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Are older women really easier?
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why is this board flooded with this hagmaxxing shit recently
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yes, women get uglier as they age so they lower their standards to compensate
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>>84484651
for you, it's up in the air. for me it's just a giant, growing skeleton
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>>84484654
all the female pedos are old female pedos now
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>>84484651
no, unmarried old women are single precisely because of their unreasonably high standards
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>>84484651
yes, yet it doesn't matter, because you shouldn't marry a hag. You can have sex all you want, even with the prostitutes, but if you have any sense you will never marry a drug addicted whore.
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>>84484654
desperation of men
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>>84484654
I guess changing standarts, people are way poorer but the lifespan more than doubled
1+1=2
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When I was 25 and got into a relationship with a hot 32 year old woman. I spent the next decade of my life with her
It went very badly. I suggest you date women younger than you, not older. Best relationship she should be 5 or 10 years younger
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>>84484897
>when i was 25
>best relationship should be 5-10 years younger
>i should have been fucking 15 year olds at 25
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>>84484900
>>i should have been fucking 15 year olds at 25
I didn't say that but you should definitely be looking at 18-20 range for your wife. Meet her in her prime and treat her like a princess or you're going to end to with a fucked up woman with baggage who have her best years to someone else. You need those memories to keep the marriage alive when you are both getting old
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>>84484910
you need to remember what your wife was like as a dumb barely legal whore to be able to survive growing old for the rest of your marriage? jesus, how grim.
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>>84484921
You form bonds at that age that will carry you through life together.
All the best marriages start this way, but find out for yourself
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>>84484651
From personal experience yes, I'm 46 and the last man I had sex with was a 19 year old, this was about a week ago, and it was his first time

I've had sex with about 20 people? and more than 5 was in the past few years with people in their early 20's or 18-20 year olds

when I was 30 I had only slept with 3 people, my now ex husband included
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>>84484921
yes. and stop trying to trivialize things. the reduction won't work here, because it is intellectually insulting and dishonest. Fucking obviously building a thing together for a longer period of time will make it stronger and better, same as having investments for longer gives you more money over time.
And one more thing, that retards like troons, feminists or other politicucked propagandists can't comprehend: males don't give a single fuck about the education and the female status of a female. Which is why captain-save-a-hoe is a prevailing juvenile fantasy. Males want to provide and help a female build herself up. A male with a trillion dollars will date a cute walmart or fast food cashier 19 year old, because the current status of a female is completely irrelevant to male seeking to build something better, and beautiful, TOGETHER over the coming decades.
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>>84484921
barely legal whore>older whore
What's the issue, and why wouldn't I want to get as much mileage from my wife's looks as possible?
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No, older women aren't easier. They're women all the same, and in 2026 that means Chad or bust. Desperate man have been blowing up their egos with this so-called "hagmaxxing" and with open relationships being so commonplace nowadays, older women have no problem getting dick. As fucked as dating is for the average man these days, I'd say your chances of finding a woman your age is more likely than an older one. Anyone who says otherwise is coping hard and probably lacks life experience.
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>>84484851
>most politically literate person on this board
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>>84484651
Yes, case in point: your mom
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>>84485007
So it IS true, damn
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>>84485007
>tfw never got a nice woman in my 40s when I was young
Suffering
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>>84485008
>A male with a trillion dollars will date a cute walmart or fast food cashier
Speak for yourself anon. I didn't struggle through med school and specialize to date a fucking idiot with a dead end job and carry her around like dead weight.

I'll die a virgin before I let some woman who doesn't value education or know how to be financially responsible leech off of me.
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>>84485834
>I'll die a virgin
Yes, I know. Good choice. You didn't have to say anything else.
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>>84484660
>so they lower their standards to compensate
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>>84484900
>>i should have been fucking 15 year olds at 25
That's a completely normal age gap in terms of human history.
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>>84484651
Easier at/for what?
What are you asking exactly?
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>>84484651
For the record, I'm a lesbian, not a guy or trans. I was attracted to older women between my teens to late 30's (when I became the "older woman"). I found older woman were "easier" when there was a significant change in their lives such as a infidelity, divorce or death of a spouse/partner, menopause, losing a job (or even getting a job). They tend to "discover" themselves through a younger partner, sometimes wanting that partner to be permanent, sometimes just a fling.
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>>84486084
Whatever. Most of my classmates and peers who are married and went into medicine or dentistry are also married to professionals in those fields or professionals in other fields.

I know that I'm unlucky with women because of my height and other factors but don't act like anons who make something of themselves have no hope of being with someone of equal worth who shares their values. You could also find someone like that if you challenge your mindset.
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>>84486412
>middle aged woman browsing /r9k/
what's the appeal? are you here frequently?
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>>84486417
>I'm a le doktor
Half of doctors have trophy wives and the othr half bang nurses
You're larping
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>>84486412
What's you experience with women? Any advice regarding women that I wouldn't get from a man?
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>>84486417
thats the irony bud, those doctors who are with other professional women, arent getting what they are worth.

they are getting leftovers. the men getting their worth have young, attractive, submissive, and feminine wives. not a man with boobs.
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>>84486417
>Whatever.
It isn't whatever, all of it is a matter of personal choice and standards. Whch is fine. To me the medical field as is somewhat evident by your posts is similar to the military community, as in viewing the world, their role in it, and the profession itself as something somewhat special. I view the world through a completely different lense. I too have heard throughout my life that being a doctor is a "respectable" profesion of "some level" and I have never understood nor accepted it. Maybe because I know doctors who are incompetent. Maybe because I had to the displeasure of talking to doctors, who are complete fucking retards in every single field IRL, except that narrow piece of outdated shit they have learned decades ago in their own med. school.
Not all doctors and all that, fine. I understand. But doctors are 1) human 2) really aren't anything special of any sorts, because the computers and other tech are doing all of the work nowadays.
All doctors do is try to make a decision based on all the information they have gathered and putting it into the specialized medical goodle, which is a probably an AI agent in 2026.
I'm not saying you're shit, I'm just saying that in my eyes, being a doctor in 2026 is not much harder than being a walmart cashier.

TL;DR: Very unpopular opinion about "professions", I know.
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>>84486427
after business and photography, I like to check other boards. I may be here once a week.
>>84486442
hardcore chasing won't work. you need to plant ideas. I have mommy issues so I chased hard and scared them off. The two I did have nice relationships with were from being available when they became interested.
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>>84484651
The real answer you probably don't have the patience to hear is, it depends.
>Normal older woman with her life together?
Not likely. In my experience even a 2 year age gap is a hurdle you have to overcome with women, not a bonus. I dated a 28 year old software engineer for a couple months, and I had to try my absolute hardest to come off like a cool chad. Their standards are not lower.
>Successful dommy mommy with money
Omega super-overkill difficulty. If such a woman exists outside of porn, she will want only the absolute hottest movie star boytoy.
>Abject girlfailure (graduated to womanfailure) with no job and no future
These will make up the majority of your options pursuing older women. In all likelihood, you probably have your life more put together than them. It's not hot. It's not endearing. It's just sad. I just feel bad talking to a 30 year old woman whose life plan consists of "I work at a cafe on weekends and teach korean a couple days a week."

By pursuing older women, you are playing on hardmode. If that's what you're into (I know I am) it might still be worth it, but don't delude yourself into thinking any woman sees a younger guy as a 'catch'.
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>>84486489
Thank you.
>being available when they became interested
What do you mean by that?
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>>84484651
I love constantly feeding into my older gf's baby fever. Seeing how long it'll take before she asks to do something risky
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>>84486493
>>Successful dommy mommy with money
>>Abject girlfailure (graduated to womanfailure) with no job and no future
Your thinking is too black and white, too rigid
My older gf is part of both of these groups at the same time
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>>84486537
Yeah those were just simplified archetypes to illustrate my point, retard-san.
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>>84486493
>>Abject girlfailure (graduated to womanfailure) with no job and no future
Your terms are acceptable
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>>84486597
Too simplified, older women are not as clear-cut and easy to stereotype as young girls
Also what do we mean by "older"?
Is she 31?
Is she 42?
Is she 53?
We don't know, OP left it vague on purpose because this thread is just as excuse for him to complain about something as usual
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>>84486500
If they express interest (flirting, outright advances), be receptive. Sometimes you can reject an advance unknowingly and she will move on and not waste her time pursuing. You don't have to jump into bed at the drop of a hat, but express interest.
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>>84486656
>Is she 31?
Fertile
>Is she 42?
Dangerously fertile
>Is she 53?
Volcanic soil fertile
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>>84486664
Thank you for your time and answer
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>>84486664
Let me add something. I've posted this several times in 4chan in different threads. The age difference can cause the relationship to go south because the older partner starts becoming a parent rather than a lover. He/She starts telling you what to wear, how to behave, where your life should be going, etc... It's fun (really fun) in the beginning, but for me the issues that brought me to look for a relationship with an older woman (my mommy issues) were the same that drove us apart. Proceed with caution.
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all these women that are into younger guys, where the fuck are they? it feels like women in general both young and old just treat me like shit.
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>>84486905
>vague question
>all womyn are le mean to me :(
If you wanted to necrobump the thread you could have put in some effort
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>>84484654
The toastie roasties want your vril
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>>84487184
you necrobumped it too retardo, i dont give a fuck about this thread or board.
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>>84486412
>I found older woman were "easier" when there was a significant change in their lives such as a infidelity, divorce or death of a spouse/partner, menopause, losing a job (or even getting a job). They tend to "discover" themselves through a younger partner, sometimes wanting that partner to be permanent, sometimes just a fling.
Incredible insight. Thank you.
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>>84484654
Probably to counter the insane amount of gay and tranny shit the board posts daily
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>>84486633
They're a lot more depressing than it sounds.
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>>84484651
>Are older women really easier?
Not really. They are similar. And they still expect you to be dominant even if they are into younger guys (because most aren't even into younger guys). Only thing that changes is that wider range of compliments works on them.
Also I like this artist.



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