>girl adds me from /soc/>she's chinese, likes anime, likes manga, and generally very easy to talk to about nerdy stuff even though she's very esl>we talk for like 8 hours and get along well>she asks me to vc and i say i'm not ready for that yet because i'm very shy>she asks me for a vocaroo at least to wish her a goodnight that she can listen to while in bed>i figure it'd be nice to whisper something sweet to her since she's sleepy and it would be like being next to her in bed>after 10 minutes of recording and rerecording my awkward as fuck attempt at wishing a girl goodnight for the first time in my life i send it to her>she just responds "are you underage? why are you whispering? are you not a man?? rerecord it and talk normal">I say "sorry thats all your getting take it or leave it">She accuses me of throwing a tantrum for not wanting to do it again>I reply that it's cruel to ask someone to leave their comfort zone for you and then immediately ridicule them for it>she accuses me of emotionally manipulating her and trying to guilt her and asks if I'm trying to get something out of her>I'm kind of baffled at this point how this person is so lacking in empathy>I go cold because at this point I've lost all attraction to her for her inability to understand human emotion and constantly shift blame>her response is blaming me for making her cry and saying I became cold to hurt her and am just making up my hurt feelings to try to hurt her.Is this what all asian girls are like? holy fuck I want to kill myself now. the sheer entitlement and obliviousness just makes me feel bad for her more than i am upset.
>girl adds me from 4chan>"talk" for 8hrs >asks to vc>is this what all asian girls are likeBrotherman you somehow figured out how to fraternize with someone on 4chan to the point of breaking anonymity, you then sent typed messages back and forth for an entire day/night, and then you were planning on "vc"ing and still talking to a computer. This is what anyone who's entire life is a computer is like.
>>84520303I'm a loser on 4chan, sue me faggot
Be a fucking man and speak at a normal tone to a human woman, its really not that complex. You got filtered hard because she thought you were effeminate. Worse, you verified that by blogging on the internet instead of bottling it in.
>>84520307Your assignment is to look at a human woman's face IRL and speak audibly to her before the end of the year
>>84520328I didn't bottle it in I openly argued with her because I'm not gonna let some foid walk all over me.It's not even like I'm afraid to talk at a normal voice. It was just late and I didn't want to wake anyone and thought it might be cute or romantic idk. I just didn't feel like rerecording it because she was a bitch about it.Women don't get to just treat you like shit and then expect you to "man up" by doing everything they demand of you. If you treat someone like shit they have a right to not want to deal with you anymore.
>>84520333i'll look at your mom's face and tell her i love her and will never leave her before i cum in her fat milf hole you fag
>>84520275>Is this what all asian girls are like?No. Odds of understanding one another are just lower when a) you meet through 4chanb) it's day 1 and you haven't come to understand one another's thinking, history and experiencesShe didn't need to act like she did especially after the sorry, but on the other hand most people hear goodnight in an unwhispered form, whether it's at home, leaving a work place, friend's house or theater, or even when people are logging off after playing games in VC. I get why you think whispering would be nice but sometimes, especially early on, the more ordinary approach is better. I can easily see you were not being manipulative, but people have had experiences with manipulators who try to come off as not having expectations but withhold little things at first and gradually escalate. Based on the stuff written in quotes you both could've put things over better. Here's to better experiences in the future.
You are a fucking weenie weaponizing weakness. Grow some fucking balls
>>84520376you're kind anon, thank you. I didn't think it would be a big deal since it was still my voice in the end. I was totally genuine about it and not trying to "withhold" anything. But I can see now that someone might interpret it that way, and I will learn from it in the future. Though primarily I just learned to not leave my comfort zone and stick to my boundaries. If I do decide to leave my comfort zone it'll be with someone I trust and not just momentary infatuation with a stranger.>>84520389weaponizing weakness? I was totally upfront about everything. I don't lie to women as that would be a waste of time, it will inevitably come back to bite you. Setting boundaries is a good thing you retard.
>>84520428>Setting boundaries is a good thing you retardWhat kind of retarded boundary is "I'm only going to whisper in vc"? She just wanted some good fap fuel man, why you gotta be a dick about it?
>>84520275>are you underage? why are you whispering? are you not a man??Kek. Women are so retarded, it's baffling that she thought it was a good idea to say that
>>84520428Thank you for that, I'm glad the paragraphs I wrote seemed reasonable.>with someone I trust and not just momentary infatuationLooking at my past, every time a girl expressed interest in me, or confessed, we had already been talking a lot over many months, even up to a year. So I would say meeting a person's enthusiasm with calm and humility leads to more stable bonds, based on more accurate understanding of one another. Yet I would also say, think about treating VC as a normal chill time at first instead of viewing it as something more to be reserved for later or special. Put on a film, a game or some music and just hang out. That is IF someone requests VC early on and is a bit sad that you wish not to. I'm not one for deception, but putting it over as maybe there being too much noise at the moment might be something to think about. Still, sometimes people just have less compatible desires and it's okay to accept that and leave off there. If one of you contacts one another again, cool. If not then you're both on the way to finding the next person who might be compatible, also cool.
>>84520275wtf is that tiny thing wtf wtf
>>84520275having a fairy gf would be as cute as it'd be stressing. I'm prone to breaking things, I would be hesitant to touch her at all!
>>84520428It's a fucking voice message, stop talking about comfort zones you ridiculous faggot.Talk normally, acknowledge your voice sounds like shit because it always sounds like shit when you hear it recorded and hit send
