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It seems i am truly better off alone. My only irl friend abandoned me
Should i confront her about it or should i just accept that i'm unlikable and just kms because i will never have any friends or lovers?
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A man needs an organization or tribe to have any real sense of power, otherwise he is just a fag in the wind.
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>>84491172
can you post her pics?
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>>84491172
my close female friend cut all ties with me 2 years ago.
i told her i had feelings for her.
i made the bed and now i have to lie in it. my fault.
its sad OP i know but if shes ghosted you or blocked you, nothing you can do or say will matter to her. women just do this to men and its cruel.
the sooner you move on the better.
the heart is hurting now i know.
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>>84491185
I will never have that it seems
>>84491189
No
>>84491191
I haven't even done anything wrong
She just sort of started acting cold towards me one day
Why did god make me so unlikable?
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Not even on 4chan people like me
Why am i even alive...
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>>84491503
you gotta get over it man, like i did
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>>84491172
Your better of just not worrying about I try to not think about it. Thinking about it changes nothing and just makes things worse
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>>84491507
But how can i get over it
Not like i can replace what i lost
>>84491512
How am i supposed to not think about it?
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>>84491535
how the fuck should i know, anon? start listening to some good music and start lifting weights, then your masculine nature will carry you out of this gay state of attacking yourself for no good raisin. turn your back on "friends" of yours and you should probably not look back.
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>>84491568
Masculine state can't replace crippling loneliness
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>>84491658
ironic thing is that once i lost all of my friends, the feeling of loneliness actually vanishied. it was my dogshit friends and such that gave me that feeling. the word itself should advance already like gay did.
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>>84491679
Must be nice. I just feel worthless
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>>84491172
how you find the will to make these pathetic threads everyday and not the will to kill yourself instead is astonishing to me
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>>84491814
This is the only place where i can get some sort of validation
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God i hate my life so much
I hate being alone
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yea life sucks im lonely too
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I'd offer to be your friend but I genuinely doubt you are innocent and I imagine you probably have poor boundaries and aren't very likeable
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>>84492919
i know that. Why else would everyone hate me?
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>>84492993
have you ever seen the movie Cable Guy?
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>>84493012
>have you ever seen the movie Cable Guy?
I have not
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>>84491311
Was this irl? What happened?
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>>84493015
What kind of shows do you watch?
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>>84491172
DO YOU THINK YOU'RE BETTER OFF ALONEEEE
DO YOU THINK YOU'RE BETTER OFF ALOnneee~
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>>84491172
being lonely its very pleasant feeling,trust me. or just use c.ai
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>>84493444
yeah
>What happened?
not much, she just started acting colder, making up excuses when i asked her to hang out or play games with me and we in general just drifted apart, just like the rest of my friendships
>>84493471
it's not
c.ai sucks too
>>84493451
i like scifi shows and isekai anime
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>>84493640
Do you like Witch Hat Atelier?
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>>84493459
Kekw, I was gonna post this song
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>>84493451
mostly futa/femboy hentai
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fuck the tribe, nigger. be a tribe of one.
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>>84491172
>>84492199
>My only irl friend abandoned me
>should i just accept that i'm unlikable and just kms
At least you had a friend for a while, I've spent the last 15 years completely alone living a neet/hikki I don't even remember what having a friend feels like. Never had a lover or was loved by anyone in my entire life.
You shouldn't even think about killing yourself over something like this, take it as a lesson to not depend emotionally on other people.
Happiness is found within yourself, pain comes from having expectations from the world outside of you.
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>>84491172
>>84493640
did you do it with romantic intent? did you try flirting with her at all? when you hanged out was it with a group of people or just you two?
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>>84491503
Hang in there anon... I like you and I bet others here do too
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>>84491185
I close my eyes
Only for a moment, and the moment's gone
All my dreams
Pass before my eyes, a curiosity

Fags in the wind
All they are is fags in the wind
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>>84493730
i can't
>>84493652
never seen this
what's it about?
>>84493805
i think i am too traumatized not to overly depend on other peole when they are present. Anyway, i don't see the point in living if i'll always be alone
>>84493838
i liked her but i never pursued her that way, because i was afraid of losing another friend. I was fine with being friends too
>hen you hanged out was it with a group of people or just you two?
we sometimes played games together with some of her friends, but when we hung out it was just the two of us
>>84493852
where are these people irl
everyone seems to be hating me
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>>84493874
A little girl finds this picture book and learns she is a witch, I'm only on episode 1
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>It seems i am truly better off alone
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lgs9QUtWc3M
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>>84493874
I'm not sure, I have trouble finding them too... but I bet if you try your hardest you'll find someone nice eventually
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>>84493874
>i don't see the point in living if i'll always be alone
Find something you truly care about and dedicate yourself to it, for me it's programming, people are overrated, women are even more overrated.
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>>84493874
>i liked her but i never pursued her that way
how long have you been friends with her? it is odd that she would be suddenly cold, more so if you have been friends for long or if you didn't make her uncomfortable by flirting unwantedly
>games together with some of her friends, but when we hung out it was just the two of us
a man and a woman hanging out alone doesn't necessarily have to mean anything romantic. but it could easily be interpreted as such. maybe she did? and she felt uncomfortable so now she's trying to softly end the friendship? on the other hand, who knows, maybe she likes you romantically and felt rejected when she saw that things weren't going anywhere so now she's being distant
it could possibly also be that her friends said something negative and she took it to heart or it could even be something as simple and unfortunate as her just not wanting to be friends anymore. this is all speculation obviously, the only person in the world that knows the reason why is her

if you're up for it, i think you should try to talk to her about it. don't be super confrontational, just be honest and try to keep calm. communication is one of our strongest tools, it would be a disservice to not use it you know haha. however, keep in mind that once you have the reason you might possibly feel even worse. or maybe you'll feel closure? either way, try to mentally prepare yourself before hand. and if you do end up feeling worse, it's not the end of the world! so don't be so harsh on yourself, alright? time heals all wounds and there will be other chances for friendships as long as you move forward

i still think you shouldn't give up on yourself even if you think otherwise right now
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>>84494225
>how long have you been friends with her?
if we consider us still friends then roughly half a year. I did not flirt as i have no idea how to do it
>if you're up for it, i think you should try to talk to her about it.
what should I say?
>i still think you shouldn't give up on yourself even if you think otherwise right now
at this point it feels like hitting my head against the wall
>>84493972
i don't think i'll ever find them
>>84494096
i don't really care about anything. I just want to be loved/liked by someone
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Anon, word of advice: Do drugs, especially opiates, they are the peefect antidote for this exact feeling you have right now, trust me
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>>84494625
>i don't really care about anything. I just want to be loved/liked by someone
You have to be able to love if you want to be loved.
And even then, you might become like me, I love many things and try to be kind to people, only to be treated like shit by everyone because I'm different.
You are guaranteed to suffer more if you live depending on validation from other people.
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>>84491172
You've got to DESTROY HER anon... SEXUALLY! Oh my god stick it in there and UNF UNF de la UNF UNF! I'm high as FUCK right now holy shit!
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>>84494903
Oops wrong board sorry
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>>84494682
I can't get any
>>84494707
I have a lot of love to give, but no one wants to give any back
>>84494903
She doesn't want to



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