I fear I will never have friends nor a girlfriend. Real life also don't give me too much good socialization opportunities, or at least I don't know how to benefit from the ones I have.I have no choice but to fantasize about hugs, about caressing the long hair of a girl and feeling safe because of her.It is sad because living alone is living a limited life. You won't go out often, you won't learn about other people, their lifes and way of thinking, you will not have the advantage of having others do favors for you (such as recommending you for a job). As a socially anxious and isolated character from a novel said, he was "living inside his four smoked dark green walls" and he was comparable to an "injuried, scared cat" who suffered a lot of disgraceful things.I made a thread yesterday but I fell asleep right before posting it. Some people offered to add me and I really appreaciate the kindness, but I also felt pressured to keep an intersting conversation and that made me tense. Maybe in the future I reach out /r9k/ and try adding people from here.
>>84531816please dont completely lose hope of meeting new peopleyoull figure it out, youre already working through it so keep on thinking about things and how you might improve them<3
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>>84531998<3>>84532023Aren't you curious about sex and all?
>>84531816you're socializing all the time on the internet, r9k currently, even making a thread. dumb.
>>84532265>you're socializing all the time on the internet, r9k currently, even making a thread. dumb.It is not the same.
>>84531816I feel you anon. I was in the same position before university. But I decided to man up and get friends. It worked. For a while. Now I'm a few years out and I have to pretend that I'm remotely in agreement with their worldviews. I've grown to hate these people being honest. They do even mock me covertly and behind my back.And the best part is that I'm no closer to a romantic partner at all. If anything I've only realized the futility in my pursuit of romantic relationships. There is no point in this life. I just want my degree and fuck off into a 3rd world shithole for the rest of my life.
>>84531816I made friends when I didn't expect to. Joined discord servers for various interests of mine, so the focus there is really the hobby/series instead of making outright friends.But people got to know each other as they spoke in the general group chat each week, some daily, some a few times a week. Over a long time people got to see I could be trusted to be sincere in my interest, reasonable even when we didn't have the same opinion.As a result, both outgoing and shy people opened up and sent me DMs and friend requests, and while still taking our time, not even talking every single day, we got to know each other. So by now I've met people who I'll meet up with some day, go vacationing in another country with, etc.I have financial goals I wanna meet and I was making progress before meeting many of these people, so they already knew before extending invitations to me that I was also busy making moves to enrich my life. I'm thankful that at least for now they are willing to wait, but it makes sense since we already have fun online and many of them are busy with work too.
>>84532619>Now I'm a few years out and I have to pretend that I'm remotely in agreement with their worldviews. I've grown to hate these people being honest. They do even mock me covertly and behind my back.That's horrible, I'm sorry this is happening to you. If you don't like them can't you just distance yourself from them?>>84532744I was expecting somethlng like that, making friends by being active on servers. It is great that things are going well for you. It seems fun. Keep in touch with them.
>>84533054Thanks. This is all happening kinda suddenly after having been friendless for almost a decade. Best friend went off the deep end one day and I had to take time to heal and be willing to take a chance with others again. So now that I'm putting time into interacting with others again I'm gradually seeing how kind but forward some people can be. Including interest from girls looking for a level-headed person to be a husband and father. I hope you experience all that and more!
