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>be hypersexual pervert who's into freaky shit
>don't look the part
>because of this, only attract the genuine good girls
loving family, stable life, nice and kind to everyone, religious to boot

I don't know how to exactly change my look to better fit my personality, seems like nothing works
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>>84291929
I attract no girls

Eat shit
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>>84291929
So did you make that other thread over there too or just poach it for here?
I guess the replies will answer that.
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>>84291942
what thread, nigger?

>>84291941
it's a skill thing
i was a fat fuck up till college, got no bitches at all
post-college, lost a ton of weight and put on some muscles due to work and I'm decent now
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>>84291968
That means your genetics are good. If you were an incel women wouldn't look at you even if you had a body of apollon. Constantly see handsome fat guys with gfs, but for someone average (body-wise) like me it's impossible.
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I hope you die an horrible death
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>>84291929
Same problem. I want to sleep around, or at least have a girlfriend that's down to fuck a lot. Keep attracting virgins who tell me they feel like they can trust me and give me their virginity after dating a bit when I want to fuck on the second/third date.
Even when I target girls who act slutty and go clubbing, turns out it's all an act and they don't actually fuck.
Had a nympho latina girlfriend once. I still want to blow my brains out for fumbling her sometimes.
>>84291968
Probably reddit or some gay shit
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>>84292774
>if you were an incel
You understand an incel is created, not born, right? Incel is not a physical quality, it is the result of a combination of physical and emotional characteristics. So much more than just 'genetics'. To say it's just genetics proves you are a basic bitch who doesn't deserve a woman anyway. You're not emotionally mature enough, too socially stunted. It's not your body that makes you undesirable to woman, I assure you, though I'm sure it doesn't help. Do you work on yourself? Do you go to therapy? Do you go to the gym? To say 'someone average, it's impossible' proves you are not average. Maybe physically you are, but if that's the case, there is something else that is bringing you down and making you undesirable.

'Someone average';
https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/average-number-of-sexual-partners-by-country

Even in the countries with the worst stats the average man has multiple sexual partners in their lifetime.

And before you go saying 'it's a minority of men skewing the statistics', consider that US studies found (from Wikipedia):

>A 1994 study in the United States, which looked at the number of sexual partners in a lifetime, found 20% of heterosexual men had one partner, 55% had two to 20 partners, and 25% had more than 20 sexual partners.More recent studies have reported similar numbers.

And:

> Among young adults, 1 in 20 is a virgin.
From:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/34404502/

Which is considered an *increase*. 5% of young adult men are virgins (at least, in Europe. Presumably this number decreases, the older the sample group.

The average man is getting laid as a young adult. If you are not, you are *not* in the average. You are the outlier, which should make you ask the question "what is it *about me* that makes me sexless?", but instead you ask "what is it about society/women that makes me sexless?"

Maybe that's part of the problem - incels would rather point blame, or whinge, rather than improve.
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>>84294007
>Had a nympho latina girlfriend once
This is the dream
This is the ideal...
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>>84294007
some people die of thursts while some drown

Fuck, i missed on teen sex, so i couldn't get anybody's virginity,

I would love to be someone's first,. that experience is incredible

>>84294155
I think its about mindset, we have never been ever as well informed as we are, and now with all info, we truly can realise ,that this is it, thats life, nothing else ion universe

so everyone thinks herdonism is path and wanna have as much loveless sex, your idea of sex is very physical and has no sacredness....
same as teens doing it in school

seems very unnatural to me....Sex was a pair bonding thing
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>>84294155
>>84294155
Follow up;

Let's consider some basic questions. I don't care if you respond, these are rhetorical questions for you to contemplate, and answer to yourself truthfully.
- What efforts have I made in the last 12 months to improve myself physically?
- As above, but improve myself emotionally?
- As above, but improve myself spiritually/socially? (Not talking about religion here).
- Has anyone given me any genuine feedback on how I could improve myself? What did I do with that feedback? Did I act?
- In the last 12 months, did I make any effort with women?
- If yes, were those women proportionately similar to me? Eg, were they a similar level of physical attractiveness? Were they a similar level or emotional maturity?
- How did I last respond to rejection? Did I handle it in a healthy way? Do I know what 'handling it in a healthy way' even means?
- How would therapy change my life?
- if I have attended therapy, did I genuinely engage with it? Do I know what that means? What does 'engaging' look like?
- What are the flaws in my personality that I need to improve? How do I know what my flaws are? Do I have blind spots?

I sincerely recommend that if the answer to any of these questions is one of uncertainty, I suggest you Screenshot these questions and ask a therapist.
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>>84294255
>everyone thinks hedonism is path

Wrong. Stop right there. This kind of generalisation is how you ended up an iincel. Do you think people don't grow and develop past hedonism? Maybe you are projecting here.

>nothing else in the universe
Except what? Hedonism? Source please? Human philosophy spans thousands of years and questions about meaning and purpose, and their answers, are extremely broad and far reaching, even at the local level. Answers vary from hedonistic to divine, from nihilistic to entirely purpose-driven.

>Sex was a pair bonding thing
Source?

There are plenty of creatures we see in nature that have sex for pleasure, and historically humans have had (and used) contraception for thousands of years.


>seems unnatural to me
Well I'm sorry, that sucks for you, but reality and society have no obligation to match your expectations. You can recognise this, or live in your idealised delusion. The choice is yours. A therapist (ideally a female clinical psychologist) can help you unpack this and figure out the flaws in your thinking. Posting on r9k won't get you there, you will remain an incel.
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>>84294007
This whole thread is ragebait for incels lmao
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>>84294364
going past hedonism and accepting that hoeing around was bad? when it is pretty much explained in details already

>Human philosophy spans thousands of years and questions about meaning and purpose, and their answers, are extremely broad and far reaching, even at the local level. Answers vary from hedonistic to divine, from nihilistic to entirely purpose-driven.

At no point in human history were humans celebrating promiscuity the way they are celebrating and calling it a norm

your jewish goyslop even normalise it for teens to have sex at 13-14 and now the shit has reached to every part of world

you can't hide behind phjilosophy and say their is somerthing more

philosphy asks you to be mongomous , not hypergamous, and yet our society chose this and started teaching promiscuity rather than ethics,

you inst66alled wrong teachings and now started to shame others who had morals,.

>There are plenty of creatures we see in nature that have sex for pleasure, and historically humans have had (and used) contraception for thousands of years.

In nature I would kill you and impregnate your wife and daughter, wanna go threre?

>Well I'm sorry, that sucks for you, but reality and society have no obligation to match your expectations. You can recognise this, or live in your idealised delusion. The choice is yours. A therapist (ideally a female clinical psychologist) can help you unpack this and figure out the flaws in your thinking. Posting on r9k won't get you there, you will remain an incel.

Feels like I am talking to a whore who can't digest the fact that she was whore and now wants everyone to be the same

Stop calling everyone incel, just goes onto show you have no suiibstance
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>>84294569
>>84294569
>no point in human history were humans celebrating promiscuity the way they are celebrating and calling it a norm

>ancient greeks having literal fuckboys

>kings and their consorts

>emperors and their concubines

Just because it wasn't practical for the average medieval peasant to host a dozen women, doesn't mean it wasn't desirable and done by those who could, or celebrated by those who did. Invention of mass media makes us more aware of these things, but doesn't change that fact.

>your jewish goyslop even normalise it for teens to have sex at 13-14 and now the shit has reached to every part of world

>immature, short-sided people entering the most hormonal period of their life act on their hormones, who woulda thunkit.
1 - I'm not the one normalising it
2 - Teenage pregnancy has existed a hell of a long time. Romeo and Juliette were 13 and ~15 years old respectively. It's literally a controversial element of islam, the age of mohammed's wife and age of consumation. There's nothing new here. If anything, age of consent laws are the deviation from the historic norm. And frankly, that's a *good* thing.

>philosphy asks you to be mongomous
Source? Polyamory exists, and has existed, in multiple societies. Polyamory has not caused the collapse of any societies. Good or bad in this instance, is a subjective measure governed by the culture of the day and people. It doesn't work for me, but why should I project my values onto others?

>In nature I would kill you and impregnate your wife and daughter, wanna go threre?
Non-sequitor. Your desire to act brutally doesn't tell us anything about the natural order. Humans evolved tribalistically, meaning they are predisposed to collaboration (with some big asterixes)

>Feels like I am talking to a whore who can't digest the fact that she was whore and now wants everyone to be the same
I'm a man lol.

>Stop calling everyone incel, just goes onto show you have no suiibstance
There we go projecting again.



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