No one cares about meNo one cares about meNo one cares about me
>>84499427I care about youI care about youI care about youWhat's wrong? :c
>>84499436no you don't lol you'll forget about him as soon as the thread gets archived
>>84499427Make some Discord friends who care about you
>>84499427you care about yourselfsolitariness is a blessing
>>84499427anon !!! reality is agony !!! pull a 2kki and dream your problems away
>>84499427people do care, just not very much, sort of the minimum amount of moral obligation normies will lend to someone they can't socially and emotionally connect with
>>84499515>minimum amount of moral obligationnormies will lend to someone they can't socially and emotionally connect withi hate normalfags as much as the next guy but dont tell me that your average robot is any different
>>84499436You don't even know me>>84499454Tried that>>84499486I hate being alone>>84499505My imagination is shit>>84499515They don't seem to care about me
>>84499427nothing stays the same forever
>>84499427nah you'll be right champjust buck up and figger it oot
i can try to be your friend if you'd like, i also like touhou. do you have discord?
>>84499602that's why you join the triads of /x/ and get high off cough syrup, let the drugs dream for you
>>84499427When I was feeling like that I eventually found some comfort in taking a step back to learn new skills/try new hobbies, thinking that once I got fairly competent at these things I'd think about taking time to converse with new people again.>holding heavy weight>eventually muscle needs to set it down and get enough rest to try againBut as for you, would you say you're already maxed out in terms of hobbies/skills that take up your time? Or maybe make enough money to try most things you want? Just asking as I've come across people who have more money than they need, but also have trouble connecting with others.
>>84499602It's ok.Nobody cares about me either I had a person that cared but then they were gone, I'd take her back in a heartbeat
>>84499443What's he supposed to do? Care about them the rest of their life? God you people make me so fucking mad. How is being nice to people so hard for you fuck upsYou can have fleeting empathy for people, we're human fucking beings
>>84499529Robots are worse
>>84499529Autists tend to have a black and white view of the world and stick rigidly to moral principles. They can actually be really helpful and polite where normies couldn't be bothered, normies being stuck up with their social pecking order bullshit and not wanting to associate with someone outcast.The problem is when autists are clueless about the world and accidentally tread on egg shells, but is that really immoral? Normies scatter these egg shells everywhere and get upset over literal nothingburgers.>>84499602If they truly didn't care you would be a slave picking cotton or something. There is some good in the world. Not saying it is much, just telling it like it is.This is the best way to view the world, not one with an absence of good, rather the universe is enormous and beautiful and wondrous, but life on earth is subject to brutal darwinism, yet despite this as conscious beings we sometimes go against our genetic programming, we reach for something greater above the normy bullshit. There is good, but you usually miss it or take it for granted, but it should be cherished, no matter how small. Even the tiniest good is a miracle almost, it shouldn't exist yet it does. When you realize this you may also understand how important it is to be good yourself.
>>84499611how much longer will i have to wait?>>84499614>just buck up and figger it ooti havei'm just unlikableand i can't change it>>84499623i can't get high where i live>>84499633i don't care much for hobbiesi just want someone to care about mei tried to get some hobbies in the effort to seem more normal and approachable and maybe even likable or relatable but so far it did not work. Everyone's like "oh that's nice" or "oh you're so talented" but no one ever sticks around>>84499621i am scared to post my discord here
people who make threads like this are often shitty people 9 times out of 10. they aren't harmless victims
>>84499947I asked about hobbies since I recently met some kind and caring people, even one who's older and more mature than me, because I actually bothered to converse with people in a server that was mainly focused on a hobby, rather than the focus being on making friends. So I never expected people to reach out but was surprised.I see you wrote to someone that you're "unlikable" but what do you specifically mean by that? I'm asking so I can better gauge if my experiences might actually be relevant. I guess I should also ask: what did you do that got people to say you're talented?
>>84500171>but what do you specifically mean by thati don't really know other than "someone who isn't liked" ig. Again i try to be as likable as i can be, so i'm not really sure what i'm doing wrong. No one's giving me feedback. When i ask most say that everything's fine. Of course their actions tell a different storyexcept one person said that he just couldn't give me what i need, so idk. Needy maybe? I don't even know what needy really means> what did you do that got people to say you're talented?played some songs on the guitar
>>84499947Hey why do you think you're unlikeable? I get this feeling too and I knew someone like that as well
>>84499947Are you from Europe or NA anon?
>>84500345because of the way others treat mewouldn't be so alone if i was likable, would I?>>84500350Europe
>>84499427>No one cares about metrue>No one cares about metrue>No one cares about metrue
>>84500353And how do others treat you? I used to try more desu but got discouraged over time
>>84500353How old are you? I bet you're young and have plenty of time
>>84500360with apathy mostly if not rejection>>84500364gonna turn 25 this month
>>84500330Sometimes I think I'm calm (or what some describe as "mature") to the point where I don't seem like a very fun individual. Ironically, it's because it made me seem level-headed that people were drawn to me here and there over time. Of course they formed good bonds with people who loved all the latest memes, made references, innuendos, etc too. But over the course of a year people came to appreciate that I actually showed a more mature side (many have this but don't necessarily show it when goofing off online) and reached out to me. It was always a surprise.This is just my experience, but hopefully it explains why I think you might find people who appreciate you if you interact with discord servers that are focused on your pastimes. I know the place gets a bad rap and for understandable reasons, but more often than not I've had good experiences on it. Ultimately it's a part of the internet and cross-border communication naturally offers some advantages when it comes to meeting like-minded people.It's also true that not all cultures/values are equally spread out across the planet. Combine that with over 8 billion people and it really is possible for some to end up not really connecting to those in their city/country. The internet, much less a server focused on an activity/series/genre you enjoy may not be instant fix, but it definitely ups the odds of finding people who are drawn to you. There are servers where chatting and socializing in general is the focus but I've never been in one of those.
>>84500422idki've come to realize i'm a very up-close person. Meeting people in person is quite important to me. Seeing their body language, seeing them smile, etc. I had online friends whom i loved a lot too, but having experienced "friendship" irl (i put this in quotes because of course, as allways, I was abandoned) online friendships don't feel enough. I still talk to her but she doesn't seem to want to hang out with me anymore and every time i message her i just imagine her thinking "ugh it's this guy again" and just giving me simple one word/ sentence replies hoping i would buzz off. Every time i talk to her i get more depressed, but i can't stop either because it would hurt me as well. Not like i can replace her with anyone, it's very dificult to make new friends at my ageAlso, about this "mature" thing. I'm not sure i'd be happy with that role. I want to be seen as fun. As someone who people enjoy being around. Not as someone who people only turn to when they need someone mature.
>>84500570Very understandable. I had a best friend who threw everything away. It was clear she was determined to limit her communication and expression to me, even though she called me her best friend once. Even when she'd say multiple times years later that she was sorry for how she treated me and that she realized she took it for granted (a thought that never crossed my mind) we never rebuilt our friendship. 12 years later and we don't even speak, much less hang out IRL.It's part of why I took a break from socializing. Seeing how things could go. Part of why I focused on learning new skills, finding new joys instead of dwelling on her. But that was after a lot of hurt. The wealth and knowledge I've gained since then is no replacement for a best friend, but it was nice to not think about the hurt. To be thinking about other sources of happiness.Speaking of which, I knew my lifestyle would bring me into contact with others. Others who might be very forward, welcome, friendly. But those people could only reach out because I took the chance to be among people again. So taking a break, time to yourself, it can be fine and even necessary. Yet you never know who you'll meet if you put yourself out there a little in the future.I tend to think I'm not the most fun person, but people liked that I could appreciate the humor of a situation, while not adding to the teasing/repeating the meme again/making a more explicit innuendo. It's not about being "anti-fun" but showing you have a side to yourself that can have fun responsibly.This is why people would end up DMing me, telling their friends about me before I even met them, both things leading to getting friend requests I never expected. But before discord, this was also what would lead to friendships IRL that I didn't expect. Rather than only talk when they needed a mature person, people would talk to me about 3D printing, books, Dune, Kamen Rider, cave exploring, drinks, their families, etc.
>>84499427True. What's wrong with that?
>>84500570>giving me simple one word/ sentence repliesi hate to break it to you anon but this is just how women who aren't either neurodivergenent, lonely or uninterested beyond the superficial surface normally reply to people once a friendship is established...sorry anon but it sounds to me like you're seeking out the thoughtfulness that lonely people typically provide from people who have never needed to be thoughtful because they aren't lonely. it's just a gamble that comes with the territory of irl normie friends, you may be reading too much into it.
>>8449950522ki? what's that? I'm interested.
Don't worry, OP. If I raped you, would you feel cared for?
>>84500570no offense but it sounds like the opposite, you have lots of friends but you lost interest in them, fixating on this girl and in the end lost your entire social circle, maybe reach out to other people instead of this 1 person, maybe you don't realize it due to mental illness but stop being so rude and callous for no reasonhigh school Chad and Stacy can afford to behave like this because they have tons of friends, they can sit and judge people for minor flaws and decide "I don't like that guy, why are you friends with him, if you want to sit with the popular kids you need to stop being seen with him", however you can't, really, if you don't care that you are acting like a twat then bear in mind this attitude is also impractical and why you are where you are
>>84501732>no offense but it sounds like the opposite, you have lots of friends but you lost interest in them, fixating on this girl and in the end lost your entire social circle, maybe reach out to other people instead of this 1 person, maybe you don't realize it due to mental illness but stop being so rude and callous for no reasonno, it's not the caseit's the same with all of my "friends". The girl is not specialshe's just the latest "experiment">>84501144she is neurodivergent though...>>84500837>>84500837i hate being alone>>84500796honestly I'm tired of putting myself out here. Also i am running out/have ran out of opportunities to do that anyway.
>>84501911>I'm tired of putting myself out hereI felt like that as well at one point, for years even, before things unexpectedly turned around. But prior to that I had gradually let go of the desire to get to know people, even ended up telling an old acquaintance who popped up that I wasn't worth getting to know again as I was then. It was true though. I was so done with giving people chances. So I gradually made my joy other things, desired other things. Eventually it worked, even though at one point I felt I couldn't move on from my best friend, that I had given life without that person a fair chance. Letting go of a desire is painful even when our brain/logic seems to understand the benefits. It's a bit like how when we're ill we just have to suffer for a time even when we're doing all the right things to recover.Reached a point where I truly felt fine with the thought of spending my time on the things I like, with no input from others on the activity and when it'd happen. Only held onto civility and politeness since my lifestyle would still put me in contact with others, people who didn't deserve to be treated coldly, even if I figured I'd just keep everyone at a distance. So I hope you also can learn to enjoy life in a way where you'll be fine without close friends.
>>84501911>she is neurodivergent thougyou're missing the point of the post
>>84499649>worseare they?
>>84499427you're on page 10 nearly off the catalogbut im herei care
>>84499427You havnet given me a reason to care
>>84501440its yume 2kki, a fangame of yume nikki. you wander dream worlds and collect stuff along the way. easy to play through web browser
>>84504443Nta but I thought you were talking about an actual nikki, a diary.
>>84502078Some people can do thatIdk if i'm one of those people. I have needs most people don't seem to have>>84502120But you said it could be because she's not neurodivergent...>>84504415But u don't even know me...
>>84505327why do you not let people know you
>>84505532I do. And when i do they leave
>>84505615are you a bpd person by chance
>>84499611Some things only happen once.
>>84499642Lel you should fake caring about someone on the internet so you can feel better about yourselfWhat type of logic is that narcissistic troon
>>84505742No, doesn't seem like it
>>84505327yeah but there's still two other reasons >either either neurodivergenent, lonely or uninterested beyond the superficial surface>either it doesn't have to be exclusively one reason, any of those would do. anyway the key take away from the post was>it sounds to me like you're seeking out the thoughtfulness that lonely people typically provide from people who have never needed to be thoughtful because they aren't lonely... ...you may be reading too much into it.
>>84506019want to be friends then? Or just chat pals? Don't have to, but hey offer is up in the air and I understand if not.
>>84507014OP said online friends isn't enough anymore
