Why, when I go into big public vcs, like 5 people max, the conversation is always so flat and pleasant?What do they get out of this kind of conversation? Its like completely flat and just feels like people kicking a soccer ball around in damp weatherWhy don't they take the piss out of each other? Wheres the playful shit talking? Or something like thatI just dont understand it, I cant grasp it. Im not trying to sound like a 2cool4u faggot, but I just dont understand the appeal of these pleasant and flat conversations that these normies are having. Im clearly not getting it. How is it fun or entertaining at all to have those kind of conversations theyre having? Or are they not looking for fun/entertainment? They just want to talk? Can a normie whisperer explain this to a jackass like me pl0x
banter is only funny if you're with people you know you can joke around freely, if that degree of trust is already there. With strangers is just you being a retard.
>>84277656Yeah thats kinda what chatgpt said. I see I see. Arent there countries where strangers take the piss out of each other though? Like scotland or something
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>>84277663NoOnly on contexts like sports rivalries and stuff. But approaching someone you don't know with a rude comment is just stupid.Build some rapport first. You definitely wouldn't want to have your day ruined by randoms suddenly approaching you and having a laugh at your expense because you believe in autism
>>84277808Gotcha gotcha. Yeah I get it more now
>>84277635Because theyre lame and gay, you should be able to joke around and banter immediately, the line is obvious to anyone who isnt a total dimwit
>>84277635Sauce and more on that chocolate goddess?
>>84277635I don't get it either but I also don't like banter.
>>84277635normies just like talking, it's a soothing behavior for most of them in the same way autists like to fiddle with thingsalso i love black women so much it's unreal
>>84279981babylyraxx
>>84280111>babylyraxxBless your soul anon
>>84277635>Why don't they take the piss out of each other? Wheres the playful shit talking? Or something like thatI'm autistic and I always felt offended or threatened when guys did that to me, and so I responded with threats or insults rather than going along with the banter. Only after 30 I finally realized that's how neurotypical straight men bond. Makes so sense and it's fucking retarded. Some things you think would be harmless pranks I would instinctively murder someone for doing to me.
>>84281094I'm autistic and all the autistic girls I befriended here love banter I myself love having playful banter too
>>84281101Oh I love bantz on 4chan. But say that to my face not online motherfucker and see what happens.
>>84281136Man I just like to tease the people I love. I'm just cute like that
i "dated" a chick like that only she was skinnier and had bigger tits
>>84277635Normalfags, especially unacquainted normalfags, will adhere to basic social conventions because it's part of the process of sniffing like-minded people out with the least social risk. Banter works when you're clearly on the same wavelength or have some familiarity. I've personally experienced the issue of trying playful banter too soon with the wrong people. The reality is that most people are either:>1. Too smoothbrained and averse to comprehend what is being relayedor>2. Very defensive and passive-aggressive as a learned behaviorThere's also the issue of general social adherence. As an example, say there's a group of four people; three all acquainted, and you as a lone fourth. One person is amused by or interested in you, but the other two don't vibe with you. That person who may be intrigued by you is still likely to follow the herd with the other two because it's a social risk in alienating his existing group. It's basically a social shit test by people who are too afraid to stand out for risk of being excluded or ostracized otherwise. It's not like everyone is like this, but many groups are.These are just my observations as an autist, so take them with a grain of salt. It's not like there aren't exceptions. It's just increasingly harder as the years pass by, and social groups become increasingly exclusive and outwardly distrusting.
>>84277635>when I go into big public vcsWhat is a public vcs?
>>84281577public voice chats
>>84281601Ok thanks. I have no knowledge of them.
>>84277663>Like scotland or somethingYes it's very common here but there's always some nigger who acts like a woman and takes it seriously and uses it for clout. He'll shit talk you all day but can't handle it back and try square up to you if he thinks you'll back down, but not if he thinks you won't and if he thinks that he'll try tag team with you on someone else with the banter. He'll cross the line of what appropriate banter is then act like you're the wrong-un for getting offended but, like I said, he's a sensitive foid-souled cunt and can't handle the banter himself.Total foid behaviour and these niggers deserve the stabbing they inevitably get.
Dude I want to fuck a nerdy black girl that's into cosplaying so bad. I can help her get over self esteem issues. They're literally the best girlfriends!
