Fuck if I know where to even ask this shit but where do you go to learn more about the dynamic of a dd/lg or a owning a puppygirl dynamic? Im a sad lonely fuck with more free time and money than I know what to do with, just zero company because im fuckin ugly. Im 41, got my own place, can drive but just fuckin nothin to do. I guess at my age I feel that weird provider urge but nobody to provide for, dating apps are a wasteland, and the bar scene aint my jam. The sugar poppa shit seems sus as fuck to the point where it feels like saying the real term auto flags me or something so maybe the other shit is more my thing but i dont understand the dynamic, like is it just pure submissive shit or just some lazy damaged brats not wanting to have any responsibility in life? Pic unlreated
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>>84555140>like is it just pure submissive shit or just some lazy damaged brats not wanting to have any responsibility in lifeIt's mixed. Many of the women into DD/lg and/or puppyplay are into this due to trauma they experienced. And generally this comes as a 'package' which means they are also emotionally unstable, manipulative, chaotic, irresponsible, and genuinely vicious. Legitimately dangerous. They will destroy your life and then blame you. A tiny percentage are actually cohesive psychologically and possessing enough self awareness to manage their emotions and psychological issues which means they're pretty reliable and level headed as far as they can be as women who menstruate and experience the rollercoaster of hormonal peaks and crushing lows. These ones are genuinely looking for a serious relationship that incorporates DD/lg and/or puppyplay and they want to build that life with someone. And a percentage of them have extremely high demands though, like they want the full package guy, model face, top 3 percent height, exceptionally wealthy. The guy who basically can date supermodels and can easily have a harem of 20 years old from the day he is 18 all the way through to his 60s but for some reason he decides to throw all that abundance away and date her.
>>84555258What kinda trauma are we talkin here? I know every girl is gonna be different but is it like mostly childhood sexual trauma?And im not even touching anyone under 25 for this shit, I know thats where the bulk of the girls are but like you said, theyre emotionally fucked up not just from this shit but just from life, they arent old enough to have a clue. Is there a safe place to find people like this that are genuinely interested in a relationship or just to feel each other out? I see reddit has places but...its reddit. Hows discord for that shit?
>>84555333>is it like mostly childhood sexual trauma?Yeah.>Is there a safe place to find people like this that are genuinely interested in a relationship or just to feel each other out?Yeah, unironically, it's reddit. That's the main place. I don't know much about discord for this kind of thing. I assume many of the women who are into DD/lg and/or puppyplay are on discord because generally these women are not extremely extroverted fitness baywatch barbiegirl cheerleaders. They're somewhat more likely to be introverts who are into a softer life and they probably enjoy cozy gaming, roblox, and the sims.
>>84555437I guess thats why my mind went to discord right away. I'll attempt to look through reddit again but it really just seemed like a bunch of young brats that just dont wanna get a job or something, not to make it sound all negative but just girls that didnt seem like they wanted a relationship, just somebody to pay for shit
>>84555448>seemed like a bunch of young brats that just dont wanna get a jobThat is simply the nature of the situation desu. I noticed the epidemic of brats growing over the past 10 years. I mean that literally as in they identify as a 'brat' or a 'bratty sub'. Imo it's antithetical to the D/s dynamic. A lot of them were essentially 'topping from the bottom' which is an inversion of the dynamic. I avoided them. As for what else you may be describing, such as those who just want a guy who will pay for everything whilst they sit around scrolling, yes there are many of those now too. Especially now that there are billions of simps who will support those women as well. That is the nature of the situation. You're either gonna look at it and run or you'll accept this and then go forward knowing you will have to sift through all the various people in order to find one who suits the dynamic you want to create. Keep a level head and a clear mind. The women who want to be brats and want to be paid for will use every manipulative tool they have against you. Including implying that you're a morally and ethically a bad and/or dangerous person. They use that a lot to get their way.
>>84555477Yea thats why I was asking if there was like a safer spot to find these girls. I used that word brat specifically because thats just the feeling I got from them, they arent really into anything other than fooling a guy into buying shit for em. I want more than that obviously. Not even purely sexually, just SOMEBODY to put my time and energy into that might give the same amount back.
>>84555140>i dont understand the dynamic, like is it just pure submissive shit or is it exactly what I think It is?its exactly what you think it is
>>84555502What I think about things and how it translates into real life usually never are the same thing so I always gotta make sure. Literally living in a kennel sounds like more than a little kink or a fetish to me so I just wanted to know more about the mindset of these girls to try to connect with one better.
>>84555497Yeah I know what you're looking for, unfortunately, it's not all that common. But no reason to give up. If you have time and such, you should hit the gym it's good to be strong and healthy. And just put your posts around reddit in the respective subreddits and see what happens.
>>84555534Im not fat or anything just 5'6 and not attractive. Just got that average dad bod going on.
>>84555511theres people that are into that as a fetish but not really a full lifestyle thingwoman with gainful employment will literally pay for BDSM because their into that, theyre not paying for DDLG experiences
>>84555550Yea I guess Im thinking the dd/lg shit is also the sugar daddy shit too, though im sure theres overlap
>>84555140I'm pretty sure theres a niche twitter for this. I used to see usernames with -pup on them when looking for wolfgirl art there. They would usually be they/thems, they would write 'uncs DNI' or something all the while hearting their sugarmom/dad's (double their age) comments.
>>84555537Yeah, I'm just saying that you're gonna feel better, look better, and honestly fuck better if you're fit and strong. It's better to be 5'6 and strong for your build and bone structure rather than flabby weak dadbod. Trust me man. You'll also feel younger. If you do have the free time, please hit the gym, eat clean, and use that routine to get strong. You don't need to do ego lifts or chase numbers, no need to deadlift or squat. Just use machines and do a 6 day routine, 7th day resting. Hit push, pull, and legs twice a week (so that's 6 sessions in a week). session doesn't have to be longer than 1 hour.
>>84555576Brother I get what youre saying, Im just sayin my body is fine, a six pack isnt gonna change my face though, thats why I gotta just be like listen, i got a place and money so lets cope through the face.
and besides even if I get jacked, that would just make me depressed that i was fit, had money, had my own place and STILL cant get laid.
>>84555630>>84555616Ok I get your point but being jacked feels great. It's hard to explain to someone who hasn't lived that way. But you actually have more energy, generally speaking. Imo it's a way of maintaining a youthful vitality, a genuine vigour. And when I saw you have the extra time I thought this is a golden opportunity. Not saying you need to have abs, they mostly come from dieting, getting to a particular body fat percentage. Really what I was talking about was getting strong, adding muscle and having a higher metabolism because of active daily training changes one's mentality and one's experience of life, imo, in a beneficial way. But yeah we have strayed from the topic of the thread and that is my fault, I acknowledge it. As for me, I haven't been laid in maybe 2 years. But I also haven't trained like I used to train when I was training 6 days a week and I was strong. And I miss that feeling more than I miss sex. hahaha
Good luck finding a whore that isnt just trying to get a free payday outta you, vet the shit outta them, no pun intended. And if they dont wanna give you ANYTHING, you give them nothing.
>>84555562its sugar daddy + unresolved daddy issues
>>84555737Well I'll fill the void and give em an allowance if they send me some love
Old guy, late 40s, who's been in a number of relationships with 18-22yos. They were all raped. All of them.That's the trick. They all were dicked down by their dads or uncles as a kid, and that became their foundation for what sex is supposed to be for them. They want to keep fucking their uncle. You're now her uncle. She wants to be raped again.Every one of them.
>>84555776I certainly dont wanna be doing anything non consensual so that puts it in a weird light. I mean, I know its all from trauma, thats just fuckin life anymore but damn.I just know money helps people cope through having a goofy lookin partner
Just dont let em call you daddy
>>84555776I never got raped, I have a great relationship with my Dad, I'm a virgin and I still want my boyfriend to call me "cute child" and pat my head. It's pretty generic female interests even without trauma.
>>84555950im not sure if enjoying being called a good girl puts you exactly in the puppygirl territory
>>84555947why not? Almost every woman I have slept with called me Daddy.
>>84555950I'm not calling you a child.But I will give you a nice collar and pat your head if you're well-behaved.
>>84555950He aint a boyfriend if youre a virgin.
>>84555140Porn addict threadDidnt readPlease quit porn or kill yourself(3)
>>84555333>And im not even touching anyone under 25 for this shitImagine wasting double trips on this cowardice
>>84557080He is though. Long Distance, a lot of couple starts out this way.
>>84555140I'm 29. Why do you type like you're a 17-year-old urbanite? Also, to answer your questions, a bunch of it is mostly mentally ill, fucked up women who have trauma/childhood issues, and/or a history of unstable relationships. If you want to tame a brat in a normal dom/sub dynamic, that's fine, I just wouldn't look for someone explicitly seeking out a DDLG setup. If it happens naturally, cool, whatever.
