My grandmother is probably dying, and I simply don't care, I don't like her that much. Sometimes I think i'm a psycho but I love my parents, so I can't be one right?
>>84246138I'm not sure if this is a common bot feeling but when family members die, I primarily feel relief that there's one less person in the world who expects something from me
I felt absolutely fucking nothing when my grandmother died. The last interaction we had she slapped me across the face six times calling me an ungrateful jealous bitch and then kicked me in the stomach. Dementia is fun. That was a full four months before she died. She went into hospice and I never visited. At least felt pissed when my evil faggot father kicked it three months before.
That's normal if you aren't really close to your relatives, half of them I care about so much I know my life is ruined when they leave my life, half of them you'd have to call me to notice
>>84247354Same, I have a lot of extendes family but they are barely more than strangers. I guess we are more likely to help each other if asked out of the blue but day to day I don't even remember they exist.
>>84246138I'm pretty apprehensive about when my grandma and mom are gonna die because I'm pretty sure I won't be sad despite being expected to by the rest of the family and will be guilt-tripped to death over it
my grandma is very old and shes driving everyone crazy. she has been a workaholic her entire life but shes old now and cant really do it anymore but she insists on doing all this volunteer shit and making people drive her all over the place. i have never seen anything like it from anyone her age, she refuses to stay home. i am the only person in the family who told her im fucking done with all this driving around insanity and i will only go to the grocery store for her. i dont talk to her much anymore because i cant deal with it anymore
>>84246376Imagjne staying mad at someone with dementia who died. Not saying your feelings arent valid but she had dementia. She's literally was sundowning and you're being petty about it
>>84247424Mine was abusive to almost everyone, and is now demanding we care for her. I can't believe women like her get social security but we won't when it's our time
>>84248588my grandma isnt like that i actually love her but she cant take up everyones time like that, and she can barely walk on top of it. i drove her around a lot for 6 years so this wasnt some short term thing. Im done with it. Now she has other people in the family driving her around and everyone is tired of it but they dont want to say no to her. Shes guilt tripping them basically
>>84248621did she go to that no kings protest yesterday? from what I saw it was literally 80% elderly
>>84246138If it's any consolation, my sister called me one day and told me our dad died. I was like, well, that sucks. Then I just went to work and it was a normal day.
