I'm turning 21 tomorrow and I have no friends, no hobbies, never had a girlfriend, still in community college, and don't want to go to university or get a job. What do I even do with my life at this point?
>>84357524Try and get friends, hobbies, a girlfriend, and complete community college?
>>84357528hi mio, do you still have a tulpa?
>>84357532Kind of? It's more like a character in my head that I talk to sometimes, you don't even have to call that a tulpa.
>>84357528all of those aside from the last are easier said than done I think
>>84357558You're right, I've been trying to do those things too with little success, how about you, have you been struggling?
>>84357579honestly I don't know where to even start with any of them
>>84357589I think it's a big thing of luck. Asking random women out doesn't mean you'll get a date, unless you're lucky and you end up hitting it off. Talking to random people doesn't mean you'll get a friend unless you're lucky and you end up hitting it off. The key point is to improve your chances by going to social events and asking women out, just don't go in expecting to actually get anything, it's like a gacha roll, can't expect to get something 100% of the time. And even after that, you can't expect them to be your friend or girlfriend forever, shit could go wrong or you find out that you're not really compatible. It's pretty discouraging, especially if you aren't an attractive or likeable person in the first place. I don't mean attractive as in looks, but in the overall package, like you're good looking and make great fun conversations and you have a magnetic personality that makes you naturally have a lot of friends whether you're extraverted or introverted.
