>>84380710

As with anything, you're more likely to hear about the negative outcomes than the positive ones.

>>84380830
See but I've had nothing but negative outcomes from that board after over a year of trying.

>>84380710
ive met way better foids on r9k than soc

>>84380710
maybe the success story were the retards we scammed along the way

>>84380710
i eventually got to talk to someone for a month (after trying multiple times). now ghosted. was nice while it lasted i guess. "just get lucky bro", basically nobody adds you unless you make yourself stand out or use some bullshit to attract vapid cunts and then it's all just useless foids attracted by the bullshit adding you rather than someone you'd actually want to talk to.
a guy will add you and you can have a decent convo for a bit but going any longer than that just feels gay and doesn't work.

then there's the guys here who say "just meet a r9k foid bro i met my wife this way" yeah where? how? that shit seems to be a mirage, i've seen it happen only once before two people talking in a thread for a while and then exchanging their info, it was like watching two people fuse into each other and ascend away from this place in a divine spectacle, going from this plane of nonexistence into their own personal heaven, two people who found each other, like something that can only happen to the lucky chosen few. it made me want to kill them seeing it happen right before my eyes. they're probably a happy couple now.
but the weirdest thing is it having to start from a public conversation, and then posting your fucking discord on here, something feels incredibly wrong about it

>>84381657
You should find one and try to get sex off her

>>84381657
yeah online doesn't seem to work at all if you aren't doing much, it just feels like talking to a coworker or teacher or something like that, also i would try to post on 4chan but i do NOT want to use discord or whatever shitty platform because they watch every message and call, it feels incredibly wrong trying to talk about personal stuff on those types of platforms, but there aren't exactly any good private semi-popular alternatives

>>84380710
when i was 19 some girl added me and we sexted. surprisingly she messaged me the next day just wanting to talk so we chatted while i was at school and stuff. that night we sexted again, and it became a regular thing for a while. she was 25 or something, lived in the states. was an actual sex crazed freak. extremely submissive, was into roleplay, public stuff. she'd want me to give her orders while she was at school and all that. i was (still am) a retard when it came to sex so even though i was good at sexting i really had no clue how to handle some of the stuff she wanted to do but i tried my best lol

eventually she started getting really obsessive, very lovey dovey, that kind of thing. i really was not interested in something like that so i tried to gently talk her down but she'd go right back to it the next day, saying she loves me and stuff. she didn't even know what i looked like or sounded like. eventually she started seriously talking about buying plane tickets to come to me. i was weirded the fuck out at this point. on top of that, i was 19, a virgin, afraid she might think i'm ugly (i am), generally autistic, etc. so i had no idea how to handle this and wanted no part of it. so i gathered up my courage and unfriended her. for the next half day she proceeded to send a million friend requests, and i got fed up and blocked her. i still feel bad about it to this day, which is why i'm talking about it. i don't necessarily regret it or think i'm an idiot for doing it though. obviously if things worked out i would've had my balls drained 4 times a day with her, but i have no interest in casual sex like that (yes, despite going on soc) and i had no interest in her as anything more than a friend. oh well. i hope she's doing alright.

>>84380710
I've added dozens of people from /soc/. One ended up becoming one of my best friends for close to a decade now, and the other helped me get my writing career off the ground. Pretty great outcome would recommend.

>>84380830
You don't get positive outcomes unless you lie in your bio

>>84381657
a lot of times I just post my tag and nobody responds but I get adds. to a third party it just looks like a sad spam though so you wouldn't notice. try it

>>84382464
unless you change your posts somewhat, it'll have spam written all over it

>>84382470
so do that retard. the point is most r9k foids are too skittish to talk much in a thread or post their own tag but if you post yours they silently add you

>>84382464
i do that. seems more miss than hit. basically nobody added me the last time i did. i've only had one meaningful interaction happen and i've posted more than 5 times at this point. some minor interactions here and there that lasted for maybe an hour that are better than nothing but it still mostly feels empty

>>84382486
the problem is that those foids are very vapid and merely seeking a half hour of attention from you. i've been added my a lot of girls over the years (not even a humble brag, it's literally just a numbers game) and i don't think i can remember a single time that it wasn't immediately obvious they aren't on some bpd boredom binge

>>84382489
>>84382486
the only meaningful interactions you'll have with a girl from soc are the nsfw ones. the sfw ones literally do not care and will ghost you after 20 minutes

>>84382505
so it's lost if i'm not looking for nsfw and showing my face or voice and stuff like that.
had that impression anyway seeing 90% of threads there are coomer shit, i don't wanna bear near anyone in those threads

>>84382493
some of them are but they have a much better ratio than soc foids or ones who post their own tag on r9k

>>84382513
nah you don't have to show your face or your voice for nsfw stuff lol. not that hard to just flirt for a bit then steer the conversation into more nsfw territory

>>84380710
I can't think of a bigger waste of time than trying to find women on fucking 4chan of all places.

>>84382516
oh you were talking about r9k girls? lmao dude that's even worse. every single girl here is insane and literally only wants to collect orbiters. if you think there's a single normal, innocent girl on here just wanting some nice conversation and to make a normal friend i have a bridge to sell you. don't tell me you fall for the shy, awkward, lonely schtick too

>>84382523
i literally do not want to talk to a woman who goes to nsfw threads on /soc/

>>84382524
you are literally on the board where they're most common

>>84382532
then idk what you want from soc

>>84380710
>>84380710
I dated a guy from there for several years but it ended traumatically badly so no

>>84382542
just someone to talk to? an online soulmate? in one of the few sfw threads. it seems most people are obsessed with sex so much that it's their primary drive for finding another person, and i'm not one of them

>>84382573
you can look irl for that my friend. soulmate and online are oxymorons, especially when it comes to bpd girls on 4chan. don't actively seek out being just another victim

>>84382564
what happened
describe it to us

>>84382587
there's nothing for me irl
there must be one other person on the planet who's like me, i want to find them

>>84382533
Yeah and all the most "common" place has to offer is trannies, ghosters, and the most mentally ill freaks the planet has to offer. Good luck I'm sure your wife is waiting for you somewhere in here kek.

>>84382599
>gets mad about being proven wrong
ok...? i accept your concession i guess

>>84382593
Idk a lot of things happened. One major thing was, I wanted to get married, he never did but wasn't upfront about that untilt he end, and was talking about having kids unmarried. I don't really want to go into the traumatic stuff

>>84382607
This bait sucks. I genuinely feel bad for you. Go outside and talk to women instead of chasing ladyboys and schizos on message boards.

>>84382618
how did it start
did you do anything physical to begin with like voice chat or exchanging pictures? or did you talk first?

>>84382443
sounds like you made the right choice.

>>84382642
It started from one of those "draw yourself" ideal mate threads. We were long distance so we texted, voice/video chatted a lot and then met irl after 2 months.

>>84382688
but how much time from first contact to seeing what each other looked like?

>>84380710
There was that one time an incel cut some ten-timing foid's throat

>>84382717
I don't remember the exact time frame, but I think within a week of talking?

>>84380710
i think i've gotten pretty lucky most of the time, since most of the time it was just ghosting, and then i had one instance of where i had a nice convo but the guy was gay so we parted, and then i friended a girl who i still talk to with nothing too nsfw and plan to meet sometime this year to date, there is a chance but it is pretty fucked, i've had better chances just befriending and talking to people from /r9k if you know to avoid the bpdemons

I don't know why but /r9k/ does still seem like the best board for meeting femanons, even nowadays when it's slower. they always respond to "ask foids questions" threads (and they can't all be trannies). and there's many more lurkers besides that.
maybe this feels like a comfier version of /soc/ somehow?

>>84382923
most of the time they're just normies or tourists, it is the normie board followed up with /adv/ here and there

>>84382923
Yeah, i've had better interactions with guys on /r9k/ compared to the ones on /soc/. Obviously there's overlap but /r9k/ maleanons are more enjoyable to talk to and aren't ghost-happy NPCs

i lost my virginity to a homeles virgin girl and got her pregnant but she miscarried and she was upset about it. iwas glad though. sje asked me to marry her and i said yes bc i got attached to her and it seems like its hard to find genuinely loyal women. but i still dont know her or myself that well or if she really is the only woman i would ever want. idk. we're not talking as much anymore but ill try to get to know her better, i just dont really know what to say to her now. maybe ill marry her and get her pregnant again

>>84382951
you are retarded, just dump her and save her and yourself the pain now

i always try to make friends on r9k because people seem more interested in talking, most people in /soc/ kind of expect to get sexual at some point and that is annoying
anyway, the three women from /soc/ i talked to were painfully boring, expected me to carry all the conversations and had little to nothing to show off for themselves
i still add some people from time to time, r9k has plenty of bad people too but your chances are probably better

>>84382959
shes rlly attached to me and she says she used to hate men and im the first man she trusted bc i respect her and care about her and dont try to rape her and do what she wants me to do when we have sex . abd she said she rode me and she was taking out her rage against men on me and fucking me like a girl. idk i thought it was hot and i fell in love but maybe thats crazy behavior. i feel like leaving her would be evil now she begged me to never leave her and if i ever fuck another girl she would kill herself bc she owns me body and i said i wpuld be loyal and stay with her. maybe thats crazy behavior though but i like to think that i can make it work

>>84383005
Oh my fucking god the way you type is irritating. You clearly don't actually like her and just like the fact that she's so attached/dependent on you. End it now if you're not going to marry her

>>84383005
what's the problem? just date her for a while and give her a chance

>>84381451
I haven't had any success on either board but I think I've had much more meaningful and productive conversations from here.

>>84380710
I joined a discord server off /soc/ and have an internet friend group that's lasted about 4 years

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problem with /soc/ is that 99% of the people are just looking for other people to fix them, rather than to mutually communicate with.
Most of the guys there are looking for women or someone to get them off cause they're desperate
most of the women there are looking for attention or someone to entertain them cause they don't have much going on in their lives.
The very few in between people who are looking for people with mutual interests is very small. I wouldn't mind a dating/ERP board being made separate so i can actually talk with people who are into hobbies rather than the usual gooner or "femcel".

>>84383520
>99% of the people
Well, 99% of the real people. You're far more likely to come across a bot, scammer, or OnlyFans seller than a real person

Does it matter? Femanons aren't beyond female nature. They're essentially the same as normie IRL women at the end of the day.

>>84380710
>I tried to find my wife on 4chan and it was a bad experience!
The fuck did you expect?