How are people getting laid left and right, I can't even get a girl to text me back.
>>84253641it do be like that for some peopleat some point you just kinda stop caring
>>84253641>>84253641Maybe you're not good at communicating. I noticed a lot of younger guys (early 20s) are especially bad at having engaging conversations with women. They would start a conversation with me but couldn't keep it up. I'd often end up asking them questions without being asked anything back. I assume they're not interested in talking so I stop engaging and then they hit you with "hi" again without any substance. They also tend to answer with one or two words, let's say I ask them about their hobbies, I'd get back "gamig"... so I ask which games they enjoy and they tell me the games they enjoy ... but they don't ask back about my hobbies, if I play games, anyhing..
>>84253740I make the massive assumption that most robot/incels always try dating as if it's going to be a relationship instead of dating for sex. Even when they just want sex. When I want sex, I just date for sex. It changes a lot of dating requirements that way.
>>84253958you got the right idea, be direct in what you want with who you wantlots of robots just circle around the girl trying to find the perfect moment, but honestly? you just can't, you just gotta go for it
>>84253972I mean, a lot of traits people look for in a mate doesn't matter when it's just sex. I don't really care about her body count when I don't plan on seeing her again.
>>84254009incels are like these confused little gremlins who think having a relationship = sexand it's true to a point, but that ain't supposed to be one's main intention
>>84253740I don't think I'm like that, but I think it's an issue with younger people in general. I have no issues talking to older people at all. I'm actually quite well-liked in my workplace for what it's worth. Talking to women my age or younger these days without trying to be a jester is hellish.
>>84253641most cases, not all, but most cases, foids like guys who are dumber than they aremeaning, you have to be REALLY REALLY REALLY dumbNOT pretend dumbi mean, straight up, lowest of low iq DUMBfoids gravitate towards that shitwhybecause retarded men are easy to control, easy to lie to, easy to manipulateas soon as a foid gets a hint of your power level, they bouncethey hate that shit, they cant stand smart mensmart men scares them because they know smart men will take no bullshit and THEY the foids will have to bend the knee to their dominate mindsso, dont believe in this whole looksmaxxing thingits all bullshit psyop, just like dei and woke propaganda in the leftie media
heres a rule of thumb when it comes to foidsif you know right from wrong, then a foid will not like yousimple as
because most, no all, foids are dumbthis is what they are drawn toit is, what it is
>>84253740i get nervous talking to people so i forget to ask them questions. i can do that if im talking to a friend. also stop larping as a female
>>84253641A small handful of Chads are fucking all the women, the rest of us get nothing. Why do you think there are more male virgins than female virgins? Why less males report being in relationship than females?>>84253958>>84253972Why do you people keep thinking incels are just not trying hard enough? As if you can negotiate attraction. Incels are men with something seriously wrong with them that prevents them engaging in a crucial part of the human experience, and all you do is mock us>>84254030What is the difference between a relationship and a friendship then if not sex? And yes, "friends with benefits" is a relationship
The all-American middle class childhood with stuff like summer camp and school dances to build up your confidence is in decline. You're way more likely to have had a single mom who couldn't afford extracurriculars, strict immigrant parents who didn't let you do anything fun, or protective suburban parents who literally tracked your movements and gave an iPad to shut you up. If you had decent parents or had to learn social skills through brute force in the era when staying home was boring, the perspective of an incel is totally alien to you. That's why they always give generic advice like "be yourself!">>84253972This too. Normies realize it's a numbers game. You can critique them for not really caring about long-term compatibility but at least they're putting themselves out there. Every girlfriend I've had I sealed the deal right away. Introverts will often try to maneuver so they know the answer will be "yes" because going out on a limb by asking a girl out. Or wait for a breakup that might never happen. Extroverts realize they have to just go for it and move on if she says no.
i hate women so much you wouldn't believe
>>84254271>>84254203this is who women likehttps://youtu.be/nA8ofrFtgRA?si=TDfseITTL0_u7nVOhttps://youtu.be/MhW-do2YSVc?si=nhsu_ueuyCnRmDC7https://youtu.be/InqGp7C0qmM?si=1T4XrmKrv3639RENhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C8EnGcXjrnw&list=RDC8EnGcXjrnw&start_radio=1
>>84253641you need to be physically attractive. thats 90% of it. look up the halo effect. people judge you based on how you look.
>>84254635women never talked to me in my whole life and im 40
>>84254567Factual and true. So much of the hand-wringing and question-posing the men in the online whine-o-sphere spend their days contemplating stems from them trying to participate in the world while running a 15-20+ year deficit in social skills. What is hard to see as a bog standard adult aspie is that the people who you look at and see as 'normal' are actually experts in a game you don't even know you're playing. But it's not because they're some Hannibal Lecter 200IQ ubermensch, it's because their parents socialised them from an early age. These kids talk, play and laugh with their siblings, cousins, the kids on the block, the other kids in nursery, in school, at clubs, all the time over and over and over. And they didn't start when they were 12 years old and suddenly realised girls made them feel funny. They started as soon as they were crawling and walking. They socialise as they live and breathe. Because their parents weren't fucking insane, their parents probably weren't divorced, and because their parents and wider families loved them and never stopped loving them.You can't make friends and you can't have sex the same way you can't sit down at a piano and extract a Beethoven concerto like a concert pianist can. You never learned how to socialise. Your parents didn't give a shit. They either didn't realise the importance of socialising their children or they just... didn't care. You can still function as an adult, you can work, you can wipe your own arse, you can heat up food and eat it. But what you cannot do is make up for 10, 15, 20+ years of social interactions that never fucking happened. You can't adapt to what you never experienced in the first place.And now as adults, the people who DID get socialised properly in their youth don't want to interact with you. Because you're weird. It's not your fault, but it's the truth. These normal, adjusted adults want to interact with people like them. And they have plenty to choose from.
>>84254734I blame my parents for the fact Im an only child while they were the only children too and there were no kids in my neighborhood so I spent my childhood almost entirely alone with no siblings, cousins or neighbors, it never began for me and I realize now that its not because I was born this way but I wasnt socialized enough and now its too late, never even had a girlfriend ffs. Im a failed normie.
>>84253740yeah online communication these days just feel so stunted.. I agree it's lack of interest, it's hard to put the effort in an asynchronous environment like a chat. Just need to see how the incels chimp out and believe a woman that doesn't answer in 5 minutes must have been talking with 1000 other men or something to understand the lack of effort involved
>>84254734Absolute nonsense, socializing is very easy. It's not le 1000 hours skill.
>>84253641>I can't even get a girl to text me back.because youre ugly and this is why you dont deserve loveim projecting btw
These takes are weird to me and while I think some are correct for some incels, but i'm very well socialized and have lots of friends. I genuinely have to beg off spending time with people or i'd be spending all day, every day, with people. I'm not ugly either, I dress better than most people I spend time with too who are all wearing tracksuits, and the only thing aesthetically that's "wrong" with me is being super short at 5'3. Other than that alone, which I know is an issue because it's been said repeatedly, is that I don't drink or smoke weed. Everybody seems to do one or the other.
>>84254105Time to find a cougar
>>84254203This pretty much. I'm 6'2", white, big dick and I'm 40 but I look very young like ryan gosling in bladerunner unironically. I'm smart. But because I'm smart I don't rely on others and don't value socializing much unless the other party puts in effort. I have a deep voice and have been told many times I should be in radio. I have a brand new vehicle and investments. I have lived alone for over 15 years.There's a special kind of feeling you get when you ARE attractive but hopelessly single. Women do the whole "HOW ARE YOU SINGLE?" and then I ask them out and they say no. When I do get women they drop me very quickly because I hold lies against them, an example is an ex that trash talked the shit out of her sister who she was living with so she could move in with me ASAP... It was my introduction to her sister and I thought less of her sister because if it, since she was only living with her sister for 2 days. Then later on I brought it up when she was defending her sister and said it never happened... 50 lies like this were held onto photographically and 5 year old texts were shown... No reaction still denied it. I don't put up with that shit.The people I feel bad for are the ones that never had a chance and think they're missing out. You aren't. Women will put you on a treadmill wasting your money on the dumbest shit like a succubus then leave you the moment you go "hey this isn't fair".
>>84256607>Women do the whole "HOW ARE YOU SINGLE?" and then I ask them out and they say noThis drives me insane. Also when people talk about how I'm way too good for my job. Like sure it's a low level office job but it's close to my home and I feel comfortable there.Are you hiring? No? Then fuck off.
>>84256639The job thing is nuts. Women have a MASSIVE problem with my job, and that's what's been holding me back all along. But -I- don't need the money.I didn't know what job I wanted growing up, I was good with computers as a teenager so I went into computer repair. The field dried up and there wasn't really anywhere to go after. I was well known in town as a wizard and respected after 5yrs, working with many big names in town. Thing was, all I did was go to work. My coworkers were all men with kids. I did NOT encounter any woman for 5 years even though I worked 5 days a week and dealt with thousands of people.Now I just manage a small pizza place, I make $25/hr + tips, it's a job that works for me (focus on organization, efficiency and physical movement to keep me fit). I've met women at the lower class job because they work alongside me, I have women with me all day and they experience what kind of a person I am. It's gotten me laid, while nothing came from the skilled computer job.In my life I have enough. I have enough money set aside to put a sizable down payment on a house, but there's nowhere to meet women without harsh judgments. I won't put more effort into income until I have a drive to get it. On tinder women immediately ghost me when I tell them my job. Someone I know sent someone to my job to try to get me hired under them at a different job just to pull me away because otherwise there is zero chance of me having kids. All of it stems from women's judgment being placed on status, they absolutely will not take a pizzaman that makes $50k a year, they would prefer a broke unemployed drug dealer bringing in less than $15k because at least he's a big talker with ambitions and isn't at work half of the day.At this point I refuse to get a higher status job while living comfortably alone just to smite these women. It's getting spicier as some of the women that rejected me in their early 20s are in their 30s single and childless living with family.
>>84253958>Even when they just want sex.Most of us want relationships. This is probably why we're alone.
They are either women or they are top tier men.
