36 y/o failson here. I don't want to die like this. Where do I even start? It's pretty much confirmed I can't work a big boy job; I spent most of my 20s chasing a career and then gave up at 28. I know I can't really expect to date anyone in my current state, but it feels like having a gf to support me would make life a whole lot easier. I don't really want to do all of this alone, although I do have my parents' support. The way I see it I should start by getting a healthier body/better diet (currently drinking 2-4 beers a day), and then maybe try to get a part-time job when I have more self-esteem.
>>84411820That sounds like me except I'm a few years olderHave you ever had a gf/are you a virgin?
>>84411825Few years younger** not older ffs
>>84411825>Have you ever had a gf/are you a virgin?Why? I've had a gf and am not a virgin, but that was when I was a teenager. I've also paid for sex when I was 25.
>>84411834>Paid for sexI suddenly lost whatever sympathy I had for you
>>84411859Let's be real, that was the entire point of that question.
>>84411863What's the point of paying for sex exactly? Esp if you've had a gf before
>>84411866No one is forcing you to participate in the thread anon. If you don't want to help me you don't have to.
>>84411859why does that bother you out of everything else?>>84411820>I spent most of my 20s chasing a career and then gave up at 28what career? what happened?
>>84411878>what career? what happened?I tried everything and just kept getting ghosted or ignored. It was kind of pathetic as far as I'm concerned. Even one of my program instructors in school fucking hated me and I guess it's because I was just wasting resources being there. Anyway, I've moved on from that.
>>84411878Because it's mentally setting yourself back.
