>"a good relationship is built on reciprocation!" >every girl I was into was a complete mess who inspired me to fix all my own shit so I could pull her out of her own spiral>every single one fucked off or cheated on me the moment things weren't completely perfect>become jaded and bitter and give up on life>"no one is going to save you anon!"If they wouldn't save me then it's not a reciprocal relationship. I know the average person is functionally braindead but the cognitive dissonance is really the cherry on top that makes me think they all deserve to rot.
>>84357517Modern women are shit. It's not your fault man. Don't get gaslit into thinking you were the problem. It's a story as of as time itself. Women are utterly incapable of being actually good moral beings. They will always do what they think is best for themselves and leech their way into it. Things will change, or they won't. Either way don't get to caught up in these useless whores
>>84357517Sooooo... how does that disprove what people were saying to you about a good relationship being built on reciprocation? If anything, your experience is just reinforcing that point. You make no sense.
>>84357554I'm often prone to black and white thinking but still try to distance my self from fatalistic views like this. Because, if I accept this world view, I am deciding it's a universal constant that can only change with time, if it ever does, and as such, I will never get the things I want out of life, and therefor will never be happy, thus suicide is the only rational option. I know I was never once the problem, and in fact offered people life saving help and love. But how I view myself, even if I can prove my viewpoint, means nothing if no one else gives a fuck.>>84357575I think you may be retarded because nothing about what I said is even attempting to refute that a good relationship has reciprocation. What I am saying is I have been denied reciprocation whenever I have put the effort in, and so the obvious answer would be "don't put in the effort until someone proves deserving of it". But when I do that, I am simply told no one will save me - as in, no one will ever do for me what I would do for them. I am being told I should seek reciprocation but simultaneously being told it can't exist. The only other option would be to scale back how I treat others and become detached but that sounds hollow and completely defeats the purpose of 'love'.
I think relationships are outdated things we needed back before we had cities and now that we have them the concept of them has gone out the window.
>>84357601Even outside of sex, a desire for intimacy and connection is a base human need placed just below the need for food and water. We evolved to be social and to this day one of our highest forms of punishment is complete isolation. You're either just severely autistic, completely mindbroken, or in the throes of the behavioral sink. Not really meant as an insult though; if you can truly live life with that kind of detachment you're far more capable of happiness than I am.
>>84357517>>every girl I was into was a complete mess who inspired me to fix all my own shit so I could pull her out of her own spiral>>every single one fucked off or cheated on me the moment things weren't completely perfectIt could be worse. She could've tried grooming you into being a simp wage slave under the guise of "love" and wasted years of your life while pretending you would have a life together.
>>84357605>We evolved to be socialAnd we can evolve to stop that. Why aren't you doing your part and selectively breeding schizoid chads only?
>>84357517i wish i had a comfy little shithole dungeon to play bidya in. then i might not be so mad that indians are taking over earth. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2VkTFl1pMKg
>get a broken gf>drag her out of her landfill and uplift her to be a somewhat regular person>the second she becomes less disgusting she immediately cheats/monkeybranches to someone 'better'Yup, never worth it.
>>84358759Might've been better honestly. Would've meant I would be at a much better spot mentally and financially, so the prospect of finding someone else less evil would be more feasible. That's mostly cope though, if I'm broke I know people aren't pretending to love me my for money. >>84359127I don't relate to non-broken people because I was/am broken and still want a relationship so I don't really know how else I'm supposed to go about it at this point.
>>84359127The fact this has happened to me and so many men makes me feel like everything is just a fucking shit test at this point
>>84359174It happens constantly and yet any time you talk about it outside of autistic incel-adjacent spaces like this people jump down your throat saying you must have somehow deserved it because if you're a guy who's actually nice you'll just magically get a loving relationship regardless of literally any other factor.
>>84359127>>84359174> she immediately cheats/monkeybranchesThis is actually the better outcome. My ex not only took everything, but broke me as well.
