>19>feel it's truly overhow common is this?
>>84547735At 19 is when I started fucking 40-something bitches and getting drunk off of homemade moonshine (AKA: Living), it hasn't even begun for you, stupid nigger!
>>84547735>>feel it's truly overon what grounds?>>84547742help yourself to the culture norman
>>84547752>on what grounds?i feel like i lost all interest in life already also i don't have energy to do anything, also being alone forever because i was always terrible socially
>>84547735>feelA lot of people feel that way due to high school ending, friend and schedule changing dramatically. Yet the internet is still up. The sun still shines. You are here now because it wasn't over after your parents turned 19. There are so many paths forward you have yet to consider.
>>84547776your executive function is probably done in because you spent too much unquality time on 4sean. as for the girlfriend part, pretty much everyone is having a shit time dating these days.just remember that there is always more to explore
>>84547742>it hasn't even begun for you, stupid nigger!someone should make this into a commonly used quote its ironically inspiring
>>84547752>help yourself to the culture normanI'm helping myself to all the fat-assed bitches posted in here, nothing more, nothing less
>it hasn't even begun yet!Oldfags who parrot this platitude don't know the level of dread that occurs past highschool not accomplishing anything or making any friends. Especially when you read stories of what oldfags did at your age, realize they're describing your current life, and that it's already too late.
>>84547776>alone foreverHave made mature, understanding friends by hanging out in spaces online/IRL for stuff I'm interested in. Remember millions are out there and it's going to take time to find ones who'll stand by you. You're also all still maturing considering you're just 19. What high schoolers don't have the maturity to deal with now, they and others in your future will, if you even have those same traits years in the future.
>>84547886Have you ever tried not being such a faggot about it? Works wonders in most cases
>>84547886>exit high school without grade 12 math>gf ruined relationship and antagonized meThat was where I was stuck at for years. She may have realized she was in the wrong and apologized but the relationship was still dead. Found people through new series and games that came out. Better girls who approached me first. Learned new skills so I wasn't just working for money but making gains without doing anything beyond the initial investment. I didn't control when the efforts paid off but I did control how much effort I was putting in. On-and-off at that. I didn't suddenly have Vergil levels of constant motivation.
>>84547735hey so this was me at that exact age and then i had to get a job, met my best friend there, and a few years later i now have a boyfriend who i will live with within a few yearsbro..... you haven't even LIVED yet... i promise !!!!
>>84547921here is the thing, how do i get the energy to do all of that? i can't even get the energy to play or start a game, all i want to do is sleep
>>84547935I was like that too for a while after the break-up. We need rest on a deeper level than the nightly 7 hours sometimes. Take it. Appreciate you can even take it instead of having to rummage the trash or trying to survive military conflict zones. Appreciate what you do have instead of imagining what you might not have. The universe isn't just up to you. Most of my friends now are people who reached out to me because I eventually stopped isolating and giving interaction a chance.At the same time, you can try and push past it. How many times did I think I should exercise and didn't? But I kept thinking about that and eventually told myself I can't just wait for a good mood. Just move. So I just tried to do squats. Might as well. Legs hold everything else up. 30 minutes later I was wheezing.The thing is sometimes learning and getting motivated involves experiencing the discomfort and seeing that you still did something anyway. It's practice at acting despite your feelings. Just like people learn to push through the burn, they learn to push through the "I'd rather not." Was never a sporty or outdoorsy type.Unexpectedly, I found gradually growing more fit (not ripped, maybe a bit toned) gave me more energy (so careful cause it can disrupt your sleep if done before bed) as the body was getting more and more practice at processing and using energy. So give the squats a try even if it's the only new thing you do for a while. It's basically just standing and then controlled falling.
I turn 19 in a month, i get down but I don't swim in it like fag. The only thing that motivated me now is looksmaxxing. Better than a job or anything. Just look for ur spark idfk.
>>84547735It's not over until you're dead, faggot. Don't give up.>t. 26 years old.
>>84547735you hate your job? imagine being a 28 year old healthcare worker PART TIME worker who lives with his mom...i just had my exam in calcus and i failed, which means i cannot go to college to be a compi sci, which means im stuck for another whole year until i can take the exam again. my life fucking suck. i want a white collar job...that is all. best case is that i end up being like 32 when i finish college, but guess what...me failing the calcus exam has made somewhat think im fucking stupid, but i know its my fault bc i was avoiding studying until the very fucking end...fuck. i hate it. worst fucking part is that im not stupid enough to enjoy my life...just smart enough to think i can do better.fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck. my life is a fucking pain. i hate myself so fucking much and every choice i have made. somewhat good news is that i saved up 18k dollars living at home...but still...its like dying. the weird feeling of ddying where you not actually dying, but your soul is.... i hate myself. Dont become like me. focus on school. get calucus done. go into a white color job, be free. its better to get a white color job that kills your soul vs a fucking cuck blue collar work like healthcare where you wipe old people shit for a living
Im 35. It's only over when its over. But the pain gets worse.
>>84547735Zoomers have higher rates of being mentally mindfucked because of what they grew up under, it's extremely commonI'm not going to give you a pep talk but as a millenial it's perfectly normal for you to be feeling crushing negativity, especially if you've lived the type of life that makes you end up on this godforsaken board
>>84548741I feel for you. I really do
>>84547735A lot of things are over, you didn't have parents who encouraged your education and perhaps helped you prep to get into a good college. You no will not longer get the help and sympathy from society for being under 18, however you still have enormous opportunity, far more than someone in their 30s and 40s, even people whose lives did go perfectly from day 1, but only if you try to go outside and find them and seize them.AI is apparently the next big thing. There is currently a speculative bubble on the stock market, but it will burst, then we will see which companies survive and how AI will change the economy. Looking 5 to 10 years ahead you are basically in the prime of your life to take advantage of it. Kind of like the dot com bubble burst but then internet exploded in the 00s and people made massive fortunes.However you can only get in on this, or something else if you prefer, if you change your mentality. Every day trying to learn something new and try something new until you gravitate towards a skill or e-business that actually makes money and has potential. If you do this several hours a day every day for years and do it honestly and with discernment. Like deciding whether a venture is going nowhere and you need to get real and move on to something else or whether it has potential and you need to stick at it instead of giving up when a problem arises, always difficult.It is bittersweet for you. At 19 you are sort of still a kid, but by the time you are 20 you won't be, at all. You don't get to play anymore, not without wasting opportunity and wasting life. However as an adult you now get to interact with the wider world with all its wonders and all its horrors, real success rather than meme success. You have to be your own mom, you have to be your own source of self-discipline and you will fail, but you will also learn and be better prepared next time. Learn to love the things that people hate and some kind of success is almost inevitable.
