i actually started trying to socialise at my university after being totally isolated and friendless for the entirety of my life. in a single year i made multiple friends and got a girlfriend. it really wasn't so hard, why did you lie to me?>inb4yes, i have autism.
>>84492226i am autistic and i have no friends and i am also isolate myself in university. what do i do? thanks.
>>84492226>yes, i have autism.Doesn't really matter as long as you have normie interests and values
>>84492226>in a single year i made multiple friends and got a girlfriend.so why are you still here?
>>84492226>i was a mental'""cel"" and now i have a gf and normie friends, how come??and of the good old autism(TM) meme thrown in. mentalcels=scum of the earth
>>84492226>at my universityThis is key though. I never got that experience of actually going away to University and living on campus or some other kind of student housing. It's in opportunity like no other, you are in a common environment with your peers like in high school, but this time you're an adult and can do whatever you want. Make the most of your time in this bubble, maintain long lasting friends, cause once it's over it's just being out in public where aside from co-workers and existing friends everyone is a stranger and it's weird to meet people unless you share some kind of specific interest or something.
>>84492235move to a different town, switch uni
>>84492237i am incredibly racist, often outwardly so, and i'm generally very strange.>>84492235mostly i just started talking to people in my classes, trying to meet up with them after classes. that worked really well. i tried going to uni clubs but i didn't really like them, but i guess you could try there too. my new friends introduced me to my now girlfriend, and she actually asked me out. :)
>>84492246>zomg i can't make friends and it definitely isn't my faultwhy don't you kill yourself?
>>84492226Try being short and ugly
>>84492337>look inside>excusesi'm 5'7 and not particularly attractive.
>>84492347You are average height and probably average looks. Fuck off.
>>84492359omg you're so right, you're just sooo short and unattractive that nobody could ever love you. is that what you want? kill yourself.
>>84492364You fags really love shitty on people below you, don't you? I get it you don't want to be last place that would be worse than death so you'll desperately settle for second last instead. I bet you're so fucking smug kek. I hate men desu.
starting to think this is bait. waste his time
>>84492396It's probably some failed normalfag who fulfilled his dream in sticking his penis inside a pussy and thinks he's hot shit now like he's some kind of ascended human being.
>>84492406no i think he gets the cage
>>84492380>>84492396>>84492406>>84492407or, maybe i resent the fact that you people literally can't help but turn literally every conversation into a pity party about how impossible it is for you, and only you, to do literally anything in life.
>>84492226Well I missed my chances in university. Been to chopped comparing to my peers studying there I was too shy to aproach them.Very Big mistake of me caving to parents pressure and going to top university, was huge hit to my self esteem. Years after after reading https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Outliers_(book) truth unfolded among me eyes. It's better to be King among sheep's that sheep among Lions. Never mingle with groups that are superior than you.
>>84492427it's hard for a lot of people, not just me or any other individual it wouldn't be considered a social issue if it was just straight mentalcelery. you still haven't answer why you're still here either
>>84492364>you're just sooo short and unattractive that nobody could ever love you.Not him but not "nobody". But all my formative years spent among boys and men who higher then me, stylish, richer etc. I was chopped loser only existing for them to look better. Too bad for me I didn't get redpill of downshifting and recources to do that and leave circles where chances were stacked against me.
>>84492439because i've posted here for the entirety of my life, haven't posted in about six months, but thought i'd make a post.
>>84492454>because i've posted here for the entirety of my lifeso what? your life changed for the better. move on. you were in school your whole life too, do you intend on staying in school forever?
>>84492311>i just started talking to people in my classesHow did you start conversations with them?>i am incredibly racist, often outwardly soAnd how do people react to that? You aren't getting socially sanctioned from that?
>it really wasn't so hard, why did you lie to me?no one lied to you, the hard truth is that some "friends" snake you over the years, you need to find true friends, and it can happen with girlfriends asw. your happy, leave 4chan. but if it goes bad dont come back her complaining. hope it goes well
That's awesome, OP, congratulations. I hope I can be like you someday.
>>84492539you will be, i believe in you!!>>84492478well, at the start we were kinda put in groups for work and that's what motivated me to start trying. i kinda just tried to joke around and injected a little bit of my personality into conversation when we were talking about work, then if i got along with somebody, i asked them for their contacts and asked if they wanted to get a drink. i'm sorry if i'm not being very helpful, it's kinda hard to explain. in terms of being racist, i kinda just played it off like i was joking, and it was only until i became closer friends that people realised i was being serious. i definitely got some shit for it from women, but men were generally pretty okay with it, it was definitely risky so i don't recommend it. idk, it's hard to explain, i wish i could do a better job, i'm sorry.
>>84492504thank you, friend. i'm trying to be aware of snakes that beseech me, there have definitely been some.
>>84492311>i'm generally very strange.Doubt it
>>84492621you're right, you're just the strangest person ever, i'm sorry that you had to be the strangest person ever. :(
>>84492633I'm not the one who have to come to r9k just to feel speshul
>>84492427Shut up no one cares about you and your gf. I have never begged for pity in my whole miserable life. I've only ever had to deal with endless gaslighting normies talking about how easy it moralizing with a thin veil of contempt. I get it you're hot shit now and it's all our fault. If you'd be so kind please fuck off.
>>84492437I always thought it's better to socialize with people who are superior to you as you can always learn something from them and grow mentally. There's a saying "If you're the smartest person in the room, you are in the wrong room", which implies that you won't grow as long as you interact with people who are worse than you
>>84492347Translation: 5'10" and above average faceCrazy how many so-called "men" will lie like foids to make themselves seem more sympathetic.
>>84492226>yes, i have autism.Please join this server then: /5fG9SnsbWT
>>84492226I tried adding a guy from here on discordHe hasn't talked to me in a week.
>>84494877i think this thread alongside the crab replies are going to be my reason for leaving this website, i wish everyone the best and wagmi
>>84492587>>84492226>i drink and go to jew daycare but im a autist
