Im 28 and my fiance who I have been with since I was 20 has left me. Its indescribable how fucked I am now. She took all of the best dating/fucking/fun having years away from me. Now im just a creepy single guy is basically in his 30s. I dont know how im going to not kill myself. I feel so much pain and anger.
>>84554822Just kidding I'm a woman and was talking about my 9/10 boyfriend. Please Jason come fucking back already I'm running out of time to have kids
>>84554822Have you not learn anything in those 8 years? That's like working for 8 years and having none of those skill be transferable. That's on you for bullshitting around. At least you're better at bullshitting now.
>>84554822I'm 34 living with my parents and haven't had a girlfriend since high school.
>>84554822no your lying or just being dramatic men are more attractive and more desirable when your older you took her best years from her she had to live with you when you were broke and she was hot she could've been getting any guy she wanted but she stayed with you now she's older and your rich so who's going to have an easier time dating now?
>>84554822can you describe in detail what this situation is like for you as a gen z person? Tell me what your fellow gen z cohort think of you now, at your age, and such?
>>84554822I was in numerically almost the exact same situation as you (though I was a bit more of the instigator of the break up) and after a year of being a drunken goofball with my female friend I got with a smokeshow five years my junior. As a man, you're probably in a better position than the girl who left you.
>>84554841I have some skills that a virgin doesnt, I guess. But the dating market at my age is extremely bleak and im heartbroken and who knows how long it will take before I feel normal again.I just cant stop picturing myself at 30, being "ready to put myself out there again", only to be met with a sea of 33 year old single moms. I wish I could just be 20 again. I regret all of my life now
>>84554881Then date younger. You and I both know young women want older men, and vice versa. Single Mothers chose their fate.
>>84554872>>84554892Well firstly my intuition is that this is largely a myth. I think younger girls nowadays genuinely really dislike older guys and think they are unattractive and predatory. But secondly, I dont really fit the attractive older guy archetype. Im not rich, im only 5'10, ive never been a gym bro so im not super jacked or anything. I lean more artistic and "prettyboy"ish as gay as that is to say. I dont think im the right type of guy to attract girls that like older dudes, which I think is pretty niche as is.
>>84554822Similar thing happened to me, we're the same age. Interesting
That's fine OP be sad about it for a couple weeks then go on with your life.If youve had an 8 year long relationship you have a lot of experience under your belt. Dont make the same mistakes, you already know how to make a woman happy and how not to. Youve got way more money than when you were 20 as well, and a more stable, independent life.Dont rush the dating, and dont use dating apps, obviously you dont want to end up with a single mom.
>>84554984yeah as a guy similar to you i have to acknowledge you're correct. the women who like older men are specifically into the rugged older male provider "Daddy" archetype. They want to lock him down and get him to provide everything for his "princess". It's not some clean cut shit, the guy gets his balls removed by some young chick. Tale as old as time. But yeah, you're not the archetype they're going for lol. They want the tall rugged guy who owns his home and does some kind of trade job and long fucking hours getting paid overtime.
>>84555040Older guys like that aren't exclusive anyway. Completely different lifestyle and values
>>84555048Yeah but in a sick and evil way this just makes women even more attracted to them lol.
>>84555055Not really. The older bachelor isn't a sought out thing anymore. Theres a reason why soc is full of them, abundant but unwanted and can only connect with teenage girls with BPD. Nothing to be jealous of unless you're a hedon
>>84554822At least you had a gf I am a khhv, was fat for nearly all my life and it took me 1.5 years to get to a normal weight. Probably going to take me another year to get lean. I have suffered so much and have nothing to show for it because of my autism.
>>84554822What are you even on about, if you could get a gf back then you can get a younger one too. Most guys are incel to age 30 now
>>84555305This, women love older guys who are attractive. Dilf and daddy narratives became a thing as the backlash increased. Women just dislike guys who dont have money, height; fame or looks. If you have any of these and are unable to get younger women you are mentally ill
How did it end? The last thing I want is to waste my life with a girl who will leave me.
>>84555339>This, women love older guys who are attractive. Dilf and daddy narratives became a thing as the backlash increased. Women just dislike guys who dont have money, height; fame or looks. If you have any of these and are unable to get younger women you are mentally illDenying this is just women saving face but it doesnt apply to normies as you correctly noted
why didn't you marry? clearly you had different expectations
>>84554842>had a girlfriend in high schoolChad
>>84554822im 27 and my gf is pregnant again
>>84555425She said she felt like we both changed a lot since we met and that we were together out of obligation not true love. I assume she started liking another guy or something. >>84555467We were getting married this November
>>84555040Yep. Just nothing like that. If I had to LARP as that id be totally miserable too, its pointless.
>>84554822you aint chad bro
>>84555425This is 2026, anon. It's almost guaranteed your gf/wife will leave you at some point. This society is completely fucked and there is nothing we can do about it. The social contract is ripped into shreds and scattered to the wind.I had a gf leave me after 6 years. She just wanted to break up out of nowhere. Never got any real explanation, either. She promised she'd talk later, when she wasn't "overwhelmed", and pay me back as well, since she'd borrowed money from me. She never gave me my money, and never gave me a conversation either. Just ghosted. 6 years down the drain, with someone I thought loved me, but was actually a massive piece of shit and a coward.>>84555580I'm sorry you went through that anon, I went through something similar, but you actually got an even better explanation than I did. Fuck women.
>>84554822>She took all of the best dating/fucking/fun having years away from me.no, you have it backwards. she squandered her best years because women age like milk
>>84554822You giving this much of a shit is an ick, btw. They say it isn't, but actions speak louder than words.
>>84556444Antiquated thinking. Maybe in the 2000s women were turned on by guys 10 years their elder, but nowadays you are genuinely considered the biggest loser possible for attempting that. And not in a way that secretly turns them on like being a drug addict or something, its fully an "ick"
>>84556510Literal nonsense. The only people who will seethe are women your age. And yes, they will definitely seethe, but who gives a shit.
>>84556510>nowadays you are genuinely considered the biggest loser possibleby whom?
>>84554822If you did not marry and lock her down during 8 years, you deserve all the shit
>>84556944Then he'd be dealing with a divorce and paying her half his worth. How is that better?
>>84556538everyonethe psyop worked and now older single men are lonely, isolated, undesirable, and will blow their brains out after giving kikenstein all of their assets to fund their last vain attempts to get any kind of pussy at all
destroyed by a femoid many such cases
>>84554822The girl has it worse and you should be grateful she didn't take half for shit for being in a de facto relationship.Why didn't you marry her within 3 years?
>>84554822>She took all of the best dating/fucking/fun having yearsSaying this as a moid is insanity. I didn't realise your balls hit the wall at 30
>>84557096>everyonei'm 39 and dating a 19 year old. nobody gives a shit.
>>84557144Any tips, chad?
>>84557144real sure you are man lmao
>>845548228 years is a long time to be fucking the same pussy. You should be feeling ecstatic at the chance to try something new.
>>84557149>chadnot in the slightest.i'm 5'7", skinnyfat, and openly advertise that i'm autistic. i have memes on my profile. matches got a lot better when i put a photo of myself with a woman on my Hinge profile. sometimes "just be yourself bro" works but it requires many years of dating app hell.she's a tomboy, and not a fake one either (tough midwest farm girl vibes). it took 1.5 years of Hinge hell but i managed to do it.>>84557161she looks like a lesbian but i don't give a shit. she's weird like me. there is hope, bros.
>>84557196Thanks for the detailed advice, anon
>>84554822You needed to impregnate her.
>>84556532>>84556538You guys are completely out of touch. Zoomers are the most fascistically age obsessed generation ever. They are extremely puritanical about nearly everything, including age gaps.
>>84557212Whites dont have kids anymore. No one wants them
Get a load of this guyA damn 30 "man" acting like a frayed womanThe dating market never closes for men, stop feeling sorry for yourself and be a manIf you're a tub of lard, go work out and get a real dad bod where you have a decent set of muscles under a little layer of fatZoomer girls are some of the most desperate girls in the world for older menBounce around and have some fun, if you start thinking like you're the creepy older guy then you're going to act like the creepy older guy, probably even make references to it like an idiotJust take a damn step back and look at literally the entire horizon cuz that shit is all yours now.Fuck that broad, and go fuck yourself some zooms.Have some fun while still moving your life forward.Don't be a bitch about it, my God.
>>84554881You're catastrophizing, honestly.I'm 35 and would love to be 28 again. You could realistically date a 23 year old (not that there's nothing special about that) and it would be fine. At my age, the rules are more stringent and opportunities fewer. 28 is a good age to be a single man.You have to accept the pain and make sure you don't slip into a scarcity mentality. That means having purpose and self-respect and not placing some other woman as a reward.
just date another 20 year old
>>84560973And just win the lottery too. Do you know how many men in their 30s would kill to date younger? They are lucky if they can get a girl 50 pounds overweight on tinder. You people are delusional
