>>84426422
no, but it depends on if youre going to chastise him for touching his dick if you only fuck him once every 2 or 3 weeks. Ive had a gf where she wanted to fuck daily so I never even jerked off, was more than I naturally would anyway. Ive also had a gf where id be lucky if it was every 3 weeks due to her stomach issues and terrible diet which sucked. A happy medium would be twice in a week and during a period a blowie would suffice.

>>84426422
>Is it controversial if i don't want my future hubby to watch porn but instead would rather he use my vagina as a source of sexual pleasure?
This is fine except you need to remain as attractive as the people in the porn he watches and you must be an active participant in the sex activity and not just lay there like a dead fish.

>>84426422
no that sounds like the ideal relationship desu

>>84426422
That would be perfect, yes.

>>84426422
It depends, because if youre 100% sexualy compatible its alright to think that way. Still I think you have very small chance of meeting said person. Also I think you have to be pretty narrow-minded/plain, or just not have that much libido to get sated by vagina only. Like, imagine that you love pizza, hell, even italian food as a whole. Youre in luck because your gf is a great italian chef.
The only problem is that she dont prepare anything else, not that she dont know how, she just hates it period. She also hates when you dine by yourself, even if she not in the mood to cook with you. Basicly you can eat great italian food, but only when she wants to cook, otherwise you starve.
Sex/masturbation is natural thing that we do to get our hormon leveled, it builds the relationship, but you cant forget about its base functionality. For me I like to try many different quisines, I try to get my wife to try and enjoy it all with me, but were not the same person and while we enjoy most of things togheter, we still allow ourselfs a separate snack when we have munchies.

>>84426462
Tummy issues suck.

I mean sexual needs vary from person to person, but I'd need to feel wanted by my man, and if he is watching porn theres a void in the relationship.

I wish men had slightly less demanding sex drives. I dont mind sucking dick, its less messy lol

>>84426422
Yeah, it's kinda dumb. It's the equivalent of saying that you can't watch shows or play games because you're not sending that time with the girlfriend.

>>84426422
No but most men are porn addicts and have limb dick by 24 years old. Men just are not worth it anymore.

>>84426489
Well thats the issue, mens sex drive can be overhwelming, so laying there and letting my man pleasure his dick with my pussy seems to be fair.

What if im tired or feel gross, sometimes i worry im fat or i dont like my reflection and I don't want to make love. But i also want to keep my man happy, and i understand sex is very important to men, it is to women too but again it depends, for me i like it when men act normal after sex, part of their brain switches off and we can cuddle and just enjoy being close

>>84426514
>>84426493
Thats my ideal situation, I'd wear nice stuff, go on my exercise bike so im not a blob, and generally just try to focus on irl sexual stuff so he doesn't need porn, i really... meh im ambivalent, im not anti porn but a relationship is supposed to fufil that need

>>84426540
when i was talking to this girl i liked i stoped wanting to jerk off and just liked chatting with her, idk why many women dont like porn yet arent super horny so the guy is just stuck, do u live in NA, what kind of moid do you like

>>84426489
Nah, as most men don't have big hard pornstar cocks that cum multiple times in a row. I was so disappointed by my first bfs sexual performance that I thought that I'm asexual or a lesbian but turns out I just needed a big, rock hard cock and a man with a sexy fit and athletic body

>>84426521
I could be happy with 1 a week and a thigh job during the period but when its weeks and weeks its lame. I'm not happy about this either, I enjoy not being horny because I feel cleaner spiritually, but due to being a mammal this sadly occurs and the internet happens to have images of boobs, I've cut it down to one a week with no video porn but if I go 10+ days I start to get annoyed and I cant concentrate on productive things.

>>84426530
Women are naturally less visual and need more emotional connection so I hope you are ok with your gf masturbating by sexting with other men

>>84426422
I think that's fair. But you need to make it clear to him that this is what you expect. Most normie men have sex semi-regularly since their teenage years, so they might be less inclined to regularly reach for porn anyway.

>>84426518
I guess the food analogy doesnt work, because sex is intimate, its my partner literally inside my body, its very intense, and creates a very strong connection.

Im a shut in autist whos only company is my dad bringing me food, i dont think i could have casual sex

>>84426534
>so laying there and letting my man pleasure his dick with my pussy seems to be fair.
I don't think you understand that this is not comparable to jerking off.

>>84426564
I don't care about it as much as you think. I've did that shit since I was 12 and it's just nothing.

>>84426551
>I was so disappointed by my first bfs sexual performance that I thought that I'm asexual or a lesbian but turns out I just needed a big, rock hard cock and a man with a sexy fit and athletic body

Holy fucking shit, this is so true. Once you've had a real man its like oh yeah this feels good and i really want to do it again lol

>>84426572
Please explain, doesnt pussy feel better than your hand?

>>84426533
Yeah im close to giving up hope. I get it, we're all demoralised and life is shit, but i still make an effort.

I got my hair done and wore a nice dress for a date, and he rocked up in some dirty tshirt, lol

>>84426577
Good. Its all good as long as you don't shame feminine masturbation, sexting between coworkers and friends.

I love my bf but I need that attention from other men to feel good about my body if I want to masturbate.

>>84426549
Unfortunately im europe, American men seem nice.

I just like old school men that feel protective and make me feel safe, someone who isn't seeing multiple women, someone with clear morals that just wants a hassle free life, makes me feel relaxed and safe and we can sit in silence together

>>84426613
Date arab/black men. I'm not kidding, they don't watch porn, they just want to fuck. Its cultural and maybe so high testosterone thing

>>84426570
>sex is intimate
Yes, it is in most cases, but speaking from 14y of relationship I can tell you that after some time you start to experiment a bit. Maybe if youre a deadbeat amish/mormon than youll breed your wife once a month and thats it, but I guess it also not your kind of thing.
This board is full of robots that crave pussy and would do anything for it. I can say that after some amount of time, they would want to try different things, or just fap alone for the sake of old habit when youre not togheter.
I dont know why people behave like it would be a cheating thing or smth. Dont fall into porn addiction, dont ignore your partner and be frank about your expectation and fantasies.
If people would hear and come towards their partner fantasies I assure you that we wouldnt be in the place we are now -where people just expect the other side to "grow accustomed" to their way.

>>84426560
It seems like a curse for men, i struggle to think when im horny, i wouldn't like that fog all the time. But it can be controlled i think.

I think once a week with blowjobs is good. But i wouldn't want sex to just be relief for my man, i want it to be his way of showing he loves me, and my way of feeling a deep connection with him

>>84426615
You're just trying to push it as far as you can. You obviously understand that sexting with people you know means you're trying to fuck them bruh.

>>84426567
Yeah i know what anons here will say but men can get sex when they put in effort, i saw it at bars. Its good when a man is experienced and knows how to respond to my body

>>84426627
Porn is not natural. I think you are the kind of man who deserves nothing good.

>>84426534
>Well thats the issue, mens sex drive can be overhwelming, so laying there and letting my man pleasure his dick with my pussy seems to be fair.
you're not worth to go on a date with. I rather one night stand a drunk mad chubby uggo than have you as a a tradwife forever.
>>84426606
when you lay there like a dead body it feels worse than my hand. Because my hand does stuff and you don't. You're a very high maintenance and resource draining fleshlight. Maybe some few specific fetish guys or necrophiliacs are into you. But I am not.
Not only I expect a woman to be able to move during sex, I also have demands of her, such as the proper communication. And the more tactile skills and knowledge a female has the better. I don't mean unrealistic porn shit, I mean knowing what she wants and how she wants it. My dick will be fine either way, but she has to orgasm too. Preferably as much as possible.

>>84426422
no, but you're probably not worth it.

>>84426634
>but men can get sex when they put in effort
You're making too broad of a statement. Some men do, others don't. For some getting women is as easy as breathing, for others it's nigh impossible. Considering how little variance there is in women's preferences in men and how unequal the distribution of sexual partners is among men, those men who aren't sexually successful shouldn't be shamed or condemned. It's just an unfortunate type of a life path some men have to live with.

>>84426631
If it is not fucking its not cheating. Women need that connection and its unfair to expect a woman to just masturbate to their bf. Men are very understanding when I say that I have a bf and I will not have sex with other people. We just sext and guys send me pics of their hard cocks and tell me how I got them so erect. Its no different to porn when you really think about it. My heart belongs only to my bf

>>84426658
Women are so obsessively jealous that they'll compare watching a video you'll forget forever to talking to your coworker about how much you want to fuck each other. It must be some sexual trauma or deep insecurity.

>>84426673
revenge is their greatest motivation. something is emotionally bothering me? time to destroy. then men have to build.

>>84426673
I think you are really weird if you deny women masturbation thats natural for them but assume your man style of masturbation is somehow morally better.

I just like how my body makes mens cocks hard and there is nothing wrong with that. I have to keep this a secret from my bf cause he is insecure like you and has double standards

I have done some cam girl stuff with a mask on thats something that I recommend to all girls. Its very erotic esperience

>>84426673
Also all my sexting partners know that I have bf and I won't have sex with them. You don't need to make stuff up to get angry for no reason

>>84426630
its not a constant thing, its more like a continual pressure that slowly builds but the options are if you dont want to have sex every week either suck his dick, give him a handjob or concede to the fact that even if he doesn't look at porn hes going to use his imagination and that might be just as bad depending on what hes conjuring up, but a definite blowie would suffice.

>>84426422
How is this in any way controversial?
I don't know any man that wouldn't want this. The problem is that women seem to have a drop in libido after marriage compared to men.

>>84426747
My libido dropped cause I stopped feeling beautiful. Whats the point of ugly people having sex? Its disgusting

>>84426787
Because there will definitely be people that still find you attractive and beautiful.

>>84426815
Yes but I feel ugly. My husband tells me I am beautiful and he is all over me. I still remember when we used to just date and he confessed that my stomach looks weird etc. We used to have sex many times a day, often in public places but ever since I have felt ugly I do it only once a month and I keep my shirt on.
Otherwise everything works in our relationship

>>84426621
You sound so hot.

>>84426839
Well he obviously doesn't think you're ugly if he's all over you and complimenting you. It's probably just an intrusive thought that manifested as a feeling that you need to work on dismissing.

>>84426615
>I just HAVE to be a whore for every chad I meet or I can't even enjoy myself!
women should be beaten and locked in cages

>>84426641
Are you living natural? Its easy to handpick 1 thing and call it what it is whipe at the same time being hipocritic about other parts of your life. You know whats not natural to? Being loyal to partner that keeps dening you. In this circumstances in past, normal humans would just find a new partner.
In our times you can mentalgymnastic yourself all you want, but in reality you eat microplastic in 100% biofood, sit and lay 20h while you should walk 10-15km and probably dont have any meaningful relationship, you just dream, which is far from natural.

>>84426422
it's controversial to make threads pretending you are something that you are not sir

Not that I ever gave a shit about porn, but I would want any foid of mine to to keep my balls empty, so porn is even more unnecessary.
Though fuck all that dead bedroom shit, and using sex as a weapon. She can fuck off.

>>84426422
only if you're willing to be free use

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>>84426533
most women are porn addicts too.

>>84426658
>My heart belongs only to my bf
and whichever random men you're sexting (cheating with)

>fake and gay /adv/ post gets a bunch of serious replies
this board has fallen far. you guys are like an inverse ai chatbot

>>84427013
hero and patriot