who aren't wagies so I wasted my only shot.
I'm autistic, and the only women that approached me are crazy bipolars.
women believe that they approach men but in fact they do not.
>>84236852>>84236249>>84236867It happens when you are way out of a woman's league. I am very average looking and I regularly get trash looking women falling in love with me just from spending time around me.It's just annoying because I would be happy for the attention from a 6/10 like me, but I would be ashamed to walk around town with a 2-3/10 and have my 5/10 exes see it. Success is the best form of revenge
>>84236249If they like you like you, yeahIf they just like you, they'll drop hints so you have to make the first move
>>84236249Yes but unfortunately none were really my type.>>84236852I'm a solid 4/10 but so were they.
Not asked out but the initial hi yes a couple of times
>>84237031Isn't success being with someone you're genuinely happy with?
>>84237056Yeah but the unattractive women's personalities are shit too lmao.They don't vibe with me like my last ex did.
>>84237066Why did it end with your ex
>>84237068A lot of things but at the end of the day she was not in love with me and I was in love with her. Also her libido was way lower than mine (I think this is a reflection of her not being attracted to me, despite everybody including some of her own friends thinking I had the looks in the relationship)
>>84236249Yes, but they only approached me to invite me to some bible study class. It happened to me twice, and it gave me the impression that something about my appearance suggests that I need God in my life.
I only get coldapproached by crazy obese black women when I go out
>>84237076That means you weren't looksmatched then
>>84237079The Mormons are always hot pretty sexy primo white girls. Whenever other kinds of Christians have shilled at me they were retarded ESL Indians. Mormons are doing something right.
>>84236249>do women actually approach men?Yes. If a woman is attracted to a man she WILL approach him. If you have to chase women, it's already over.
>>84237093Nah I am easily a 6 and she was usually a 4. Unfortunately some people aren't even into people more attractive to them. she has NPD and even admitted she is only attracted to men she can't have
>>84237102>she has NPD and even admitted she is only attracted to men she can't haveShe's just like me fr
>>84237099They weren't Mormons. I think they were just some kind of nondenominational Christian group, or at least it was for one of the two. Not sure what kind of Christianity the other was pushing.I have been approached by some Mormons before though. It was funny because it happened while I was on vacation in another country too.
>>84237116Yeah, it's actually insane the night and day difference between how she treated me when I wasn't available vs when I wasWhen she first started pursuing me, I was consistently rejecting her (because we were coworkers and I didn't want a relationship at the time) and she started literally begging for my dick. I caved, we had crazy sex for a couple weeks and after that I told her I had feelings.It was like a switch flipped. We became bf gf and she stopped putting out as much because "it's different now" and then just used me as an emotional tampon and for dates. Its was like by falling in love with her I had friendzoned myselfAnyways I don't even feel like elaborating me but she is completely fucked in the head with clear avoidant-attachment.
>>84237140I'm like that too, if a guy really likes me back it makes me retreat and not have much interest anymore.
>>84237168well part of me hopes you fucking suffer and die for what you hell put the actual loving men your same type claims doesn't exist throughanother part of me feels bad for you and hopes you get better, but knows you aren't going to seriously try to
>>84237184Well yeah it's a guarantee I will suffer and die. I don't think I have NPD, at least not the grandiose aspects, but it comes from having very low self esteem. If someone likes me then something's wrong with them bc everyone else hates me kind of thing. Also dating hasn't gone too well for me. I did date someone who never really loved me but was very needy, it was hell. I think dating someone who is like me would never work because it would always initially seem like I like them way more and they'd lose interest and rightfully so.
After dating a bunch of BPD girls in highschool and then spending a year not dating to try and recover because it fucked my mental health, a girl asked me on a date out of nowhere. She had BPD. I don't know if there's any connection, I just find it really funny in retrospect.
>>84237203>it comes from having very low self esteem. If someone likes me then something's wrong with them bcyeah and if someone treats you like shit, you love it because it's what you deserve. believe me, I dated someone like you for 8 fucking months and figured it all out. And yes, you fucking do have NPD but don't worry, it's terminal and you're always going to make everyone around you feel worse.I spent so long trying to build her up because I knew low self worth was the cause, I only really care to tear down at this point.
>>84237224Kek, just because you don't like me doesn't mean I have NPD. My relationship was 5 years long, 8 months is nothing.
>>84237229>just because I display all the symptoms doesn't mean I have the disease
>>84237234Having a poor attachment style and self esteem isn't "all the symptoms"
>>84237235It's not a poor attachment style it's a dysfunctional attachment style. You will never truly love anyone because you don't love yourself.You have nothing against using them though. As long as they make you feel good, or more importantly have something you can gain
>>84237244Lol this dude really thinks I'm his ex, pathetic
>>84237247I had your number before you even started saying >wow literally me!
kek @ the narcissistic dude projecting on this goofy hoea match made in hell
>>84237381You would have to experience it to understand
>>84237464No thanks if I get a whiff of borderline or narcissist I runFuck that shit, life's too short to be around you subhumans
>>84236249>do women actually approach men?Only Chad, it seems. I only got the foids who stare at me, but *always* have a cockblocker with them, and *never* speak to me in any case.As a result, I am a perma-incel who has only had disappointing sex with escorts, and can't afford enough of them anyway.
>>84237101>If you have to chase women, it's already overSo it's over for most men?
>>84237013They give the most unreadable or vague signals, after fostering an environment where a lot of men feel rightfully scared to approach women out of fear of being accused or humiliated just for being human
>>84239070>They give the most unreadable or vague signals, after fostering an environment where a lot of men feel rightfully scared to approach women out of fear of being accused or humiliated just for being humanThis. If a foid won't even talk to me, or tell me they are DTF, then I can't and won't do shit.No foids, giving me eyes while you (or I) have a cockblocker there doesn't fucking count. Fucking talk to me, FFS.
>>84239045>So it's over for most men?I'd think that this was obvious, since fuck apps ruined everything for us from 2012 onward.
