>See my sibling for the first time in a year>Help her out and talk to her about life>Enthuse in her interests and hobbies>Feel happy she's doing well>Wake up next day>She yell at me over text for not being empathetic enough and laughs about my mental health issuesI think I've realized I need to cut contact.
She wanted you to fuck her
not all people deserve access to you OP>the first time someone shows you who they really are, believe them
>>84346993Assuming you are just another deranged incel that left out half the story
>>84347243As a fellow Redditor, this is the way
>>84347045This. I cut my older sisters out of my life at 30. Every single time I've gotten updated on toxic people their lives are the same bullshit drama over and over again. I don't want to live like that life is a limited amount of time. People like that just get worse and worse with age. 99% of people are not worth the immature bullshit they bring into your experience.
>>84346993You need to master your mind. Right now you believe you're fragile and need to defend yourself by avoiding her.
>>84347243>Go to her apartment and talk about her upcoming events and life>She starts breaking down after her stress and trauma>I hold her and pat her back and say I didn't know she was going through all this and cry w her and say I wish I was a better brother when we were young>wake up today>she says im a weird loser looking at her dildo that she had placed on the fucking counter (which I didn't even care about since it's her apartment idgaf, but I was taken aback bc I thought it was a microphone at first)>she yells at me simultaneously being a loner but also having had more loving relationships than herI don't know what else to say that won't get me doxed. The rest is just her is just her laughing at me over the trauma I had when I was child. Now you're going to ignore everything I said because I'm a sex-haver or some shit.>>84347271I wanted to cut off my family but I care for my sister. She's been through a lot and I don't want her to kill herself or something. But I know I have to go no contact with them all. I'll make sure she's in a good headspace then leave before that though.>>84347859I spent 5 hours texting her about everything she's yelling at me about but I'm tired and wanted to move on.
>>84346993Hope things go well for you buddy
>>84348122your "sibling" is a vulnerable (covert) narcissistyou damaged her ego somehow, probably her embarrassment of you seeing her sex toy, and now she's punishing you to even the scales (in her mind)so yeah cutting contact is the correct thing to do here
>>84348147I was thinking that too during our exchange. Both of our parents are narcissists and when we would argue she would divert, redirect, and then repeat what I said like a child just like our mom does. The times I said things that I knew would hit her emotionally she reverted to saying "How could you say that I just wanted to be a family" then right back to insulting me.I don't know if I'm ready to cut contact though. I just don't want anything bad to happen to her.
