god forbid i ever get a gf who watches the niggardly nigger minstrel show

>>84384562
have sex with me instead

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>>84384562
It happens.. Could be a number of reasons. How long have you guys been together, how often do you guys have sex, and does he have (or do you suspect him) or any mental illnesses?

>>84384562
>tfw will never get a gf that has a higher libido than me

>ywn have this
Guess I'll kms then

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>>84384562

Pomni's so desirable.

I have literally never had a gf who could satisfy my sex drive. It's honestly just better to be incel and jack off to porn. If I have a gf my sex drive goes through the roof and I want raw creampie sex at least 4-5 times a day. I wake them up with my cock slowly fucking them, then throughout the day I'll fuck them more - doesn't matter where could be standing in the hallway, pull over in my car, outdoors, doesn't matter. Just want to fuck and creampie my gfs constantly. And I love doing the just pull her panties to the side, fuck her, unload my cum in her then just pull her leggings back up. I never clean her up and want her walking round loaded up with my cum. Sometimes I'd even jack off into her panties then have her wear them going to work.

But itnnever works out. They get overwhelmed, it's too much, hardly any want to have sex on their period (I LOVE period sex), they make excuses their pussies can't take it bla bla bla it just gets annoying and I feel like I'm pressuring her into sex.

Now I'm an incel again and life is way more cruisy. Just jack off a couple times a day. No major stress or girl drama. I miss sex though ngl, surprisingly what I actually miss the most is going down on this one gf I had who was full 70s bush fuck it was hot. Never shaved her armpits either. I loved going down on her, even when she was on her period. God I'm so sexually frustrated. I haven't had sex all this year.

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>>84384641
You dont want this. You say you do, but you dont.

>>84384810
It sucks being the woman with a higher sex drive than your partner. I feel like a huge burden when I ask for sex, and he makes me feel like theres more important things we should be doing. Even though we rarely dote on each other and when we do I specifically have to ask for it. I always hear about dudes getting cucked in the bedroom and how their girlfriend/wife wont put out, but I never hear about it from a girls perspective. My boyfriend and I are very similar on every aspect except sex. It makes me emotional. I wish I could throw away my feelings about it and just stoicly go on with the rest of my day not caring, but man. It hurts sometimes. I know we love each other very much. I guess I need to stop being selfish and respect his sex drive.

>>84384816
I will commit myself even when I don't want it, that's how much I want it.

>>84384852
Like dude do you just want to complain about it and get attention, like guys saying "Man I would SO FUCK YOU if I was your boyfriend"? or do you want to find a solution? I'm trying to ask more about your boyfriend but you're ignoring my message.

Why are you people on this board?

>>84384872
Im still typing out responses anon. Can you please be a little patient

>>84384594
>t. muhammed
Im gonna pass.

>>84384877
>another anon didn't get the memo about most robots were just larping as incels

>>84384627
Been together around five or six years. Once every couple months. No, hes quite sane.

>>84384909
I didn't mean mentally ill as in insane, I mean even disorders like ADHD or autism can affect it. If he's out of shape and a bit pudgy, that'll affect it. If he's eating shitty processed food, that'll affect it. If he's got a lot to stress about in his life this entire time, that'll affect it. I mean you can google all the things that affect this in men. Really you should sit him down, go "This lack of sex is making me feel [unattractive, undesired, less of a woman, etc] because of the rejection I keep experiencing. Can we please work together to find a solution that works for us both?" And get him to go get his testosterone tested. And if he's using any porn or jerking off, ask him if he can refrain (either forever for porn, and no jerking off for a week or two) and see if that brings back his libido.

(You don't have to read this part)
My boyfriend used to have a high drive when we started dating, but it simmered into once every 3-4 months. It's slowly been improving since I spoke to him about it, but what's causing it is a bit more complex than testosterones (that's why you want to hope it's that testosterone). The solution I found was telling him how I felt, and him realizing it's important for him to express externally how he feels about me, and attraction towards me. The negative feelings I felt about the whole thing has been resolved by him making time to cuddle with me, and him frequently expressing attraction and desire.

>>84384852
I need this so much but will never have it
Depression

>>84384852
maybe hes just gay

>>84385019
>anon wants to neglect his wife sexually

>>84385075
No I want a hyper horny wife to satisfy and be at her whim sexually

>>84385087
That gets exhausting when hes not equally horny and taking initiative

>>84384877
i think /r9k/ became some kind of normie tourist board a while ago, the "robot"/"fembot" culture is gone

>>84384973
Thank you for the response. Ive tried talking to him about it and he reacted negatively sort of. Dude. I wish he expressed his attraction to me more often. Do I need to put on makeup? I dont wear any. I dont dress slutty. What can I do?
And yeah, hes been eating kinda poorly lately but hes pretty fit overall

>>84385091
I would sacrifice my energy for it

>>84384909
>Once every couple months.
That's either some seriously low T, you're in your 50s, or he's cheating on you.

>>84385102
>imagine having a qt horny gf and not pouncing on her nonstop
I don't get it

>>84385102
>he reacted negatively sort of
I mean that kind of might be where things are going wrong. I have no idea what you said, how he took it, if it was a bad day, how he reacted, or whatever, but like you are never going to fix this issue alone.

He needs to know how you feel about it, you need to understand how he feels about it, he needs to explain the reason (if there is one), and you both need to work towards a solution that works for you both.
It's a big problem if he doesn't want to work to find a solution to this.
Chatgpt could be good for drafting up what you should say in a non-inflammatory way so he might receive it better as I imagine it could be a sensitive topic for him

>Do I need to put on makeup? Dress slutty?
I doubt it would work, and you need to understand you'd most likely be setting yourself up for rejection, which will hurt after all the work; but it could help your case with him working on the issue (i.e. "I've done everything I can on my side, makeup, dressing sexy, and we still aren't being intimate")

And where
>>84385127
>he's cheating on you
I really doubt it, but if you are able to look at his phone without him noticing, maybe it wouldn't hurt. Best to plan out the best places to look so when you get a chance to look, you'll know where to search. Unless you have absolutely no concerns; it's mainly for you to settle fears

Regardless, tldr; you will never fix this if he's not willing to work with you to solve this. And if he's not willing to work on it, you either need to accept that you're going to be endlessly rejected, or just suppress your desires. Who knows, maybe suppressing yourself and rejecting him from then on out will help him get the idea

if i had a gf i'd have to hold myself back from groping her all the time. maybe that's what's happening with him. too much self control so she doesn't think he's a creep.