People talk a lot about missing out on teenage love, but how many of you are old enough (30+) to have missed out on early/mid 20s love as well? How does it feel? Which is worse?
I'm a 35 year old virgin, it's worse because I didn't have as much desire for a gf as a teen, I guess it just sucks being this much of a loser at this age. And their butts are too big imo
I had teenage love, it's overrated.It sets up an expectation that life does not provide for you.
>>84502661Kinda grim to be fairI'm 32 I missed out on love till 28 when I got my first gf, still a virgin though and broke up not long ago, she was mentally ill and I doubt she liked or respected me, as she seldom respected my will or fulfilled my desires while I always did.She treated me more like her dad or a big teddy bear, she never expressed sexual interest, and any sexual experience I always had to bring up myself.She even accused me of almost raping her because of this, the bitch.
>>84502853Wouldn't you way their hips are to big.
>>84502661Those look like those two girls in that video turning around to show their asses
Teenage Love is nothing compared to what you can get up to in your twenties. Really it's nothing. Teenage brains are actually like half of an adult's brain subjectively speaking. I barely remember it and it meant nothing in retrospect. I had two separate girlfriends that lasted over a year each during high School. Literally barely remember having sex with them or much about it at all. My 20s are full of terrible regret though. Everything was so much deeper and the chances I blew haunt me to this day. I ended up marrying the wrong person who I met at age 25. I absolutely hate the years I lost between then and now. Total loss. Don't waste your time. Worrying about teenage Love. It's nothing. But holy God please take your 20s seriously. Once your old there's no going back
>>84502661I'm 34, never kissed a girl, and frankly I don't care much. I don't like h*mans and I probably wouldn't like kissing and fucking IRL. I'm too autistic for that. Prostitutes are legal and not too expensive where I live and I don't think they're worth it.
I missed teenage love but got it together in my early 20sThere really isn't that much of a difference that I could tell, but what do I know?My girlfriend was still living with her Dad so I still got the experience of banging her like 2 doors away from where he was
missed out on 20's going to the bar with friends. i tried that with a friend he cockblocked me. i had a coworker who coblocked me also.
I'm 20 year old chad and have had a few girlfriends but only 3 woman I've ever liked. When you look good superficial neurotypicals want to be your "friend" and when that happens you happen to hang around women and when those women like you it just kinda happens. I broke all their hearts and made them cry but I just couldn't force myself to like them. The sex was OK I guess. Currently I have a crush which is rare as fuck and I am embarrassed about it. Shes a turbo autist with bipolar or something from a shit hole. She gets super flustered talking to me and overstimulated with emotions and it is adorable. She has huge eyes. I am bragging but I want to get know her over maybe 2-4 years. I don't want want to wait 20 years to feel something for another human again.
>>84502661Bad, but then i look back and realize i never met a single girl i enjoyed beyond their body. Still wish i had shagged the 19yo new hire sand monkey girl that asked to see my dick.
>>84502661total muttmerican love
>>84502661>How does it feel? Which is worse?Teenage love is more pure and innocent. It is more intense but I blame the hormones and inexperience for that. Women as they get older (and men too) become more jaded and things become more business-like. >missed out on early/mid 20s love as well?hahaha... yeah.... All that has happened is I began to hate women from dealing with them enough. It hasn't left me with the healthiest of mindsets.
>>84502661Made up for lack of teenage love along with another girl, I was 24 she was 22. We had sex as much as we could, literally any time we were left alone. I stopped jerking off just so I had enough nut to give her. We realized later that weren't very compatible but decided to ignore it just so we could keep fucking.
>>84503151What if I'm 29 and never had a gf or female friend? Am I already old?
>>84504024Similar to my story, I was 25 and she was 23Total manic pixie BPDemon, Insane, rabbit like sex for 6-8 months until she got bored and dipped
>>84502661I'm 37. Never had a gf, never had sex/handjob/blowjob, never been in a relationship. All the women I asked out over the years said no. It feels shitty. Really fucking shitty, but I'm just trying to just live my life now and not think about it.
>>84502661Yeah, it's pretty bad. The fact that I was never going to get into a relationship when I was still a teenager always felt like a foregone conclusion for me. But when you're still 20 or whatever, there's always that faint cope that "it" will happen for you eventually. That it could always just be around the corner for you. I never truly believed that, but I can't deny it was kind of there in the back of my mind for awhile. But once you keep aging you begin to fully realize that it's never going to happen
>>84503755Mutt ? They are just mixed race white dad black mother and one is still dating her white boyfriend not sure what happened to the other one think he cheated on her or left
33 years old, I'm not a virgin only thanks to escorts (which I will visit again this Friday). Never had a girlfriend, but tried a few times.
>>84506852are escorts addicting for u? how often u go?
>>84504067If you're attractive enough then you could still have your pick of the leftovers.
I HAD love when I was younger, but not since turning 19 or so... I'm talking like 2 steady GFs, sex twice a week for a couple years. I would trade ALL of that to have had sexual relationships in my early to mid 20s. That's the time when you're free and should be able to have the most fun. Could be a situation of "the grass is always greener" since some of you haven't experienced any of it...But that's how I feel
>>84506906They would be addictive if I had a lot of money, I guess. Every time I go it feels really good and I'm left wanting to go again soon. But I can control myself.I used to go once every month, then stopped when I became unemployed for two years, and now that I have a job again I'm planning to start again.
I turned 30 just two days ago and have never even meaningfully hugged a woman outside of family. All the woman I ever was attracted to were either already in a relationship or said no. On some days it really stings and is hard to cope with. There is a deep desire for the companionship a woman could offer and it drives me borderline crazy not being able to get my hands on it.On others I find myself despising woman, so I can't give two shits about not getting together with one. The more I see attractive woman in day to day life and them showing zero interest in me, the more I gravitate towards this state. When I'm busy at work with only the guys I drift towards the other end again.
>>84502897Borderline Personality DisorderBPDemons have ruined many men
It hurts a lot to think about sometimes. Especially when I see couples in their early or mid 20s that seem very happy. I'm not jealous or hateful, but it sucks knowing I was their age not that long ago and never got to experience that. Now at my age, everyone is moving onto their next stage in life and I have no experiences. I worked a job where I just interacted with guys. I live in a small town and I rarely leave my home if it's not for groceries or other errands.
>>84502661Im 27. I think I have I will likely stay celibate. No point in bothering
>>8450266128 years old, pussyfree for 28 years. I like my life too much to drivle into such pointless stuff like getting pussy
>>84509635That ass is disgusting and fake
>>8450266133I don't think about it much. I often think of how estranged from everyone else I am instead. It's hard to really call myself a human at this point.Everyone seems to have some sort of goal in mind and I just have nothing. There's no urgency, no impetus. I'm not even really hurt by the lack of love anymore but things are just quiet. Sometimes the silence gets to me, other times I can revel in it.I don't particularly lust over having a normal life, but I do like seeing some novelty.I don't think it matters much, even if I entertain the thought sometimes. Whether I was a child, a teenager, an younger adult, I never had enough attachment. People either seemed to hate me or just didn't care. I don't think I had much choice in the matter, I didn't know the terms of engagement and just kind of flailed around the social minefield trying to see what stuck and nothing ever did, so things ended up this way. It's what happens when nobody guides you in any capacity. Either I was fundamentally different, or grew into something different, that's how I ended up like this.Love is love to me, I don't have faith in it either way. Although I suppose I had more hate when I was a child because I understood less. I see the social behaviors of people and see it as animal behavior. No matter how young or how old, never partaking in one or the other. I don't think I would know which is worse, because I don't feel anything. Both are terrible things to normal people. I don't see it as such. It's just different to me. It does me no good to sulk about it, even when I have days I can't get it out of my head. It puts me back here, and nothing good ever happens here.
I'm a 31 year old wizard. It doesn't really bother me, because I never put any real effort into trying to date or have sex. Thinking about my personal goals or (lack of) career is much more stressful. I would much rather be better at art, earn more money, or meet my fitness goals, than find a gf.
Is dying of liver failure painful? I keep seeing conflicting answers either saying you're basically knocked out once it starts getting bad or that it's extremely uncomfortable all the way through to the end?
>>84502906they look like those two girls because they are those two girls, anon
