My girlfriend who made a discord account so we could talk with somewhere else has been really unresponsive lately, but I've noticed she's been online on discord as of lately, even changing her profile and decorating it a bit. She's avoidant so I don't care too much about her being unresponsive, but I'm worried she's using discord to talking to other dudes..
>>84345498Do you not already have her phone number? Why would she make a new account to talk with you on a different platform if you're already dating?
>>84345514I have her whatsapp and instagram and twitter, I really just prefer discord to message onAlso maybe I should say this is a e-relationship
she might be talking to other people, but i can speak from personal experience that the profile decorations also just speak to our inherent female need to play dress up games and nest in our profiles to make them fun and cute. i only use discord to talk to one person, but i've spent more money than i care to admit on stupid little cosmetic stuff because pretty. she is probably cheating on you, though, idk
my gf left me for a guy she met in guild wars 2. if you notice her wanting more time alone she's probably talking to other guys. i recommend to hover behind her should to see what she's doing and gauge her reaction. if you don't live with her this might be harder to do .
>>84345535>Also maybe I should say this is a e-relationshipTalk about burying the lede
>>84345498edating in 2026
>>84345548I don't live with her, but she was just a depressed girl who'd play video games most of the time, which is why her status shown as online. Hahaha, sometimes even we played video games together without her having messaged me for days because that's how she is, but now the online status isn't just green, it's the green phone icon.. meaning she is using discord on her phone, which would be strange..>>84345536I understand women like to decorate, but we haven't messaged each other on discord in a month, and she only made the account even to talk with me, so why decorate something for no reason..Well, I don't know.
>>84345536>. i only use discord to talk to one person, but i've spent more money than i care to admit on stupid little cosmetic stuffare you retarded?
>>84345569It's the only hope people like me have, and I have the money willing to make it work
>>84345576>but we haven't messaged each other on discord in a month.. you cannot be truly serious>>84345581unbelievably so, yes
>>84345583>I have the money willing to make it worknigga why the fuck are you edating when you have money omgedating is for broke teens, you need to be on hinge and in bars if you got money
>>84345576so let me get this straight, you got prime epussy and you're not keeping that shit on a leash?
>>84345593We just switched over to a differnt platform to talk cause I got bored of discord>>84345594I'm not that rich, just enough money to make things like long distance relationships work, and it's not the longest distance ever>>84345596How would I keept it on a leash?
>>84345617if youre over 21 you gotta stop edating man listen to me that shit will go nowhere you need to find a real gf you need to go outsideim talking real pussy not epussy
>>84345498Start freymaxxing and move on
>>84345617>How would I keept it on a leash?forbid her from using apps, track her computer and phone. make her check in with you every hour on video call.
>>84345593are you dykebot? when are you posting more nudes? I want to crank my hog
>>84345569This.>>84345583No. There is no hope in e-dating anymore. Online relationships today are used purely for entertainment, attention, and for monetary reasons anymore. The only time you should ever get involved with a woman online is as a first contact point on a platform specifically for meeting people and getting together irl. You hit it off, get her number, arrange a date, and never message her online again. If that's not possible then you shouldn't waste your time. If she doesn't wanna give you her number then she's just playing games. She can just block you if things don't go well, so there's no reason a woman would be secretive about it unless she doesn't actually like you or want to meet up. Don't fall for it. If you pursue an online relationship you will be ghosted and discarded the moment you outlive your usefulness.tldr If you want a real relationship it has to be irl. If you want to be used then go ahead and e-date.
>>84345498play a game OP.don't message or talk to her for a week.if she doesn't message you at all, then you'll know.
>>84345498make her give you her login information and check who she's talking to periodically. I do that with all my efoids. If she refuses she's definitely talking to other dudes
>>84345617why do you need money for ldr?
yea maybe she needs to look up a guide for a game
>>84346546Flight costs, that is itI've never wasted money on the girl, so I know she's not milking me out of money, maybe just attention>>84346531Alright, I'll start this gameShe's avoidant so we'll see how it endsAlso, she keeps leaving me on seen and then respnding hours later>>84345677I have her number and her personal information, I know a time waster when I see one. I'll see how it goes, though>>84345641I'm not that tyrannical because it's not like she seems super secretive, every time I've ask her to do something she done it
more than just cheating, she has a whole ass other LIFE she's not telling you about. Asking about it will make her defensive, and if you ask for proof she'll claim you're overstepping the boundaries of the relationship or being controlling. She'll do all sorts of mental gymnastics to enable her behavior, draw vague lines in the sand and think "well I'M not coming on to THEM so it's definitely not cheating" and you're the one who ultimately has to pay for her childishness.
>>84346580HAHAHA, I've never seen someone use discord as a game guide, but it could be :pShe's playing Nocturne right now and I remember my first playthrough I got lost as hell
>>84346620>shes not messaging you or talking to you every day at least once>shes getting distantits over. you're the reason she made a discord account, to get closer to you, but now? nothing.women mate. they get over you quick when you aren't needed.
>>84346620apparently all the a few mmos do guides on discord for... reasons. i guess it's cheaper to host
>>84346649That seems really riskyIf the server gets deleted what are they going to do>>84346636She's never been one to talk to me once a day, she is avoidant, that's how she is, on top of that she is depressed and from the diagnosis of someone like me which means nothing autistic.So it surprises me that she's been on discord everyday for so long>>84346619I think she might, she is actually quite the normie :(She has her friend group which I know about, then she has who knows how many guy friends, some weeks ago she showed me a screenshot of what appeared to be a BPD dude getting mad at her and jealous because she made another guy friend in front of him and so he blocked her and she was crying to me about it
>>84346684sounds like she gets 90% of her emotional needs met by her friend group and other people and only comes to you to be the self she's not allowed to be in their groupI imagine most of your conversations are her complaining about other people
>>84346684>too avoidant to text at least once a day>has giant normie drama filled irl friend groupLMAO
>>84346927>sounds like she gets 90% of her emotional needs met by her friend group and other people and only comes to you to be the self she's not allowed to be in their groupYeah, that sounds about rightI'd be sort of happy with this I think, I prefer this over her cheating on me
