I'm a hopeless socially anxious guy but I hope someday I will find a protective girl who will always be by my side.
>>84537527You will never find that because it is contrary to all the ways in which human biology works
in my experience that will not be possible
>>84537916>in my experience that will not be possibleWhy not?
>>84537527females dont want submissive cucks
>>84537939girls don't like that and you are too anxious to find the unicorn that does
>>84538163So what are my options? What type of girl can I have?
What does socially anxious mean in your case? I know it's not the same for everyone.
>>84538519none. you already lost.
>>84538556I don't reach people out and distance myself from them. When talking to people I wonder if I am saying the right things or if I'm not being strange. I fear people who seems cool enough. It used to be worse, but even if the social anxiety is better now it doesn't change the fact that I'm alone.>>84538557pic related.
>>84538638>strangePeople can even find those who do the right thing to be strange and some people just don't get along closely due to lack of interestWhat is strange to some might be ordinary to others and who's to say someone's outlook is necessarily a healthy oneBut think about how being distant might make people a bit hesitant to approach you or wonder if they can hold your interestIf both people are waiting for the other to engage every time then they may never interact enough in an open way to see they get alongAre you in any discords for stuff you like such as Touhou, other fictional series, or individual games and hobbies?
>>84538748>But think about how being distant might make people a bit hesitant to approach you or wonder if they can hold your interestI just don't know how to insert myself on the social enviroment I frequent.>Are you in any discords for stuff you like such as Touhou, other fictional series, or individual games and hobbies?I joined Atlus' server yesterday. I will try to chat on the general chat regularly
>>84539043>the social enviroment I frequentSometimes we do end up not having people nearby IRL who we click with but that can sometimes change as everyone matures and gains new interestsKnew a guy who'd get pretty heated during work and I was not left out of him sometimes yelling because he thought others were messing up the flowIn time he became kinder because he saw I'd stand up to him respectfully and point out where it was actually him who was messing up earlier in the process>Atlus' serverGood move I'd say since various servers are where I met mature, trusting and enthusiastic friends though it wasn't instantChatting a few times a week in general (some days I only said good morning) and responding to people recommending songs/videos, trying to give encouraging device if I felt I had ideas when people asked for what to do, joining in on game nights, etc.So it's not that I was in chat every day but by showing I could have a laugh, but be mature and not perverted constantly, people gradually reached out to me over a year-long period in DMs and even friend requests, girls tooPerverted humor and constantly speaking about memes might be stuff you life and lots of people I enjoyed talking to liked those things too I'm just saying how it went for me and I hope you see success too
