>"Come on anon, ask that girl out">You ask her out>She predictably says no>She now tells everyone in your social circle you asked her out>Now you ruined your chance with any and every girl there since they dont want to date the guy that the other girl rejectedHappened at my gym, the guy had to switch gyms since women would giggle at him and say "aww" too many times. Don't let anyone fool you, there's real risk in asking someone out and getting rejected, that's why foids put all of that on the man.
Yeah shit is a major scam and the reality is that the same girl that rejected you will openly chase a pretty boy she actually likes.
>>84547837I grew up with 5 sisters and saw female nature from a very young age. I spoke to my male cousins about this too. Everyone knows it's true
>>84547932Bro I always feel like this sucks. Especially once they're in high school and start bringing dudes over and you hear them banging.
>>84547837Happened to me before in two different situations. OP aint playing. It's real.
>>84547837This is absolutely true. Anyone saying asking her out won't ruin you socially is either willfully lying or totally clueless. It happens to guys everyday.
>>84547837Before I would just like these videos because of tits But recently I've decided to concuously scroll past them
yeah the first time i asked a girl out in middle school, I got rejected, horrifically embarrassed, and then everyone in all my classes knew about it the next day and I had to be around them constantly knowing I knew and they knew just how much of a pathetic fucking loser I am. I even tried a few more times after that with always the same result, just desperately wishing i never tried anything
>>84547837>>84548515That's why you have to be a dog and chase all the girls, not just one. Don't ask anyone out, just rizz to get sex then move on.
>>84547837Don't eat where you shit.
>>84547837>letting women into your gym
>>84550060There are no places left to eat
>>84547837>your social circle
>Happened at my gymNo it didn't. Fake incel demoralization story.
>>84548473Yeah people like to gaslight you into thinking it's "easy" and there are no downsides and all that happens is she says no. It's not just that she will also tell everyone so everyone will know.
>>84550336I'm anon, it happened because I'm the one that asked the girl out.>>84550060There's nowhere to eat. It's either dating apps or the bars/clubs.
>>84548515same happened to me luckily i didnt know the chick that well it was just a shot in the dark so i kinda got away with claiming it never happened, don't think anyone believed me but they let me get away with it since she wasnt that hot anyway
>>84551744Yeah I don't know why people pretend this shit didn't happen to most of us. There's a reason why men don't want to ask women out as adults. They think we just don't want to try but want to ignore what happened when we did try
>>84551871>>84551744Men are such whiners wahh airballTry being fake asked out or taken on FAKE DATES, yeah fuck you
>>84547837If you want to confess to a girl in your little circle, you better be damn sure she's gonna say yes. Also accept you can be wrong about it, so it's better to be on the side of caution. There's studies showing men think women are far more into them than they actually are. If you get rejected, you will not only not be getting with her, you also won't be getting with any other woman in that circle. If you try with them anyway, then you'd also become the guy with the reputation of hitting on every girl in the friend group. Not a good look.
why are people falling for this larp
>>84547837I liked a girlShe also liked meI worked with her, and she invited me back to her house for beers after a night shift.I didn't really know what was happening, and ended up leaving.Messaged her, blahblah sorry I left I was confused, can we go out when we're not working?No response.A month passes, she invites me back to her house after a night shift for a drink and some food. I sort of guess why, but I'm scared of intimacy, for reasons, and ended up leaving again. Didn't explain why due to embarrassment, then went spastic mode "OH I RUINED IT blahblahblah"Never spoke about it again, heard she got a bf. I sulked, changed shifts, ended up leaving the place. That was 11 years ago, and saw her last year and she basically ran away from me. Been seething at myself for the last year.
>>84552081Lmao fumbled a bagged bitch
>>84548480Next you should learn how to spell, too!
>>84552114Not just sex either, could have been it, wife and family life.If it didn't hurt her, I would say it was funny, but for somebody wanting to laugh at others, it was hilarious.
>>84551976That's the thing though, that's playing it safe which gives girls the ick, they want a guy that takes risks. The "risk" being just what you said. It's kind of moot though cause if she actually likes you she understands all this and will just "accidently" sleep with you when you're both drunk.
>>84551889Women would pretend to ask loser guys out all the time and got stood up all the time. Most of us robots have a story of that happening to us.
>>84551610if you really think any of those girls gave a shit you might be a narcissist
>>84552516You didn't say it actually happened to you though, I notice
>>84550060>no it's completely normal to not develop romantic feelings for people you're around all the time you MUST have meaningless dispassionate sex with app strangersthe solution is to kill all the jews btw
>>84552402None of this matters if you're Chad. Then there's no risk.
>>84552402If you're not CHAD then the risk is actually greater than the OP scenario and includes potentially being arrested, kicked out of school, fired from your job etc. because they make malicious shit up about you because you dared approach them while not being CHAD.
>>84547837Girls are always doing that dumbass shit where they jiggle themselves in the first second to keep guys from scrolling jfl
>>84553350I like it, it activates my neurons Women should jiggle more. all the time.
