how are you supposed to have a social circle and friends if you have nerdy (male-type nerdy) interests as a woman?i want only female friends because if i didn't have this rule, i'd end up with only male friends. and i don't think men are capable of being friends with women since they are low emotional intelligence and can't have a platonic friendship. so yeah i never want male friends. plus, women who only have male friends are rightfully looked down upon.i feel like i am doomed to be friendless. and i mean actually having no friends or even acquaintances for 10 years, unlike the male normies here who have friends. if you have friends, you are 1000% a normoid.
>>84514592just be happy with being someone's wife, then you can be best friends with your husband and no one will care
>>84514592>how are you supposed to have a social circle and friends if you have nerdy (male-type nerdy) interests as a woman?Same way as foids always do.Get man to do things for you. Get outgoing boyfriend and let him introduce your to his social circles.Easy.
>>84514604what if your husbando has friends? even if they'd just be other male nerds for example. in that situation he'd always look down upon you for being a woman and STILL being more of a loser than him and having less social "capital" than him.
>>84514612most men only have male friends. female-male friendships don't exist also. so that wouldn't help unless it's some mega normie who has suitable female friends to befriend. although if he's a mega normie who has female friends, he'd also likely be the type who has had sex with his female friends, and i would never get in the middle of that sort of drama.i don't 100% reject your advice but when i think about this, it doesn't actually seem as helpful as it sounds at first.
>>84514615Find one with few or no friends. Also if you're cool, a lot of men won't care if you don't have friends other than them.
>>84514628>>84514628>most men only have male friendsAnd these men have girlfriends and wives and they have parties together. You can befriend these foids.Of course most foids have superficial interests so you should have taste for such activities or make yourself like them
>>84514592Attend local comic or science fiction conventions. Many nerdy interests overlap there, and you won't be bored even if you don't initially hook up.
>>84514704i know men would say they are ""cool"" with it, but deep down they would see you as a loser if they have even one friend while you have none. they would respect other women more than you since they see you are at the bottom of the female hierarchy.seems like finding a true loner guy who also has no friends would be ideal, but i think men like that tend to be really shy. and considering i am ultra shy, nobody would approach each other. well one can hope i suppose.
>>84514592ur not gonna like it but the answer is trannies
>>84514724i've never done hookups or anything like that and never will lol. people who engage in that sort of thing kinda disgust me .
>>84514736well i hope anons don't start clowning on me now but i wouldn't mind a tranny friend lmao, if and only if, they were normal about it (not a weird AGP whose literal fetish is becoming/being a woman, these seem very common unfortunately)
>>84514734>but deep down they would see you as a loserWomen are already losers in men's eyes. No realy remove gender factor and women make terrible loser manlet Chuds nobody will take seriously.But women are women, they are cute (if cute) and cute one's are awfully pleasant to fuck for men. That excuses everything for them.
>>84514734>deep down they would see you as a losernot true at all imo. I personally wouldn't care and would somewhat see it as a plus since I myself am not very social. Also I've noticed sometimes women's female "friends" will try to sabotage each other. Saw it with my sister, she had a boyfriend who she liked and he seemed like a good guy but he was a jobless NEET (though rich due to being a trust fund baby) and somehow her friend convinced her to break up with him because he didn't have a job. Real shitty thing to do to your "friend" imo.
>>84514592>and i don't think men are capable of being friends with women since they are low emotional intelligence and can't have a platonic friendship.I wonder why nobody likes you
>>84514755i think a man perceiving you as confident lessens that instinct, or at least makes the man hide it out of fear of social consequences since confident women are willing to stand up for themselves and leave a relationship at the sign of the slightest mean streak/disrespect/weird behavior from the man. men know this and at least act like they respect the woman, but only if she comes across like she's confident/no bullshit.and seriously, no person who has 0 friends while still wanting friends is capable of being or even coming across as confident.>>84514772i understand your point but i guess i still disagree partially. you might think you don't care, and maybe initially you won't, but deep down you'd still see that she has less social power than you do (and there is a huge difference in social capital or social power between someone who has no friends and no social circle to fall back on, vs. someone who has 0 friends). and that would make you respect her less than anyone else who has friends, man or woman. people sense weakness and see it as an opportunity to hurt you or take their own issues out on you, even good people. it's just how humans work, we are trained to see those without a "tribe" (friends) as less valuable to have around.
>>84514774>wonder why nobody likes youInteresting fact she repeats words of Manoshere guru Rollo Tomassi.Platonic gfs don't exist. Their male friends are Chuds who orbit in hope for sex. It's always on the table in their minds
>>84514788>between someone who has friends and has a social circle to fall back on*i should go to sleep already ngl
>>84514788>or at least makes the man hide it out of fear of social consequences>social consequencesYeah are losing access to sex.Just imagine yourself as face ugly (average) men if same your height height.Nobody men or women would take your seriously.
>>84514790well i agree with anyone who thinks men simply can't be friends with women bc it's true. but doesn't mean i will agree with other things they say.
The truth is that having friends at all is an incredible waste of time and the density of enjoyment just isn't there for the cost and risk. I can get all my socialization needs met from coworker smalltalk and then uncensored uninhibited conversations online. There is nothing a friend would provide that wont come with way too much friction and time cost that would outweigh any benefit.You think you want friends, because its what you think is the normal standard goal. But it really isn't.
>>84514812Everyone takes men seriously, it's the status quo. Maybe you just have a victim complex
>>84514817so you voluntarily don't have friends other than like talking to coworkers and making small talk with people? just curious.and maybe. but i did have an online friend once and it was 10/10. she was another nerdy girl and we were both teens, we met in a kids browser game a long time ago. but she ghosted me after a few years because one summer i just wasn't on my pc a lot and accidentally ignored her often, and she probably felt like i ghosted her first, it was my mistake tho. but it was so nice, we watched movies online together and had fun on those online draw with other people sites since both liked drawing. i've wished i had a (nerdy) girl friend since then.
>>84514788>and that would make you respect her less than anyone else who has friends, man or woman.It definitely wouldn't I'm a loner by nature and I don't have the capacity for a significant social circle. A girl with few to no friends and male-centered interests is a huge positive to me. I really don't think I'm alone in this, tomboys are high value. I think you are looking at it in a very female-coded way. Social capital/social power is something women care about a lot more than men. When selecting a mate, I couldn't really care about either; in fact the lower the better so I don't have to integrate into her large social circle.
>>84514870maybe so, i just truly feel like nobody is entirely immune to social conditioning. anyone can sense weakness when they see you have no friends and no one to defend you. and you may act on that knowledge in a negative way towards that person, even if it's small, without even realizing it. but yeah in terms of dating i also have no idea how to "advertise" this to guys who like women like me (i mean irl, don't want to use dating apps). i really really don't ever want to look like a "tee hee i'm not like the other girls". i have been called that on 4chan a lot if i ever reveal my gender when posting and i admit i hate being seen that way lol.
>>84514896>nobody is entirely immune to social conditioningI'd like to introduce my superpower: autism. Jokes aside, you are probably right when it comes to normalfags but the weird and outcast amoung us don't really care what they think.I don't really know how you would advertise that other than showing your genuine interests and hope the right person is watching. I mean there's always going to be haters but if you have a genuine interest in something they can be easily dismissed. I'm afraid I've never fully understood the whole dating process at all so I don't really have anything useful to say.
>>84514592You just join and ruin male circles
>>84514964if you're someone who had a group of friends as a kid/teen you'll never be a true outcast imo. most adult "outcasts" are like this. not saying you are, but true actual outcasts are obviously hard to find.and np i guess i was kinda just venting at you sorry.
>>84514987Don't try to get women to act like you do, troon
>>8451459297% of women are uninteresting and boring, literal mud for brains people, you'll just have to deal with it and hope you find a dude(s) that doesn't have interest in you and won't muster up the courage to ask you out /shrugalso>low emotional intelligence>has no friendslol, lmao even, are u retarded OP?biggest misunderstanding for modern women is "emotional intellect" and just being emotional, they mix that shit up like it's peanut butter and chocolate
>>84514865>so you voluntarily don't have friends other than like talking to coworkers and making small talk with people? just curious.That is correct. I have tons of interests. Playing music(clarinet, saxophone, piano), cooking new things from weird cookbooks, working out in my basement home gym, and the endless DIY and maintenance tasks to keep my house looking like a perfect animal crossing home. Friends always want to do things that waste time or that I'm not interested in. I do not want to do what they want. A good friend to me would be someone entirely subservient that does any activity I say we are now doing. This is unreasonable and therefore I do not bother other people.
>>84515074I've seen that too most people have huge groups of friends throughout childhood and then when it drops to only a handful when everyone moves away they think they're outcasts. yeah that's the unfortunate reality, fellow outcasts are, well outcasts and often hermits like myself. hard to meet someone who never leaves the house.
>>84514592You're not a woman troon
