How am I supposed to find a husband when I can't trust people?
>>84539184Listen, heh heh heh. Before I answer, I believe I can legally refer to myself in this community as "your highness" because I am high as absolutely figgety fuck at the moment, stranger. You catch what I'm throwing down?
>>84539184either get over it or don't
>>84539201How bruh
>>84539205Just tell random men you are searching for a husband, most will run away on the spot but maybe you'll get lucky and find someone that will stay.
>>84539214That doesn't answer the trust part
>>84539215You'll have to build a relationship.
>>84539221Heeaaagagagaghahaa imagine doing this
>>84539221I mean does time help tho it seems people fuck you over even if they know you for long
>>84539184find a husband that also doesn't trust people. There are plenty of us misanthropes out there
>>84539242Are those people good and loyal
>>84539184Exactly what dudes did in the past: Find a young one break him in and make him totally dependent on you, physically or emotionally or both. They'll never tell you this though.
>>84539184>How am I supposed to find a husband when I can't trust people?Why the fuck do you think I would know the answer to that question?
>>84539184>How am I supposed to get married when I can't trust people?8.3 billion people and imagine how many people are asking that questionImagine how many people aren't interacting with others and missing out on those they click withFor sure it'd be nice to be approached but if someone has to make the move to sort through people it might as well be (You)There are people stuck for now in places where earthquakes, hurricanes and tornadoes happen often but they don't just give up on upgrading their lives or repairing after damage happens, you know?They don't ignore the possibility of trouble either so go into it knowing you might not become friends due to lack of interest or things in common, but putting yourself out there a few times a week gives people who would click with you the chance to find yout. befriend by girl with anxiety over failing others and agoraphobia
>>84539255yes, I guess? I'm usually so guarded I keep people at arms length most of the time. the few don't, I think I'm good to. But the paranoia usually creeps in
>>84539269>>84539269Recommend types would be young Amish men who want to leave, good church boys, poor village boys, and autists (non gooner ones). All must be 18+ obviously.
>>84539184What caused it? What is it about people that scares you? Why?
>>84539184You're supposed to ask me, silly
Marry someone you've known for a long time
>>84539184> you will never see a generation as mildly optimistic as this ever again
>>84539635Millenials really thought things would get better when they got older.
>>84539184ill give you the same advice that doesnt work for us. learn to love yourself fembot teehee
>>84539184Read 'The Speed of Trust' by Steven M.R. Covey. It'll help you understand how to extend "smart trust".
>>84539660They are better if you were born anywhere but north america and europe
>>84539720I don't actually know any foreign "millennials"Is it a thing in other countries?
>>84539707Is that the "Men are from Mars, women from Venus" guy?
Keep bitching and moaning about it on 4chan.org, eventually, that 5'4 indian 7-11 cashier STUD will show up at your door to take your hand in marriage, like in all of those disney fairy-tales, you'll be prettiest street-shitting princess in your whole block, I can only tell you this much
>>84539773No. You can tell because they have completely different names.
>>84539668How do you love yourself malebot?
>>84539184Don't, its not bad being an incel.
>>84540302Why please explain anon tell me
Let's start with the why as in why do you have trust issues
>>84539668You're retarded but that's okay you're still capable of self improvement and self love.Even shitty people can love themselves.
Start by trusting people.
>>84541103That's what people say on this board, i don't care about the arguments. Like it would change anything.
I still haven't read the replies ugh
you are a paranoid retards consider suicide
>>84539184Why don't you trust us? I still want a wife but I find it hard to trust that she won't divorce/leave me.
>>84539184>>84539239How do you know they all will? Are you acting like you haven't met a guy that tried his hardest but you just didn't want to be with him anymore?
>>84543053Are you him cause he wasn't there when I needed him
