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Is having no friends a sign of a moral failure on your part or a looks or personality issue, or is it external?
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>>84240490
Inherently, it's not an indicator of anything
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Normalniggers don't actually have friends, they have surface level connections with no substance.
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>>84240490
I would say it's a lack of opportunity
I made a lot of friends in college, at the anime club, at the board game club.
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>>84240530
Elaborate plox
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>>84240550
>Elaborate plox
Feel like I was pretty clear
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>>84240490
It can just be pure circumstances and misfortune. If you actually have self-respect, standards and boundaries it's pretty hard to find decent people to know you basically just have to get lucky with your involvements in society. If you will accept anyone and can't maintain friends than you're just hideous and insufferable.
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>>84240490
It's an indication that you are in an alienating environment. Do you live near other people? Do you interact with people daily? And finally, do you engage in any group activities, be it sports, clubs, community work, or something else?
Typically, it doesn't matter how ugly, evil, or boring you are, you will make friends as long as you get enough social interaction.
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>>84240578
Do you not understand the concept of elaborating on a premise?
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>>84240651
Do you not understand the concept of I've already laid out the entire premise? That's it? That's the entire premise and there's nothing else to it? Do you understand the concept of re-reading something if you are unable to digest it or do I have to feed you that information like a baby bird because you cannot into extrapolation?
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>>84240695
>in philosophy 101 in college
>prof assigns a 500 word essay on socrates
>anon just writes, "socrates was a greek philosopher who was killed after gaining too much influence"
>turns it in
>prof is like what is this, you didnt elaborate on anything
>UHHHH DO I HAVE TO FEED YOU INFORMATION LIKE YOURE A BABY BIRD?
>gets expelled
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>>84240710
Except in this situation you're asking me for knowledge so technically in this situation I'm the teacher. Go write me an essay on how retarded you are to think such a simple thing needs elaboration.
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Lack of opportunity as the other guy said, just luck really.

I'm autistic, diagnosed when I was like 14 years old because the school sent me to therapy for some shit.

I'm also one chopped mf, short, skinny-fat, mexican fucker with shitty teeth.

I don't like people and don't look for opportunities to get out of my home, I like my solitude.

Still, I made friends all through my school life with little to no problem, and without trying just because I had luck.

Luck that I always found a group of retards who liked the same things I did, who shared my humor, and who adapted to my retarded ass.

Now that I stay home all day working on my dad's workshop, I have no opportunity to make friends, because I don't meet anyone my age.
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>>84240734
Kek
>he read what he first wrote on some random r9k thread 5 years ago and rewrote it here because he thought it sounded cool, he wont elaborate because he literally cant
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>>84240768
Completely original thought but go off you dense shitskin tranny.
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>>84240710
Okay but why are you obsessed?
Anon didn't want to give a more detailed answer and kept it simple. The OP did not ask for a "500 word essay" on the matter. You are imposing where it isn't warranted.
You're gay, cringe, and frankly expelled from the board. It could even be said that you are why you are friendless.
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>>84240490
adults don't have friends, we have colleagues at work and sex partners.
I tried to make discord friends and I learnt it's just a scheme so internet friends are not real.
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>>84240862
>You are imposing where it isn't warranted
>LE HECKIN SOCIAL SKILLS ON R9K

Kek. What a faggot ass nerd. Go rope
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All of my failing was because I was needy and unlikable but still had an air of superiority. I demanded I have the same things as others. Went through intense suffering and gained character, then normal shit like friendships and relationships just come and go and life keeps moving on without much friction. I care very little about most things now, and things seem to work out just fine.
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I don't want friends. I prefer being alone.

Being forced to hear other people talk will drain my energy and makes me withdraw.

4chan is easier because if I don't want to reply to your post, I won't. But in real life every sentence is expected to have a reply.
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>>84240490
ima girl with no friends and ive come to the conclusion that im just really offputting and boring to be around, and not conventionally attractive
my justification is there plenty of ugly people with alot of friends, conventionally pretty people can get away with being boring or weird because they get mote oppurtunties to practice being social and it works out for them, to not look approachable and/or be boring company, u r cooled forever unless you get a lobotomy to stop being so autistic around every single person you meet.
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>>84240710
https://youtu.be/u2j578jTBCY?t=83
You don't just demand elaboration like a retard, you ask what you want to be elaborated on specifically, what was unclear?
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>>84241294
>be specific
His post was one sentence dude.
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>>84240490
I don't think it's necessarily a failure. A lot of us don't have interest in making friends because we don't see a reason for it. It's only a failure if you have the desire and fail.



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