A redditor wants to commit suicide because he missed out on teenage love. Do you find that legitimate?
>>84536774I fully support it due to the fact that he is a redditorgood riddance
>look mom I posted the reddit thread again
>>84536774I understand him. Wish I could meet guys who feel similarly irl, so I could give them a hug and find some sort of comradery in our shared missing out on experiences and resulting misery. It's easier to bear misery in a community of people who struggle with the same things you do. But we'd probably be immediately put on a watch list and prevented from having meetups.
>>84536774This shit is just like sex in general. Overrated
>>84536774i had one chance in life to lose my virginity at 15, but my mom kept telling me that the girl is a slut and i shouldnt date her. now im a 30+ lonely virgin and whenever i try to talk to my mom about how hopeless everything is she just stares into the distance and then starts talking about food or the weather.
>>84536774I experienced what you might call "teenage love." Yeah yeah, I'm a fakecel, I know. But it really wasn't as good as romance anime makes it seem. They both demanded my attention all the time and they both left me as soon as they found out I wasn't a turbonormie. So I pretty much gave up on romance when I became an adult.
>>84536821Cuck go and find guys like this and beat up couples at night and foids who walk around without men gang style. Even chad can't do anything against a gang with weapons attacking him from behind.
>>84536774it is obviously /far/ worse to be settled for but why doesn't he just say 'fuck it' >or don't fuck it as the case may beand just stay single, find entertaining things, travel, entertainment, friends etc
>>84536934How long does she stare to the distance before talking? I'd lose my shit if my mom did that. You should unironically kill her. She had you just with the purpose of serving as a social accessory and nothing else. I would never bring a person into this world just so that their entire existence is to be somebody's personal pet. These piece of trash boomers gen x and all kinds of old gen trash have no problem having kids because of social inertia.
>>84536774I think he's a faggot and I also think you're a faggot. Crybaby bitches. Shut the hell up. If you wanna kill yourself over some gay retarded shit, then just do it already. Stop seeking attention.
IMO the only cure for missing out on teenage love is to fuck PTP when you're older. It's not quite the same experience, but at least you didn't settle for old hags.
>>84537256>and just stay single, find entertaining things, travel, entertainment, friends etci have all of this and i still crave a romantic connection to the point it makes me want to kms
>>84537337I've come to the conclusion my father only wanted a child so there'd be one more cow paying into Social Security. Spent my whole childhood telling me rent was evil, and now wonders aloud why I still live with him so he can't sell the house to BlackRock.
>>84537256I've tried this. It doesn't work. You will run out of things you care to do alone. It just gets worse.
>>84536970Yup. Crying about not experiencing "teenage love" is just romanticizing what they didn't have. It's like some retard fantasizing about being le epic crusader knight or something.If you dumb shits had any friends at all, or just paid attention whatsoever to what was going on in your class, you would've seen other teenagers' relationships and realized how stupid it was. People would get together and break up constantly, cheat on each other, act like dumbasses, have pregnancy scares, etc. It's extremely chaotic and stupid. This is how almost everyone behaves as a teenager. Teenage love is the most superficial shit in existence and means almost nothing. Do you morons think if you had a teenage gf who cheated on you and then you had to keep going to school together, you'd be better off? Because that happened all the time when I was a teen.
>>84536774>had teenage love>told me I was the reason she didn't OD one night>friendship built by sticking together through scenarios most fortunately don't go throughShe threw it all away over some very irrational thinking. Thinking I actually thought could happen and took steps to avoid causing. Turns out she may have developed a form of BPD since she was around the age for it. Even if not she'd speak up years later to say she took what we had for granted and apologized multiple times out of the blue like the guilt was eating at her. We never put in the time to rebuild that burned bridge. I'd meet people as good and in some cases "better" than her anyway even though it took years for that to happen.>born without capacity for romance>enjoyed life long immensely anywayIt's understandable to be agonized over disappointed hopes, but we were supposed to become capable of romance, not dependent on it. Most of the things you'd enjoy with a lover you'd enjoy on your own anyway. Humans have the ability to shift their focus but we sometimes need that reminder. >by time I turn 30Redditor-chama will likely realize this one day, or just get swooned by someone they have yet to meet in the years ahead. When life is bad it's bad and we tunnel-vision on it often times. When it starts being good we can sometimes focus on that so much we ignore warning signs or just rush things even if nothing bad happens.
>>84537410I had a relationship that lasted 6 years, and it was extremely painful (4 me) at first to be apart after the breakup, but now I'm fine, I spend 95% of my day alone and it doesn't bother me at all. You can get used to anything. You don't have to be in a relationship, but you do need to talk to other people at least a little bit, just to prevent going crazy. Because the more time you spend alone and not interfacing with other brains, the more dangerous/retarded ideas can get reinforced, and you lose social skills. It's not required to have a gf, but you do need at least a friend or even just an associate you can tolerate.
>>84537441sour grapes the post lol
>>84537564But I had teenage love, so how is it "sour grapes" you dumb dumb faggot dumb dumb? Look up what the term means before using it.
>>84537526I have intricate multihour long conversations in my head with friends who don't talk to me irl anymore.
>>84537682Yep, that's what happens if you don't have real friends. The human brain creates them. You need to make some real friends or this is the type of schizo shit your brain will do. Next you'll be talking to inanimate objects.
>>84536774I want to die because I have done bad things and do not have the courage to own up to them.
>>84536774He can still love teenagers. Skill issue.
>>84536774The "I am a virgin so will rope by the time I turn 30" is very typical. I don't think they should give up. Obviously, it's late, and its bad to miss out for so long, but some people get a gf after 30.Notice how he knows he can get a relationship, but he is both lamenting that he missed out on teenage love and thinking that relationships after 30 arent worth it.This is a separate problem from having no relationships until 30, I think that he is too fixated on the youth that didn't go well for him and is now gone forever, and that he should accept that, accept that life sometimes isn't easy, it can't be like a coming of age movie for everyone, and try to make a comeback and see the value in being an adult. This would help him I think.
>>84536774>A redditor wants to commit suicideokay
There's many kinds of love. His grievance was probably more than just "tfw no pussy b0ss"Or not! Maybe people ARE that shallow!
>>84538262A redditor is just a 4channer who hasn't been banned from reddit yet