does love exist or is it just lust? i feel like if i'm attracted to a girl and she became uglier i wouldn't care about her anymore
>>84453703both exists at the same timec:
idk i just want to be close to someone i hope pieces of shits like you move the fuck over and stop destroying lustless whimsy from the world
>>84453703I love my dog but i would not have sex with him even when he asks
>>84453734i mean in the context of the sex you are attracted to
Lust does not always mean love, but love always means lust.
Most people are incapable of love so they confuse it with their lust. For those who have the capacity for love, they're separate things that often apply simultaneously, but for different reasons.
>>84453739well i just give him the cigarette and tell him plenty of bitch in sea HAHA! no?
>>84453703As far as the body is concerned, just lust. But if you're not an NPC hylic, I would like to think you can CHOOSE to love against the will of your body. To what degree we are free to choose, I am not sure. Maybe none at all. But it is worth trying.
>>84453748and how do you know when it's love?>>84453750>Most people are incapable of lovewhy do you think that?
>>84453755wait do people actually can imagine things and see them or just sense them as a concept?
>>84453774People can actually imagine things? Can you not "see" an apple in your mind's eye? It won't look like real life or 4K television in your head necessarily, but there are degrees of fidelity that people have. If you can't visualize, you have aphantasia.
>>84453760Because all they care about is sex or the advantages/benefits that sex provides in return. Love is an intense and passionate care for someone else, regardless of whether there is a sexual bond or not. This is painfully evident from the sheer number of divorces and the universality of kicking your own kids to the curb the moment you're no longer legally responsible for them. The vast majority of people get into relationships and have kids purely because they want to fuck, not because they want partners and children in their lives. It's a sickness of the soul.
>>84453797no i mean why are they like that do you think?>>84453786i still don't know if i visualize them or i just know i'm supposed to think of them, do i need to close my eyes?
>>84453703It's just a cascading chemical reaction used to trick humans into breeding.>but gays and lesbiansare outliers and genetic dead-ends. Bless them, for they are nature's way of preventing overpopulation.
>>84453755I fucking hate this shitI have critical thinking, a drive for wisdom and gnosis, and a drict link to the spirit realmDon't fucking tell me I'm less sapient just because I can picture a fuckin apple, nigger
>>84453829*Can't picture
>>84453829>>84453834>can't picture an apple>is also ESLngmi
>>84453814>no i mean why are they like that do you think?I really don't know. A lack of empathy or respect or value in other people, I suppose. I couldn't imagine being like that. Sex has never been that important to me yet I've always craved love and I burn with the desire to love another.
>>84453823>it's just a chemical reactioneverything is, isn't it? also like i'm an antinatalist for example but when i see a good looking girl she will get my attention, but if she gets uglier i wouldn't care so i wouldn't say it's necessarily about breeding
>>84453814>i still don't know if i visualize them or i just know i'm supposed to think of them, do i need to close my eyes?Closing your eyes can help since it frees up attention. When you visualize a thing, it's not simply thinking of the thing though. For example, focus on imagining the face of a loved one. Can you recollect this in your head in a way that is at all redolent of vision? What comes to mind should not be pure knowledge of what their face looks like but some kind of inner visual sensation that becomes apparent that is their face. In other words, you should see their face in your head. Again, it won't be like with your eyes, but something, even if it's very vague, should be "seen".
>>84453846>a minor typo means I'm ESLa very brown accusation to make
TRUE LOVE SHOULDNT BE THIS COMPLICATEDI THOUGHT I DIED IN YOUR ARMS
>>84453703The first time you saw her, what did you notice first?Her face, her hair, her smile, her eyes, etc.? If it's any of these, it's loveHer tits, her ass, her tummy, her thighs, her feet/armpits? If it's these, it's lust
>>84453703It does but lust is much more common.
>>84453703True love and lust, finding and behind perfectly fullfilled in every easy but your soulmate is so rare-sun
Lust is felt by your flesh, Love is felt by your soul. You shouldn't forget that you have a soul too.
>>84453703just lust. must creat baby. then you good.
>>84453753but then he'll get addicted to cigarettes.
>>84453760>how do you know when it's loveWhen it feels like you shot heroin
noooo now i need a drink!
>>84454330i think looking in her face is also considred lust i'm a face guy
