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Long story short: I broke up with my girlfriend because she told me that she was interested in a guy at her uni and that she had lost feelings on me and that she was sorry, she told me we could stay until she asked him out but I blocked her
She messaged me yesterday, saying she was sorry and to just talk with her, we vced for a while and I remembered why I loved this girl, we both got intimate in vc and I don't want to discuss any further details about that, but after we were just chilling, she tells me, "I am sorry for what I did, I just need someone that lives close to me and that I can hold, if you lived next to me I would have only loved you"
I really liked this girl.
I wish she wouldn't have done this to me, yesterday reminded me why I loved her..
I don't know what to do now
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>girl drop you like a hat to fuck chad
>chad dumps her a week later
>cry about it
>remember anon is still there
>call him and act sweet for 2 seconds
>he's immediately folding and wants to fuck you again
>realize you can probably do this again
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>>84401254
cut that fucking bitch off. Never deal with expedient whores
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>>84401254
She's 14, she's not going to university
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lmfao bro if you don't cut her out and look for someone new you are unironically caving to a demonic puppet of the devil. have you ever heard of a nymph. Idk you seem like the type to not take advice.

You should fuck her before you cut off contact
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>>84401271
The fuck are you on about??
>>84401269
Is she really thinking this way??
>>84401270
I will if she does something bad to me again
I fear for her mental health
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>>84401254
OP i've seen this story a million times, give me her disc and I can get the real truth from her since I'm a foid, and girls tell girls the truth always. you're probably just the guy she keeps on the side in case chad is busy
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>>84401254
Just fully cut contact with no exceptions. Shit like this only adds to the trauma.
t. been there done that
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>>84401299
If she broke your heart just to fuck chad once why wouldn't she do it again? The trust is broken and she knows you have no backbone.
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CITY BOIIIIII SIMP
CITY BOIII
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>>84401254
ougi's cuck adventures
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>>84401348
I don't know, she is honest with me always
It's a good trait about her
>>84401309
If I give you her discord, you promise not to act weird or tell her I made this thread?
>>84401346
Why, she treated me good
It felt genuine
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>>84401254
as a girl, she got rejected. fuck her honestly,
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>>84401254
Cut her off you fucking simp. Jfc
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>>84401254
>Ex-girlfriend who cheated
stopped reading fuck you loser cuck go meet more women norman so they can cuck your beta ass
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>>84402181
How do you know??
Please tell me :(
I asked her about the guy and if she asked him out yet and she just ignored that question
>>84402219
She is the only thing I have..
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>>84401254
I would never trust her again.
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>>84402226
>She is the only thing I have..
LOL. You don't even have her.
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>>84402234
She promised she would always be there for me
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>>84402262
Is that why she ditched your simp ass the moment she thought something better came along? Only to come crawling back the moment it didn't work out?
>Ex-girlfriend who cheated on me
As per your words. This is not someone you want around you.
I hope this is rage bait.
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>>84402292
I say cheated very loosely, she didn't really cheat on me, she told me about the guy before she even dated him, she just said she had feelings for him and that she was sorry and that she wanted to date him
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lol you're a cuck

also you already lost since you've shown you won't maintain your boundaries

1. cut her off again

2. keep her around and (important) fuck her but downgrade her into a booty call and nothing more. stop offering companionship and support and any of that crap.
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OP fell for the BPD attention seeking trap.

If you want your life to be a revolving door of getting discarded and hoovered then go for it. Have fun always looking over your shoulder and wondering what shes doing when shes not in your direct line of sight. You might also want to get regular testing for STDs lol
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>>84402324
This is called monkey branching. She used you to climb to a superior male. Never talk to her again it's already over.
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>>84401254
Amor de lejos, amor de pendejos
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>>84402174
>she is honest with me always
>she betrayed me on a whim for chadcock
You'll regret this
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>>84401254
How bored do you have to be to make this shit up just to get a conversation on this board
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>>84401254
Just use her for easy sex until someone better comes along. It could still be fun but I wouldn't be able to actually take her seriously ever again.
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>>84402174
yeah you can add me and we'll yap about it my tag is honestly.n i cant tell you how many times ive seen this
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>>84401254
OP just have sex with her while you look for a new girlfriend on the side. you're passing up free sex, and you can just cheat on her like she did to you. it doesn't matter anymore. you've got a free pass to take advantage of her and force her to understand what she did. then, if after cheating on her, she still wants you, then you'll know for sure she really loves you and is willing to pay for her mistake with pain.

i don't understand how nobody else has given you this advice yet. it seems so obvious.
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op is either a minor or a pedophile
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>>84402329
this is absolutely the best advice. this is actually the advice that will get you the most poon from her too
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>>84402902
>this is absolutely the best advice. this is actually the advice that will get you the most poon from her too
it'll just get him dumped. he needs to pretend to be a normal boyfriend while cheating on the side.
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>>84401299
Her mental health isn't your concern. Your own mental health is.

That said, here's what happened to her:
She's right, and she actually did the right thing.
She recognized that there's no future in an LDR, broke up with you before asking him out so she didn't cheat technically.
Grey area is contacting you again.
Idk if she had sex with him but it's pretty likely actually, and the proof was her expediency in resuming sexual contact (albeit e sex) with you. This is now a pattern of "use sex to get feels", a classic female strategy.

What you need to do is simple. Either move there or have her move here, make a concrete plan to be together in X years*, or break up and block her and honestly wish her well.
* Likely won't happen or she wouldn't have broken up the first time.

Listen up faggot. The heart must be subservient to the brain. Your inability to do this will make you the character who refuses to shoot the zombie rushing at him just because it used to be a loved one. "But I love her!" Then get chomped, gg.

>>84402324
What you need to internalize is this:
>she had me
>she said she loved me (assuming)
>but she still left me for someone else
Hell, even if she got rejected, that makes it worse.
>she left me for a CHANCE with someone else
Ask yourself this: do you love her, or the ideal you held that you projected onto her. Do you love the kind of person who sees fit to drop you on a whim?
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Also all the posters saying "lol fuck her, literally, keep her around as a booty call SEX SEX OMG I LOVE SEX" need to be ignored.
Sex will bond you to her more as you yourself mentioned in the OP. And at worst it will negatively affect your psyche. You don't want to become the kind of person who is honestly unaffected by casual sex.
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>>84402922
That's true. OP will probably not take any of this advice though. I've been where he is, when I was like 14 I was enamored with this chick that left me for someone else, her pussy wasn't that great either but I was smitten.

OP needs to wisen up and use her as fuckmeat. In the long run he's gonna understand why we say this.
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>>84401254
>I just need someone that lives close to me and that I can hold, if you lived next to me I would have only loved you
brutal.
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>>84402964
it's way easier to get another gf when you're taken though
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>>84402964
this is partially correct. it depends on OP's exact emotional state and relation to this girl. it is entirely possible to harden your heart. the question is if he will and why or why not.

>>84402982
that's crap. it's harder and generally a pain in the ass to manage the double life. this meme comes from the fact that guys who can get laid get laid more often than guys who can't get laid. obviously.
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>>84402964
You know what this is a pretty good point too. Nice one taoist buhhdist anon. The elevated perspective



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