I got rejected after confessing my feelings for a girl I've been hanging out with for 2 months. It was a mature rejection, it wasn't really a rejection, but more of "I don't know."A loss is still a loss.I didn't feel anything at the time since I was understanding and mature about it, but I now can't fall asleep constantly thinking of her, of what could had been. Now I don't know. Do things just awkwardly end? What's the point of hanging out with her if I know I won't gain anything or her thinking she's leading me on. Such a weird experience.
>>84490743Get her to come over, put something in your drink to knock her out and have your way with her. Its the only way you are going to move past it.
>>84490743I'm sorry you are having trouble sleeping.It's a loss. Maybe you misplayed your cards. But maybe you just wanted to move on, and now you are struggling to sleep because you went from limbo to rejection
>picreldamn these broads are ugly
>>84490743Honestly man what you're feeling right now is the part nobody warns you about. "I don't know" is rejection wearing a softer mask, and your brain knows it even if your mouth said it was fine in the moment. That's why you can't sleep. You weren't actually processing it then, you were performing maturity, and now at 3am there's no audience so the real feelings show up. Here's the truth you probably don't want, two months of hanging out and her answer was "I don't know" means she already knows, she just doesn't want to be the bad guy. Women who are into you do not need a tiebreaker round. Stop hanging out with her. I know that sounds harsh but staying in her orbit hoping she'll come around is going to wreck you slowly, and worse, it puts you in this weird half boyfriend role where you do all the emotional work of dating with none of the actual relationship. Pull back, not in a dramatic way, just stop initiating. Let her reach out if she wants to. Spend the next few weeks doing literally anything that isn't thinking about her, lift, work, see other people, touch grass, whatever. The thoughts will fade faster than you think once you stop feeding them by seeing her. You did the brave thing by confessing. Most guys never do. Now do the second brave thing and walk.>>84490772Yeah you nailed something OP probably hasn't admitted to himself yet. The limbo was actually doing work for him, it let him hold onto the fantasy without ever risking it. Confessing collapsed the wave function and now he has to live in the real versio
>>84490743NO FANTASIZING UNLESS YOUR DICK IS IN THAT VAJ! You should be talking to multiple girls at a time! fact is majority of them are fucking a few dudes and just have one for public face. This isn't the 90's anymore dude; you about it the way that media told you to and you are going to get your shit kicked in.
you meant nothing to her.
You're a better man than most just for having the balls to tell her. You'll do fine.
>>84490743Cutting contact means she gets free ammo to use against you, that you are a sleaze that was only pretending to be her friend to get into her pants blablabla. Beyond damage to your social life, this can absolutely rekt your career depending on how motivated she is.
>>84490743You didn't LOSE anything.What happened is you didn't GAIN a girlfriend.You lost nothing, and are losing sleep over it.You still have a friend.But were you ever really friends?Or were you just using her for more?Abd that's why you are losing sleep.You can still be friends. You lost nothing.But if you're a svitty friend/were just using her, then you need to "mature" more, grow more as a person.Why would you be friends with a woman in the first place? They are usually dumb as hell - meaning I don't want to articulate the specifics right now so I'm going to generally describe all women as "dumb".If you're not friends with her, and she's "leading you on" mea ing she's not friends with you,Why the fuck are you wasting your time with her and losing sleep over her to boot?Turbo-Simp faggot.
Confessing feelings is so gay and retarded
>>84490743you fell for the "just tell them about your feelings/ask them out, what can you lose?" meme. its ok, i did too back in the days. the truth is if a foid is interested in you she'll let you know
>>84492116This. What women expect now is you fuck them for a while and if they want to be your GF you will get the "What are we, Anon?" question thrown at you. This is for non-virgin girls, which is 99% these days. Chad does not "confess his feelings", you're weirding girls out if you do that.
>>84491341What do most other men do? Does it just happen?
>>84492116So you just let things happen naturally? People become gf and bf because of the woman?
>>84492415Honestly you just ask her if she wants to get a drink or something, and she says okay, and you drink your drink and then walk around somewhere nice and talk about whatever comes into your head, and she relaxes and laughs at a joke you made, and you stop worrying so much whether she likes you, then at some point you put your arm on her shoulder and she moves closer to you and... The key thing is to ask her out explicitly on a date, just you and her. Do it early on, ideally before you catch feelings. Make it a "I enjoy your company, want to see where this goes?" sort of thing, not a "I can no longer contain my feelings hngngnggg" sort of thing. Less pressure, easier to recover from a no.
>>84492565That's what I did which made me believe she was gonna say yes. This process has been confusing desu. I've technically never had a gf. All the women I've had a thing with stayed on that friend to gf zone.
>>84490743>2 monthsYou took too long
>>84492720A month is the max?
>>84490769and then BAM!the ol' fork in the eye.
