When a female is nice to me it softens my heart. When a female is rude, not understanding, arrogant, mean, intentionally obnoxious, it activates my aggression and will to abuse rape and oppress.Start saying nice things to people instead of being a hateful bitter loser online. The other person on the side of the screen is a person, who grew up had a childhood and cried and laughed and hurt, and is just trying to make it through this world in this terrible society uncertain of many things in this deep bleak world with only a small glimmer of God's light.