>"The "Devouring Mother" is a Jungian archetype representing the negative, suffocating side of the nurturing mother, where care becomes control, preventing a child's independence. This archetype infantilizes children to keep them helpless and dependent, often to satisfy the mother's own emotional needs or fear of abandonment."Any robots know this feel?
>>84529378very much so but its best to disappoint with success than a mess what i went through was i wanted to be a photographer and got to some south African celebrities here in joberg with a friends camera but the problem was i wouldn't be allowed even to come home to a normal situation I'd come back to furious parents who would take out there anger on me but eventually things even out
>>84529378yeah, i always obeyed and listened to my parents, never rebelled or anything, part of me feels childhood rebellion is a genuine part of growing up, it really helps independence among other factors, now i kinda just do nothing? i don't really go to parties or do anything "fun", i kind of just sit inside, spend time on the computer or with my parents, i don't have many basic life skillshave i been stockholm syndromed?
>>84529378>Any robots know this feel?Yeah it describes my mother perfectly.My grandma, her mom, passed away last night and her siblings (my aunts) called me up to tell me about it how they don't even want my mom at the funeral because she's going to start problems...It's fucked up.Families shouldn't be like this but BIPOLAR DISORDER is a thing.
>>84529528Literally me. Consider that maybe, being a Human was never your destiny
My mother was a textbook example of this. Went to great lengths to keep me sheltered and isolated and under her thumb for as long as possible so that I couldn't escape, and brainwashed me into thinking I couldn't survive in the real world and needed her to dictate my reality for me. When I did leave and cut contact with her, she turned almost my entire family against me. She's dead to me.
>>84529378yea it's literally being spawncamped, even every goverment on earth enforces it.its called covert narcissism and practically every mother is like this, they act like they love you around relatives and then treat you like a human barbie doll when they're alone with you, you're just a funny toy to them, they gaslight you when you tell them they are wrong. you aren't allowed to leave independent and wealthy because who would want their cute dolls to move on from them, right?nothing you can socially do about it though because that's how humans work, oh that poor mother, I've never seen a millimeter of the child's life but how dare they complain!it's always the child's fault because adults are "superior" in every way shaoe or form based on ageism.
>>84529692>it's always the child's fault because adults are "superior" in every way shaoe or form based on ageismYeah this boomer mentality needs to stop.Sex-havers have essentially no checked or balances when it comes to reproduction, they just fuck and fuck and we're all just left stuck with whoever.No IQ test.No responsibility test.No maturity test.Just "these people had sex so you must listen to them dictate your entire life" and I think that's causing us all problems. Too random and chaotic. We all don't get guaranteed good parents -- but all of us are expected to be obedient and submissive towards them.
>>84529727you don't even get the slightest chance too to survive because they just let you get bullied and mentally scarred and don't care at all about educating you so you don't even get a mildly fair chance to exist, well i suppose you don't get a fair chance to exist anyway because of entropy and alladat
jung is the ultimate midwit trap
It's genuinely a curse to have a high IQ father and a low IQ mother and to be raised by the mother alone.
>>84529782i dunno, i don't think the father is very intelligent if he just impregnated some random low iq female just because he didn't have self control.
>>84529378My mother was fine, good even, but my father was very much a devouring father, he's still like that to this day.
>>84529378>Any robots know this feel?Yeah. I am. At 37 i am still living with such my mother.
>>84529528Its very very bad. If you had possibilty rent the room and start independent life do it ASAP. Of course market is bad everywhere, it its takes more than 50% of your income you shouldn't do that. But if you can do it for 30%, pull the trigger right now.
>>84529727>>84529760i remember in early teens stumb,ling on "sex life" term in encyclopedia. I started to ask parents what does it mean. They mumbled something incomprehensible hopping they don't need to touch sensitive subjects so it will sorts out istelf naturally with my school peers.Well i am 37 i never had gf, wife and kids. It sorted out itself ok, ahha jokes on you parents "muh grand-kids"
>>84530688we basically were born in a educational void and shamed for it by literally everyone, so i guess we might as well never have existed too, kek.
>>84529378Yeah, she spent pretty much my entire childhood invalidating, nitpicking and criticizing every single thing I said. When I fucked off from home she started acting more or less nice to me and then proceeded to wonder why I have no self-esteem and why I'm distant with her.Fucking cunt
>>84530595Nah, you don't have to move out to rebel. Invest in a car, though. A car is freedom. You can go anywhere, and you can have sex with it. It's enough.
>>84529797I don't know, I have a dad like that, he's smart but It's really weird. He seems like he was always aware of it, and that my mom has always treated me poorly and has stunted or made development for me difficult, he's even said it out loud sometimes. But he kinda just did nothing about it. It's a weird feel. I don't really understand what goes on through his head.
>>84530879sounds like he's cognitively dissonant maybe, not sure what else can explain it.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cognitive_dissonance
>>84530857You do though. Fuck this everyday nagging. You may brush it ways been everyday noise, a habit. But its sits in the back of you mind and shapes you acts.> Invest in a car, though. A car is freedom. You can go anywhere, and you can have sex with it. It's enough.This is substitute. But yeah can work as substitute too especially for under 30s robot. Later not having you place is too much ick for foids.>Nah, you don't have to move out to rebel. IYou do. Car ot you own place is moving out, Its essentially living your life outside you parents observation and comments. if you can financially you should.
>>84530912I think he's just a coward. That's where I got it from.
>>84530879>. I don't really understand what goes on through his head.That if he rebels he losses access to pussy and he is not Chad who has replacement pussy at hand. So he is sacrificing you to the access fro pussy for himself.
>>84530932No, I don't think they ever fucked. It's fine, wagecucking and marriage breaks anybody.
>>84530932>le pussyjust get a onahole or something, even a dildo is probably feels better than a pussy, won't talk back either.pussy ain't the best thing in reality, that's for sure.
>>84529574Almost 100% the same. My mother at one point convinced the government I was retarded and she was my caretaker so she would get both: A) free money and B) I would never leave her because my record says I'm retarded and no one would rent to me or hire me.She destroyed any potential I might have had and turned me into a useless dependent fool that no one wants around.Eventually the money ran out and I had to fend for myself. Holy shit how humiliating not knowing how to do a job in middle age because I had no experience. I may as well have been actually retarded for how useless I come across.
>>84530688Yeah parents ironically turn out to be cock-blockers because they get lazy/weird about sex and advancing the bloodline.
>>84530932Or he realized that if she decides to divorce him he will lose access to op, and she will destroy op with no oversight.
>>84531042If she stunted your development on purpose and psychologically abused you to the point of not being able to function and then had you officially diagnosed as this or that because of the problems that SHE created so that you had no choice but to believe you were just born defective and crazy and nobody would ever take your side of things seriously and left you with no support system or sympathy from your family, then we probably had the same mother.
>>84529378>parent sacrifices their childs future so they can benefit and feel betterUnironically it is better to be an orphan atleast no one is trying to sabotage you then.
can my hatred for women get any worse?
>>84532072i don't hate women at all, they're just disgusting subhumans tbats all, biology forced them to be subhuman like this.
>>84531726>If she stunted your development on purposeCheck. Never let me a join a peer group. Not even boy scouts. Never played on a team. Nothing. I'm scared of other men.>psychologically abused you to the point of not being able to functionCheck. She deliberately made me as anxious as possible when doing anything. My legs would shake going into a restaurant.>diagnosed as this or that because of the problems that SHE createdYep. I'm not actually schizophrenic, but I outwardly display schizoid behaviors because of what she did to me.>left you with no support system or sympathy from your familyShe would talk shit about her family like they were crazy or dangerous. They're not. Once I got to know them, they're pretty cool people. She denied me a relationship with them and a support system I so desperately needed.I think she just liked the fact I was technically her property as a child and she could literally do whatever she wanted to me (beside physical torture). Lying. Scaring me into a nervous wreck. Making me utterly dependent on her to live. No one could stop her and at one point, like I said, the government was actively encouraging her to do it.I was utterly fucked from day one. If a bird had snatched me up after birth and dropped me into a homeless encampment, then I'd at least have developed some useful skills or some kind of personality. I'm barely a person as it is, and I missed out on 30+ years of socializing and earning money that I can't catch up on. I'm plotting my suicide, I don't mean like soon because I'm sad or something, but I mean for when I'm old and can't work anymore because there's literally no other option besides slowly rotting under a freeway overpass.
>>84532616same, can't even kill myself properly, since i never had a fucking cent to my name in my entire life in the first place, my only option is to slowly rot and fester in agony while the weather rabid animals and bugs shred me into little bits like some soldier that got their legs blown off by a drone operator and got abandoned to rot for hours or days.
probably not, my mother was eager to abandon me
>>84532687nice that you got peace eventually i suppose.
>>84529378As someone with a neglectful alcoholic retard as a mother, I would have much preferred the devouring mother. Although it did make me an extremely independent individual starting at a young age, I would have liked more love from her. Now you got me fantasizing about a sexy devouring mother treating me like a child and giving me good boy points that I could spend on sexual favors.
>>84532717that's not how they work, you wouldn't want this, they don't care about your well being at all, let alone sexual favors kek, the only thing you get from a devouring mother is covert gaslighting and insane amounts of neglect, you don't get to be teached or have any nice opportunities you just get to exist there in her presence, until either she kicks you out at 18 or you get kicked out when she croaks, and then you rot in the streets for weeks or months with insane headaches from dehydration scared of rabid animals or people and despair, everything will hurt to the maximum continuously until you finally croak aswell.
>>84532767well damn, OP did not give a good description then
>>84532717whatever love you get feels hollow after all the neglect and abuse. It makes you feel like a doll.
>>84529378Uh yeah I want to say yes. I am the baby of the family and having autism/adhd it was rough for me. I am a mommas boy and I understand she was doing the best she could for me but she babied me a lot and I feel like it stunted me somewhat but with my issues it just made things worse. I still feel like a child at times even though I have a government job and a house. Mentally I am a mess but I believe it is from my own mental issues and not from her. Early social stuff was rough but it is what it is. She got really upset with me to point of tears and then some when I told her I was leaving.
>>84533017description's fine, you're just terminally pornbrained
>>84529797yep that's my father
i devoured your mother op ahahahhaa lmao
