Is a soft sensitive guy the ideal bf?
this is the ideal bf
Being a straight soft and sensitive twink-ish guy has made it impossible for me to ever be more than a friend. If I'm anyone's ideal bf I have yet to meet them
>>84510849looks like elliot rodger's brother
>>84510925elliot rodger is the ideal bf, forget his brother
>>84510828He was murdered by his gf.
>>84510882You must be ugly or brown because this is the ideal man for like 20% of women.
>>84510828the "soft sensitive guy" is turbo friendzoned 99.99% of the time lol, once he has been used as a shoulder to cry on, she will go right back to her roster of friends with benefits and get plowed like a $5 street whore.t. i WAS the "soft sensitive guy", and the whole stigma of women wanting "emotionally available men" is a complete fucking oxymoron, the only woman that'll EVER let you comfortably cry in her arms is your mother.
>>84511022You get friendzoned for being unattractive but still giving your attention out for free. Emotionally unstable handsome men still get as many women as they want. But I still agree its beta and pathetic.
>>84511013I'm white and a 5-6 by twink standards. I'm just a diagnosed level 2 autistic recluse, during rare irl encounters I panic and online I probably mess up without realizing
my bf is the ideal bf actually :]
>>84510994>tfw no gf to be murdered by
>>84511054>unattractive lol, ouch..
>>84511022They re right by the way, women dont flock over sensitive soft bois, they want a normal guy with manly assertive qualities but at the same time having a soft spot for her when she actually wants to be with you or has shown interest already, anything else nets you the gay friend spot in her life
>>84511184They literally just want chad it doesn't fucking matter at all
>>84510828nigga used to fight cops
stabbing yourself twice in the chest is pretty hardcore how did he pull that off?
>>84510828no, women only want the abusive guy. in my experience "soft and sensitive" to them means "manipulative and passive aggressive". i've been the soft and sensitive guy to quite a few women, not even with the intent of dating them most of the time, but they inevitably find you boring and will gravitate to men whose only emotion is brooding anger. I don't know why this is but I've lost a lot of friendships over not being able to tolerate their boyfriends being assholes desu. it's even worse the few times I've tried dating women and they just get mad at me for being generally emotionally reserved and honest. it's like they actively seek out drama in their life lol.
>>84511244I give up if a woman with a soul comes along she does if she doesn't I'm becoming a bitter old man waiting to die alone
>>84511192No, read it again they want a regular dude with bare minimum confidence that can have a soft side exclusive for her, the timid soft kid who is just her shoulder to cry on is just the gay friend.Learn to be assertive, confident on who you are and what you like (like her for example) and thats it, obviously you will be rejected but you wont be everyones type
>>84511253>I'm becoming a bitter old man waiting to die aloneI'm 33, my material state is already a bitter old man ready to die alone. my brain just hasn't caught up yet and still yearns to find a nice girl I can fix and pair bond with. Maybe suicide is the only solution.
>>84510828>tfw no soft sensitive bf to cry as he suckles my tits
>>84511268I'm a decade younger than you. >you're still sooo young you still have time!>improoooooov>its your own fault if you don't change and go nowhere>people get kinder with age>pfft please i was settled for at 36 it's never overI hate them all.
>>84511306If you're 23 you're at the peak phase of life for making friends and meeting women. If you give up this opportunity you will regret it for the rest of your life. Do not wait, do not expect anyone to save you. If you fail in your youth your life is over anon. I wish I knew this at 23 so I could've went outside more and talked to strangers more. Now if I do it people will think I'm a rapist.
>>84510828i love elliott smith
>>84511055>recluse, during rare irl encountersThat adds up with the "I have yet to meet them" part. With billions of people + different cultures + social trends that can last for a while, it's going to take time toa) meet someone you click withb) actually get to know that you clickc) develop that bond enough for romanceThe girls who expressed interest in me, confessed or who I asked out, most of those moments did not come soon after meeting them.I met them, spent time conversing with them, then got to see we enjoy spending time together, saw we had similar interests, and got along well enough to take interest in things we weren't familiar with.>soft, sensitive, diagnosed autisticLook at it another way: there are many girls you'd enjoy the company of who are like this, which further reduces the chances of you actually meeting. Someone has to take the initiative and show the interest is more than just fleeting/novelty. Your chances of meeting someone who appreciates your traits increase if the one who takes initiative is (You).
>>84511373How are you meant to meet women or make irl friends in current year? I'm constantly bothered by the thought of wasting my youth as a recluse but after several years of being an adult neet I have no idea what a non-wasted youth looks like
>>84511227he probably got desensitized to that kind of thing from shooting up heroin
>>84511483he was completely sober from everything during the time of his death
>>84511462>How are you meant to meet women or make irl friends in current year?I don't know I'm 33 and haven't had any friends since elementary school. I'll probably kill myself soon since the situation is hopeless and my therapist agrees.If I had to guess, what I'd do if I could go back in time to being young is just randomly hanging out in public 3-4 times a week and seeing where it goes. If I saw a girl dressed cutely or wearing anime/sanrio merch I would compliment her and try to strike up a conversation to see if we vibe. If we did I would probably come up with a way to invite her to hang out platonically or exchange socials like tiktok or discord or whatever the kids use these days. If I never meet anyone cool I would kill myself but I'm already doing that now so it wouldn't make a difference.Of course this is all theoretical and I have crippling social anxiety so I'd probably just be a creep and get arrested/ostracized. idk lol.
You bitches deserve to be murder victims. Total foid death
>>84511567WHATD I DO!!!! i am just a silly foid!!!
>>84511602Is your boyfriend soft and sensitive?
>>84511626PROBABLY but idk if i'd call it specifically soft and sensitive. he's very sweet and emotionally available in a way i could only dream to bei envy his ability to love and be open to whatever i throw at him. god he's amazing. FUCK!!!!!!!!!!!
>>84511462>>84511506Do you two interact with IRL or online spaces centered around your interests? Bars, libraries, game shops, forums or chat servers? Stuff like that. Just asking to see whether my experiences might have any relevance before I go blabbing./
>>84511655oldfag retard hereI don't go outside since I have no friends to do stuff with but I'm in various servers for my interests and have some online friends and girls I talk to a lot, they just don't live anywhere near me.I would suggest not wasting your time living on the internet. Go outside, none of your online relationships matter or will ever materialize into anything. I spent the past 10 years going from various internet girlfriends and online social circles and none of them ever improved my life. I never even met any of them irl. It's all just a fucking waste of time.
>>84511678Everything in life is just a distraction from the fact that you're just a dying body passing time.
>>84511678noo thats jsut a you problem my e-gf will be the mother of my children
>>84511678I'm glad I asked first then. I've been more fortunate when it comes to online bonds and may end up taking some people up on their offer to meet IRL but I knew that wouldn't be a universal experience. But definitely making the effort to go meet people locally has a lot of advantages which is why I asked about those too.
>>84511013I've been told I'm average in looks, white, and I'm 6'4. I'm 31 and never had sex. If you don't have confidence you're never getting anywhere.
>>84512394you conveniently left out your weight.
>>84511678>none of your online relationships matter or will ever materialize into anythingi've seen people become friends and partners via online communities. and they meet each other irl and probably fuck each other. i've seen people meet their life partner through games. that's why it stings so much, because it's possible but not even finding just a friend works for us
>>84512520Those kinda relationships only happen if the woman is from an underpopulated country or a 3rd world country and uses the internet as a means of escaping her situation. I guess in that case seek out 3rd world women, I recommend the UK like half the e-girls on this board are from there.
>>84512394Ok man, but a 6'4 guy should at least be able to regularly get dates on the apps (where you list your height like hinge) and have enough opportunity where eventually you'll meet a girl takes your hand and literally feels herself with it.Not saying that's my experience, but my mega autistic but attractive friends have that experience.
>>84512533wrong, i'm talking about first world countries
stop using elliott smith in your ideal bf posts.>hides thread
