>girl has multiple photos of her in Japan>"huh i bet she'll have a lot to say about her trip, ill ask about it">picrel>minimally answers the question without further elaboration>no follow-up question asking if I've been>finishes with a close-ended statementchrist women are fucking horrible at talking man, i've spoken to literal autists that could hold a better conversationfoids, are you really all like this?
>>84365137>out yourself as a weeb>give her the ickwhat do you think is supposed to happen?
>>84365137Keep asking her questions anon it's not over yet. Keep being in pursuit, good luck. Women are objectively worse at conversations though.
>>84365148she literally travelled to japan you fucking retard you think she'll care if he's a weeb
>>84365137okay. HOW do you know if you are saying the right things? the purple messages sound like me. what did she do wrong here?
>>84365159Yes. Girls travel for the sake of it. She has probably been to other places. Weebs never travel to anywhere other than Japan.
>>84365161literally read the OP you stupid cunt>no follow up question>minimal, bland answer>finishes with a close-ended statement>difficult to reply to, more like a conversation enderit's not that difficult to understand. autists need to stay away from normal people, i can't stand you dumb faggots. socializing isn't rocket science you fucking subhuman
>>84365176This is where the retard OP outed himself. Should have asked which other places she has traveled to.
>>84365159one thing you need to learn is if girl likes [thing], [thing] is not interesting to you ever
>>84365137This is the talking to foids on discord experience
>>84365137Please understand, she has so many guys in her dms
>>84365485this>>84365137how do you not get that op, she's not into you. she's busy giving every single detail to chad
>>84365177It is really not difficult to reply to. People just don't put in any effort these days.
>>84365159>He visited 4chan you fucking retard you think he'll care if she's a troon?This is what yo sound like
>>84365702how would you reply there?
>>84365148>>84365153These two posts are exactly what's wrong with 4chanA simp and a woman
>>843651371) texting is not the same as talking irl, girls love to talk as their brain shuts off and they just flow, it's why they like venting issues and gossiping. Texting creates a buffer as they now have to put a bit more thought on what is typed up so they start to think if it's worth their time and what not2) Bold of you to assume you re the only person to ask her about those photos, to you it's an original thought that could go somewhere, to her it's guy #7813) That isn't a closed ended statement, that's baiting to see if you have plans to go and/or if you be interested in taking her. Also you could just say where you have been anyway, nothing about that comment closes the loop.This whole thing isn't she's horrible at communicating so much as you are the type that needs everything to work like a script of set answer and outcomes and any deviation shuts you down.
>>84365750>That isn't a closed ended statement, that's baiting to see if you have plans to go and/or if you be interested in taking her. Also you could just say where you have been anyway, nothing about that comment closes the loop.This is like watching trump supporters explain what he means
>>84365722>how would you reply there?Just going more in-depth about the places you went to in Tokyo could help a lot with the conversation, as it could tell a person what interests you have.
>>84365722Are you fishing for us to do your homework?Ha! you know what I'll help:>"Most definitely need to go back"reply1>"I hear you I was there in [xxxx] and it was the best time, [comment on who you were with if any one and wish you had better company]"reply2>"That good huh? I have never been myself and was thinking of going next year."reply3>"Really? I've been to [xxx] and [thoughts on your adventure] The game is to stop worrying about fucking up and treating the playtime that it is. Talking to people isn't about right and wrong responses, it's about getting inside the other persons head.
>>84365756That is how many people work anon, they don't ask questions or follow up, the make statements and see how you respond, in fact that's exactly what you did in that post, you didn't ask any questions, you made a statement, by your logic the thread should just stop and be over but it's not because you want engagement otherwise you would have never made the post.
>>84365778>Ha! you know what I'll help:This was cringe and very feminine
>>84365787I don't care your post on the socially inept board your opinion on anything is meaningless hot takes
>>84365778Yeah, that's not me, retard. I already sent her a reply, but will unmatch her if she continues being a brick wallAlso, the people in that reply chain seem to be confused as to who is who in my OP>inb4 "your reply is just as dry"Yeah, I'm testing to see if she's capable of typing out an original thought and asking me any kind of question
>>84365789Whats more feminine is inaction and overthinking.
>>84365801>Ha! you know what I'll help:Is very feminine check your estrogen levels
>>84365801Maintaining your dignity and not continuing to try an entertain a socially inept foid like a court jester isn't feminine
>>84365789Bro, that's what's going on in this thread also >>84365801>>84365798So you replied and seem to understand how this game works, but complained anyway? You are not good at this deception thing.
>>84365805well by your logic OP failed at that both making this thread and >>84365798 and to think this shit is court jester levels means you are fucked in the world because rhetoric and dialect is low energy shit to master and do. I mean, you are posting for replies no?
BREAKING NEWS: local anon contacts a woman who isnt interested in him and feels extremely dumbfounded .sources say he asked the woman only 1 question got an answer and expected her too keep blabbing about it .eye witness also reported that the anon still hasnt realized that she is probably talking to other guys whom she finds more interesting instead of him.the ministry of inter-sex relations have also released an advisory for the anon to ask her better questions/make the convo interesting or just leave the woman as she is clearly not interested in him instead of wasting his time and gaining a bit of engagement on 4chan.More at 9
>>84365835>namenigger>unfunny post he tried way too hard onIMMEDIATELY kill yourself
>>84365767lmao, do you even talk to women?
>>84365904>lmao, do you even talk to women?Most of my colleagues are women, and I do actually talk to some colleagues, so yes. The ones I talk to also aren't zoomers, which revolves back to my point that people these days are lazy.
>>84365137>>84365798Garbage game kys soon brother
Dating apps are like picrel
>>84365159she literally says she wants to go back so she clearly liked it>>84365137>why do you wanna go backis your follow up question, with some flourish
>>84365787Absolutely obliterated op
>>84365798>talking about yourselfmistakealso i didn't like osaka rly
>>84365137Clearly she likes *doing* fun things, not talking about doing fun things. If you're the kind of guy who can facilitate her taking more trips, she may agree to date you. She may even be loyal for a while before cheating on you and leaving for someone more chad/more rich for more trips.
>>84365798Dude are you fucking retardedNobody wants to do small talk on these apps. Tell her to message you on your number, then ask her to call or ask her out on a date if youre a chad.
>>84365855>IMMEDIATELY kill yourselfnuh uh and it seems my message was received well
>>84365798Bad message, you made it about yourself instead of keeping the attention on her.
>all these faggots itt acting like rizzlords
>>84366363It's always hilarious because we're on /r9k/ and I just know it has to be the stankiest, fattest retards larping like they have game
>>84365137That usually means they aren't interested in you, because girls (and people in general) who are would ask follow up questions and try to keep the conversation going. There's nothing to see here, just move on.
>>84365177okay so why are you having so much trouble replying to what she said?? just ask another question? that's what everyone tells me to do
>>84365137>finishes with a close-ended statementWhat kind of parents did you have exactly? Did you always need permission to talk to people? >>84366363>A rizzlord is a person having having basic social skills I had no idea things were getting so grim.
>>84366438Yeah, I know this is the answer, but like why did this retard match with me then
>>84366438>girls asking follow up questions unless youre above themkekIm not understanding what you guys are seeing though, she said enough to keep the conversation going. She said she went to tokyo and near it, giving you an opportunity to comment on that, and also said she wanted to go back, also something you could comment on.Im really not seeing the idea that she gave a brick wall response. Not sure if you guys think people need to type paragraphs in response or need to ask questions but what she said was relatively fine
>>84366438That or they are like OP and they are just taught a certain way of acting and signals get mixed up. Some girls think they look needy if they ask questions or do all the talking, some boys think they look needy if they ask questions or do all the talking, so when you get those types together they just start hating each other because they think the other person is doing something wrong and the apps make millions off of those match ups. Now that I type that out it's likely why outgoing people have it so easy is they just plow through things without thinking about anything being "right" or "wrong", so eventually things do just work out because they grind away without much thought. Meanwhile OP is being eaten alive over one interaction when he should be just behaving like he wants and not worrying about anything else.
>>84366363everyone is a tall big dicked 9/10 faced rizz god on r9k. truly incels and indian men have no shame
>>84366837I'm starting to think they played too many Games/VNs that had shitty romances in them that are nothing like how real people talk so they just crash out when trying to talk to real people and to make matters worse, not getting the girl feels like a "game over" screen
>>84366837Asking questions, especially in this context, is an expression of interest. Do you know how boring it is to talk to someone who only reacts to what you say and doesn't add anything to the conversation? Even AI asks you questions.
>>84367044>Asking questions, especially in this context, is an expression of interest.Sure, and I agree with you on that, but you cant expect a woman to ask questions back, on a dating app, unless youre Chad and she knows you have a shitton of options, so she has to competeYou have to play the game, and its obnoxious as fuck, but if you want pussy, you have to. She gave you some stuff to reply to. She said she has been to tokyo. Thats ez to reply to. Say some (a little) stuff about you to make it seem like youre not grilling her/playing 20 questions and then turn it back to her. Something like "Yeah Tokyo seems pretty cool, never been but want to for sure. How good is the ramen in Tokyo, I bet its good as fuck"Or you could make a stupid joke like "You went to Tokyo? I already know you went to an anime convention over there lol" I'm not even sure if there are anime conventions in Tokyo frequently, but its just a stupid assumption you can make to move the conversation forward. You could say that assuming she went to an anime convention could be calling her nerdy/geeky, but thats debatableAll I'm saying is that she gave enough for you to make conversation with. And questions are not required, or a given when speaking to a woman.
>>84367044>Do you know how boring it is to talk to someone who only reacts to what you say and doesn't add anything to the conversation?Thing is this isn't a friendly conversation during a walk or you driving across the country with friends, it's a vetting system. It primes different behaviors. If you want something more organic you -need- to go and date in the real world. Online it's an application system the that person isn't wanting to hold a conversation with you, they are wanting to see if it's even worth doing that much with you. This is what a lot of lower end guys fuck up on, they think dating online is easier/better/safer than the real world not understanding it's the complete opposite, you are dealing with people that want you to prove you are worth their time because if all they were after is a nice conversationalist they never use dating apps, they just go out in the real world and see what was there.
>>84367092>its obnoxious as fuckIs it? When did typing text to strangers become so much work? I get why it's hard irl, standing there talking to a girl in a bar/shop/club and having all the witness watching your attempts at wining her over and having the double pressure of having to sound good and behave well, but texting is about as simple as you can get. Am I just not understanding how out of depth humans are anymore with interactions with each other?
foids love to travel to countries and take pictures. doesnt mean they know anything about those countries or care about them.
>>84367092Questions are not required, or a given when speaking to anyone anon. Look at 4chan. It's only when a chance of love or pussy is on the line do things like the OP happen.You think he be bitching this way at all if it was just some dude he was gaming with? Hell no, he just ask more questions without a care about a "closed ended statement" but this poor fucker wants pussy bad, so bad that it's making him create threads about how much he's stressing about saying the right thing to some girl he didn't even know existed a fucking day ago. Ya'll make your own problems.
>>84365137Buddy , I filled a captcha to tell you this is entirely your fault. Have some self awareness. no wonder your single.
>>84365137Literally 0 correct answers here.The average foid on a dating app is just baiting for simps to pay for their trips, what she wants you to ask is if she wants to go with you soon.
>>84367044You're 100% correct, but only trannies, foids, and deluded incels are replying to you
>>84366592yeah this is bait there's no way you're this retardedsomeone just asking questions and getting nothing but one-sided answers isn't a conversation lmfao
OP IGNORE ALL OTHER ADVICE AND JUST LIKE HER MESSAGE AND SAY NOTHING
>>84365137She answered your question, what else do you want. If it's someone you have never met irl you shouldn't expect to have sustained interest from anyone. There's just not reason for it to happen if it's not some spammer begging for friends here or on >>>/soc/There's simply nothing resembling a layer of trust yet to pretend the conversation should flow like that.
>>84365137She saw your profile, did the calculus and thought, "Hmm, maybe I could be into this guy" but then she matched with 10 other guys she's definitely into. That's all it is. Your interest might be aligned, but women twist themselves into knots over aesthetics. She can tolerate a completely mind numbing normgroid, if they're attractive because that's the only thing that makes her pussy wet. Maybe in another universe, you and her could have been friends, but never lovers.
>>84367887Why would this work unless he's Chad? Women don't care about some average dude pretending to not care unless she already has some kind of vested interest or he's attractive
>>84365137You really want tho? everyone and their cat knows women who travel just to travel get railed.
>>84365137Are you expecting her to write you a whole fucking phone-book-sized description of her trip? For some guy she doesn't even know, who could likely fall through for whatever reason? Set up a date and ask her in person, retard.
>>84367044>Do you know how boring it is to talk to someone who only reacts to what you say and doesn't add anything to the conversation? What? You want them to entertain you? Are you a woman?
>>84365750>to her it's guy #781And that's why dating apps were a fucking mistake.
women travel to take photos and make other women jealous. They also wrongly believe that they will attract higher value men because they believe it's seen as something high status and cultured people do. You are an autist for trying to interrogate her instead of just telling her how cool she is for traveling till she lets you fuck her.
>>84367933You should.. umm.. Kill yourself!
>>84368047So what you're saying is I didn't make her little pussy flaps quiver
>>84368056>You really want tho? everyone and their cat knows women who travel just to travel get railed.No I don't. I know this board is famous for being sexless but my body count is >15. I just wanted to hate on women because they suck ass and this board is decent for that
>>843657981. talking about yourself2. revealing that you do not have a lot of money Bad moves brother
>>84365137oh my god you little retarded baby, im talking to an autistic girl and no it doesnt have anything to do with autism, it may very well be she's just not into you, maybe her mood, could be anything, maybe she felt she lead the conversation so far. straight up super easy conversation to continue, just keep texting, youll get better.
>>84366953what is wrong with the kanji/kana in this? It's so fucked I can't read anything.AI?
>>84365137>time between texts>unironically using "sick" and "??"you're a faggot simp orbitershes not interested and farming you and at least 5 other guys for attentionand the guy shes triple texting hasn't even read her retarded bullshit in the past 12 hours and when he gets around to it, he still doesn't read it and just acknowledges the wall of text with a :thumbsup: then tells her hes free this weekend so she can come over
The advice you people are giving is such vapid fucking nonsense that I'm almost glad I'm single as fuck. Almost.
>>84368982Ah, love!
