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"chad only" memes aside, does this happen?
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>>84247192
My eyelashes and eyes and lips have been complimented before, but I've never been called handsome by anyone outside of my family.
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>>84247192
Numerous women throughout my life have complimented my looks. Took me until I was like 22 to start acting upon it and I didn't actually get a honest-to-god gf until I was 25. I'm a skinny tall nerdy white guy, which is a surprisingly popular phenotype, but it took forever to overcome my insecurity and social issues. My gf always calls me handsome.
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>>84247192
no. i tried to fish for some compliment from the obese femcel who had a crush on me back in college saying something about how some guy is handsome and i could never do things he does (i dont remember exactly but something like this) and she replied that being handsome is not everything. why cant roasties just be nice and lie? i hate them
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>>84247192

a woman commented that I have "equal facial thirds" does this mean I'm attractive?
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>>84247223
she had a crush on you, but didn't thought of you as attractive?
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>>84247192
I've been called hot and complimented a bunch of times, the problem is when I start talking
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>>84247192
Apparently a few called me handsome. But that's secondhand from my mom, I don't really believe her
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>>84247462
yes she had a crush on me for 3 years and never once said anything nice about my looks. even i lied to her now and then and said she looked cute in some dress (she didnt she was fat as fuck). roasties are very cruel
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>>84247486
I also had women who never complimented my looks and had a crush on me. It either turned out they didn't want to blow my ego, or that they liked me as a person firsts and I looked decent enough to imagine themselves having sex with me.
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>>84247265

It means you are good looking by objective standards.
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>>84247192
Nope never happened

>>84247219
Mind posting your face? Or at least your jaw with everything else censored?
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>>84247192
It happens to me reasonably often, usually they compliment my eyes/eyebrows/hair or say that I look like an actor, occasionally I have had random women straight up ask me out or ask for my number.

Despite all that, I still spend way more time talking to pregnant AI girls on Janitor AI than I do taking to any real women
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>>84247192
No.
Recently a girl told me that I look like a guy who would be named Shane and I have been told I have a nice voice.
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>>84247192
no, literally never in my entire incel life
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>>84247713
>>84248520
Only incels remaining on here. Everyone else is a normie/chad
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>>84247192
I've been told i both look cute and am cute before. Does that count?
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>>84247192
I've only ever gotten compliments on my penis, not my face.
>Nice feeling cock
>Very hard
>Too long
>Just right
I've even had a woman come up to me at a party, look at my bulge, and instantly invite me to her place. Sometimes I wish women thought of me as a person too.
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>>84248546
I have been called "pretty" and "sexy" but I haven't had sex yet. I simply expect women will come to me. Delusional.
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>>84247192
I've been called handsome before and women always comment on my wide frame and "muscular" arms, even though my arms are normal
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>>84248652
Ok? You literally got the go ahead, go ask them out retard.

You will never know what it's like to be a sub 5
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A number of times but it was always followed by; but you're too short. Or some variation.
Getting made fun of by my friends my whole life was ez, funny even and the banter went back and forth. Getting told I was too short to date repeatedly just fucked me up and I shut myself in forever.
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>>84247192
>Has a woman ever complimented your looks?
nah
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>>84248789
Giga brutal, what's your height?
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>>84248804
5'3 in shoes. The last straw was going to college the first week and, during lunch, getting called out by all the girls in class for being cute and tiny.
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>>84248831
>5'3 in shoes.
brother
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"Chud" is just the male version of "Chudette" duhh isn't it more obvious LOL
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>>84247192
Every girl i talked to did when i was 10% bodyfat. Mostly eyes, hair, style and body
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>>84247192
They used to when I was fatter, now that I'm skinny it's mostly old people
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>>84248758
its more complicated. These women were usually already relationship with a guy who had similar looks, or I sometimes they were literally just pointing out that I have technically a very harmonious face. I struggle because I have niche appeal not a Chad Thundercock one.
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>>84248847
It is what it is, but I should've just stayed in college and got into merchant navy.
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>>84247192
yes but they were financially incentivized to be nice to me
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>>84247192
>Has a woman ever complimented your looks
such thing never happened to me
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>>84247192
i have nice long hair and a big beard, im also tall and strong. i get many compliments
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>>84247192
The class prez may or may not have called me cute, it was a quiet under her breath whisper sorta thing which makes me doubt if it really happened. Was the class prez even real? Are you guys real?
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>>84247192
When I was younger and still had my looks, sure. I don't see it ever happening again now that I am over 30 though. The best I can hope for now is a "you look good for your age" or something along those lines.
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>>84249284
what changed? I'm 34 and still get compliments, even more than I did at 20. I kept my hair and used sunscreen tho,
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>>84249300
I was a pretty boy, and prettiness fades with age. Also my hair started prematurely graying. It's not THAT bad but I have way more gray hairs than someone my age should age. I still count my blessings though, at least I'm not bald.
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>>84249308
I don't understand how would a pretty boy hit the wall at 30 unless he got fat and bloated? What kills your looks? I'm east asian and I just went from looking very feminine in my early youth, to looking like a dude bro with refined features.
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>>84249368
I don't know, maybe it's just the standard I held myself to. Like if I couldn't look exactly as I did at 20 then I considered myself ugly or something. Doesn't help that I always had a certain sense of dread towards the very notion of aging ever since I was a kid. Withering and decaying remains a horrifying concept to me.
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>>84247192
no literally never :(
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>>84247192
I was traveling across the country back in late 2023 and early 2024 and some girl at the loves counter when I was paying for a large Diet coke, tells me that I have great teeth. I rolled my eyes and said shut the fuck up and left
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I've gotten a lot of "you're a good looking guy, I'm sure you'll find somebody" from women who'd already made it clear they weren't interested. I also get a lot of comments that I look much younger than I am (40 in a few months, and people are usually shocked and say they thought I was 27 or something) but I'm not sure that counts either.

Recently I've gotten pretty regular compliments on various clothing items from women as well, especially hats for some reason, which I get when it's a cowboy hat (I have some cool ones and wear them to rodeos and other events, as well as occasionally out to bars etc.) but I also get them a lot on these two particular ballcaps. Once again I'm not sure if those count though.
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yes, at work a girl told me i had nice green eyes. i haven't seen her in a few weeks. i wanted to tell her that i got lasik eye surgery. the girl works in a different department. another time people asked me i've been working out. i told them no it's been picking up toats for six years.
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>>84247192
Old women have called me muscly and prostitutes have acted like woahhhhh you so strong. Some guys cant even get prostitutes to compliment them.
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My whole life until I got old (37)
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>>84247192
I've been told I have
>Nice eyebrows
>Nice skin
>Am tall
>Have good hair
>Good nose
>Nice ass
And a guy said I have nice eyes
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>>84247265

Dude, that's a very specific compliment. Either she is an arthoe or into looksmaxxing.
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>>84247192
>Has a woman ever complimented your looks?
I've been called a catch, and been called handsome a few times by foids, despite being a bald manlet bearded James Gandolfini.
Naturally, none of them were attainable, or close to my age. I get matches on the apps sometimes, and they never speak, or are DTF.
The curse of the averagecel autist.
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>>84247192
Not genuinely, no. two things worth mentioning:
>random woman tells you you're cute
she sees you on equal footing to a puppy
>a female friend tell you you're totally handsome
She is just being nice to you, just like your mother. Want to test it? Ask her out. If she awkwardly tries to reject you or say something like "you're a brother/friend to me only", she was bullshitting you.

Those were both the situations I've in before so I know neither are genuine. If a woman isn't actually sending signals as she compliments you or she actually uses the proper words to compliments you (handsome, hot, etc.) then you're cooked
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>>84252457
>She is just being nice to you, just like your mother
My relatives never told me I am looking good since I became a teenager, because I stopped been looking good and they looked at me with silent disdain for failing their expectations of not been normal son other parents have.
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>>84247192
Ive never been complimented by a woman i wasnt blood related to on anything
is that what you wanted to hear? huh are you happy now
I HAVE NEVER BEEN GIVEN A SINGLE COMPLIMENT BY ANY GIRL IN MY LIFE NOTHING
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>>84247192
Yes I have been fetishised as a hapa
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i've been called handsome by a girl in the psych ward
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yes. for some physical features i have been complimented
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Of course, since I am pretty goodlooking. The one consistent one is that lots of girls say I have beautiful eyes.
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>>84247192
A hooker did once, she was on me cowboy and said I had a handsome square jaw.
Other than that, once when I was 14 a random girl in a mall told me her friend liked my butt. I think it was a dare desu.

>34/khhv
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>>84253041
how are you khhv if you went to hookers?
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>>84247192
I have been complimented multiples times. As in a girl I'd never met before stopped me to say hey I think you're really cute. I've been asked out twice. I've been cat called by a group of teenaged girls. And a girl once told me about a wet dream she had about me. I still think I'm kinda ugly but some have seemed to like my face.
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>>84252581
I was a cute kid turned ugly during my teenage years as well. Only thing that changed for me is that I went from getting genuine compliments from everyone to nothing, though my family members still take pity on me and compliment me when it's objectively clear I'm ugly as sin.
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some girls told me i look like a knight. one girl told me i look like jaime lannister.

the truth is a lot of people on r9k are physically attractive, just look itt. people here just lack social skills to capitalize off it.
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>>84247192
No never. White and Mexican people were mean to me in other ways but black people have straight up told me that I am ugly
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>>84254435
>the truth is a lot of people on r9k are physically attractive,

I have had a few unsolicited compliments about my looks; mainly how "pretty" my face is for a guy. I always wondered why doesn't this translate into me having more sex/relationship appeal.
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>>84247192
Yes. I've been told that I dress well and I have nice shoulders and ass but it was from female friend who weren't available or interested at the time.
More recently some friends coworker, he tried to set me up with, said I was cute and when she left she said she wanted to have my children but I think it was either provocation or she was too drunk, I haven't seen her since then tho.
That being said I'm alone as ever.
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Female classmate straight up asked me why I was ugly if I was Spanish.
Didn't know how to respond.
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>>84254910
I still vividly remember when I was in high school two middle schoolers approached me, one sat to my left and the other to my right and they said:
"You look like you're psychopath."
and
"You look like you could shoot up your school at anytime"
What the actual fuck am I supposed to take from that?
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>>84255320
>What the actual fuck am I supposed to take from that?
obviously nothing, if it was just one guy then it wouldve been the truth but if it was two friends at the same exact time and doing this left and right thing then it was most likely a prank
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>>84247192
yes, it does happen. yes, I have been complimented on my looks.
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>>84248600
Accept your fate as a dildo
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>>84254435
brother what the fuck are you talking about, 99% of people on r9k do not look like fucking jaime lannister
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>>84255350
i didnt say that lil nigga
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I was on the subway and a drunken girl was sitting next to me and her friends were opposite and on the other side to me, all talking. The drunken girl was quiet, I didn't look at her just stared at the ground. As I got up to leave at my stop she said "I love you!" and when I ignored her she said "You're cute!" but I didn't look at her. I think I was just too depressed and cold to care. Her male friends were looking at me like "wtf she is never like this" or something but I just left. Kind of regret it desu. I'm an unc now so those days are over.
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>>84247192
how is this thread genuinely possible is this a joke, ive never been told a single nice thing by any girl and im a solid 6
are you guys all actual models or what
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>>84247192
I used to get compliments when I was in middle school. Usually just off-handed remarks like youre cute I just finished college recently, not a single compliment or even interaction with a girl. I assume my looks have faded since then. I feel like in general, most girls are extremely cold towards me, even in customer service jobs.
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>>84255552
have you ever had a girlfriend, or sex? How did you know you were attractive to them?
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>>84255757
>have you ever had a girlfriend, or sex? How did you know you were attractive to them?
Nah im a khhv, I just know i'm a 6 cause i asked my friend to ask his girl friend to rate me because i needed an objective opinion from a girl who doesnt know me irl
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>>84255552
weird isnt it? do you ever wonder how come everyone on r9k has a 7 or 8 inch long penis too? the lonely loser and failed normie board is full of horse dicked super models, i guess they are all mentalcels kek
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>>84255827
People with small dicks aren't going to share their size as often, simple. There's plenty of anons ITT who have had zero compliments but it's rarer for anons to say they get no compliments because it's depressing, simple.
Having a big dick or getting compliments doesn't mean anybody wants to fuck you. You can't exactly whip your dick out and copter it to attract women and compliments =/= sexual attraction.
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>>84255552
>are you guys all actual models or what

most decent looking guys who are are on the spectrum are likely to end up here. They aren't truecels in the sense that they are ugly like reddit imagines as a lot of them overlap with looksmaxxers, so a lot of them are higher-maintenance than your sex having normie man, but they're still alone, and this causes as much confusion and frustration as it breeds entitlement. Notice the constant threads asking how did the fat neckbeard end up with a cuter girlfriend while they rot alone. I know this because I still get compliments about my looks, women even told my face has prefect thirds, that I have beautiful cheekbones, eyes, a perfect smile and I'm still a virgin.
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>>84256082
nigga you are not alain delon
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>>84255324
>if it was just one guy then it wouldve been the truth but if it was two friends at the same exact time and doing this left and right thing then it was most likely a prank
This was out of nowhere, and it was just me hanging out and the two approached me out of nowhere. Not even a group to argue it was some sort of friend group prank/dare. Also it was two little girls.
Anyway, I looked emo as fuck back then, but if I were a chad, then the response should be something positive not "you look like a school shooter", no?
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>>84255683
thats just college.. I used to get approached in HS but never in college.
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>>84247192
>"Anon, you'd look better without your glasses"
Bitch I can't see without my glasses
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I cold approached many women recently, none of them gave a compliment. I must be absolutely hideous.
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does height count? im 6'4" so ive been complimented on my height
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>>84247192
No women younger than 65 or older than 13 have ever complimented my looks. I get plenty of compliments from women older than 65 and girls under 13.
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the only time I got approached by women, was troon looking south east asian women and a fat woman.
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>>84247192
I compliment what men are wearing all the time, does that count?
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>>84258021
>hey that's a nice jacket it almost makes it bearable to look at you, almost
>I love your shoes! I can look at them instead of that disgusting thing you call a face!
very nice
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>>84258399
why even bother try to make me seem like a bad person?
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>>84247192
No because I'm actually ugly unlike the rest of this board it seems
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>>84247192
my sister's friend said I was good looking in photos like 2 months ago but I'm in my 30s, fat, and balding (I guess it wasn't visible since I bald mostly at crown?) but still not done self-improooving

anyway yeah I guess I was chad I had like 8 women interested in me from middle to high school, still a virgin though lmao
a failed chad, I really am a subhuman
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>>84258405
for a laugh, can't a nigga make a joke anymore around this bitch?
*pushes you*
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>>84255552
a high school girl told me while I was eating a cheeseburger that I should be a model
but alas, I'm just a humble gardener



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