im not reading your social media screen capture, indian

>>84530971
Silence fecaloid/bot.

>>84530971
Recoup the $60 because she's obviously rejecting. Might as well get a little money back.

>>84530971
Sounds good to me. I only split the money on first dates anyways. Paying for everything before you're going steady is how you get taken advantage of by shitty women looking for a free meal.
In this case, whether she plans to continue dating me or not, I have a lot of respect for her wanting to reimburse me for her half of the date expenses.

>>84530971
The foid clearly isn't interested in him, but honestly respect to her for wanting to reimburse him half the money rather than outright ghosting.

>>84531099
This
>>84531529
Yeah I'm surprised too.

>>84530971
juts give your Venmo.
Why care?

Then next day ask to set up next date as nothing bad ever happened.

>>84530971
this demands violence

>>84530971
i paid for our meal one time and my girlfriend got really pissed. she insists on splitting everything 50/50. honestly, pretty nice.

>>84530971
>120$ on first date
Holy retard if this is real, just go for a walk at the park on the first date, if she needs you to buy her something to fuck her she's a prostitute

>>84530971
Personally, I'd turn down her offer out of spite and hope that she never speaks to me again.

sounds like some stupid shit test

>>84532047
>sounds like some stupid shit test
I think you might be right

>>84530971
I'd not waste my time on performative people like that. I've dated an older Chinese woman who worked at Microsoft and she split every date we went on.

Actually didn't let me pay for her, and I found it more annoying than anything. We both knew she made way more than me, so her going half on dates was completely pointless since neither of us were under 90% percentile net worth for our perspective age groups.

>>84530971
Sounds like she's not interested and wants to feel like she wasn't just using you for an expensive meal. A lot of girls on dating apps are there for validation. Maybe she wanted to know if she could get a guy to buy her a 100+ dollar meal.

>>84530971
i don't understand what you guys want
if a woman goes out with you, and wants to split, somehow that means she's uninterested and it's a shittest? but if she just let him pay, she's a goldigging whore
you people are impossible

>>84530971
just take the money
either she feels weird about it - splitting the bill will make her chill
or she feels weird about the date and wants to break contact and this will clear her conscious
or she is doing a shit test and would be exhausting to date

>>84530971
It's either a test to see what he says or she doesn't want to see him again. Either way the best answer is to say "don't worry about it"

>>84531529
Yeah he got lucky. I spent like $80 bucks on this one date and the day after she told me she wasnt interested.

It's some kind of scam. I don't know how venmo works but I'm assuming it's stupid and not safe or secure. Otherwise she wouldn't be asking him for his financial data like this. The $60 is bait, she intends to do something bad. Nonscammers would just use cash. Women carry giant fucking bags with them everywhere, but she doesn't even have three twenties in there?

>>84533389
Damn and I thought me spending 40 bucks in 2017 was fucking terrible.
Though at least she kidnapped me to play pool. At least it's something instead of just being given nothing.

>>84531488
>Paying for everything before you're going steady is how you get taken advantage of by shitty women looking for a free meal.
this is why you're an incel btw

My mindset has changed.

I have money to my name now, so im not reliant on a man for money. Im happy to pay my own way because i dont want to risk my date attempting to rape me or attack me because i refused to have sex. I'll pay for my own food, enjoy the experience and if the man opposite is nice great, and if he isn't then I've lost nothing. Its important to not let any man get close, and not have any man hold power over you, so I'll pay for my own things and then I'll continue with my day.

>>84534248
That's dumb and implies your time is worth nothing. It's not risking financial abuse to let a scrote bare minimum treat you to a date but hey it's your life

>>84534248
Also it's hilarious you think paying your tab will stop a rapist

>>84533873
Venmo is perfectly safe to exchange money, stop talking about shit you clearly know nothing about

>>84534259
My time is worth what its worth. I'll spend my time and my money how i see fit

>>84534264
Rape is hilarious to you, thanks for letting everyone know you are a garbage person, dont reply

>>84534322
You can't girlboss away a rapist but throw money at scrotes for false security again not my life lady

>84534338
I see that not only are you evil, you cant read

>>84534361
I'm rape proof because I split the bill on dinner and a movie I'm so smart heehee

>>84530971
Who cares what I think about such matters. I'm an undateable unfuckable freak. Not a single person in the whole world would give an iota of a fuck what my opinion on this is. Go ask on soc instead.