do real switches exist? i think people who call themselves switches either don't actually get the appeal in being sexually dominant or submissive so theyre fine doing either, or have a strong preference for one side. or started liking one side later in life which doesn't count. i literally don't believe they exist but i hope so, that's the ideal person
>>84378693I legitimately like both of them, but I'm a man, so your search for the ultimate unicorn (a switch foid) goes on.
>>84378693I'm a straight male and a dom-leaning switch. Except for the subbiest of subs, most girls can get into being a sub-leaning switch when they're comfortable enough with you. They just need a little encouragement, reassurance that you really will like it and some ideas to help get them started. Usually I like to boss my partner around and make her my bitch. Sometimes it's fun for her to take control and make me her bitch instead.
>>84378738"sometimes" being submissive isn't what i mean by a switch
>>84378693i sort of am but its because i have a feral sexuality. in order to get turned on i usually like to start sexual encounters with physical fights or wrestling. then the winner uses physical power to have control. i dont mind if i win or lose, i just enjoy having a good experience.
>>84378743I know it's not. I'm saying the best way to find a foid that's somewhat compatible with what you want is to be OK with taking on a dominant role more often than not because being dominated is just what the vast majority of women prefer. If you insist on a 50/50 true switch split you're probably going to give her the ick. But if you go for 75/25 most women will get onboard with it.