Have you tried finding a bf or gf, r9k? What happened? Why did you give up?
>>84566637I've not tried finding a gf since I was high school. It went horribly then and now as a neet I never meet women, I'm not even good at making friends let alone trying to get someone to date me
>>84566637I thought about it but it would require doing a LOT of things constantly that I don't want to do at all, like leaving the house, interacting with strangers, having to somehow suppress my unfathomable disgust at the idea of a woman having had previous sexual partners and total inability to take non-virginal women seriously in the context of an emotional or romantic relationship, etc.it's just a lot easier to chill at home and play video games while waiting for the robowaifu revolution.
>>84566637I got a boyfriend again recently and I think he's my soulmate this time. He's a 29 year old virgin. He's perfect for me.
>>84566637>Have you tried finding a bf or gf, r9k?Yes.>What happened?Happily one year deep into a relationship. Probably going to make her the wife so long as she doesn't do anything outrageous.
>>84566668>againyour relationship is doomed to failure, whore.
>>84566668Where have you found him, chickn? Discord?
I found one. It was nice right up until her BPD acted up and then she just abandoned me one day mere hours after saying she loved me.I was a complete mess for months and I'm still not back to normal. I'm not sure I ever will be.
>>84566637 Trying, but the dating apps are hell and trying to find the right moment irl is near impossible.
>>84566637>What happened?I managed to woo a cute zoomerina with the 5D chess tactic of having my own place/car and making her laugh by saying smart or deranged shit>Why did you give up?After living together for seven months she finally realized "quiet, frugal with money, prefers to stay inside" wasn't just a quirk but who I actually am and she leftI don't resent her, it was a valuable learning experience and I had a ton of fun while it lasted
>>84566637>Have you tried no, theres no point >What happened?i gave up>Whyim a troon i.e. fundamentally unloveable, noone is gonna wanna be my bf
It didn't go well with my ex boyfriend. I am lonely and have no friends and I am not ready for another relationship right now
>>84568150Would you date another troon or a chaser? I suppose often those are one and the same anyway
>>84568178Can I be your friend then? Since im lonely too
>>84568240How old are you anon and idk if I can be friends friends cause idk if I can talk to people often or even non rarely I
>>84568220>another troonim not into women so no, but i would date a trans guy as long as hes not some typa sneed like tumblr ftfemboys or whatever who are lowkey just larping as ftm anyways>chaserum idk, probably not? i mean if hes relatively normal then maybe, but if he fetishizes my masculine physical traits then definetly nothe other issue is that i have genuinely no social skills at all, i constantly isolated myself growing up cuz of depression + self hatred and eventually just got used to being lonely and miserable and terminally online (and even there its just acquiantances and never actual friends because im too inept even for online friends), the only socialization i get now is from discord, 4chan, et. Nothing irl, and at this point i never think about trying because of how used to it i am, but the problem with being used to it is it doesnt stop hurting or bothering you, you just accept that it's like that and live with the miseryill prolly just end up 41ing soon lol
>>84568330I am not that anon but please don't hurt yourself
>>84568330I get what you mean about the lack of social skills, spent years trying to convince myself that I was fine being totally alone but apparently not. My cope for when it's all getting a little too tiresome is that maybe if I live long enough I'll finally somehow meet the right person.
>>84568251I'm 23 how about you??
>>84568396Late twenties, where are you from and are you ok with not talking alot/often
>>84566637I started by getting a decent job, focusing on dating apps, and doing nothing else (no vidya or hobbies of which I have none to begin with) for 3 months straight. Found my gf. After a year, I was an ascended incels, after two years I was a normie, 3 years I became a bradlite, now going on 5 years and I'm chadlite.
>>84566637Why would I want any woman from here? They are all huge piece of shit whores, maybe for a pump and dump if she lives max 30 min away from me but that is it. Huge waste of time women are over in the year 2026 I only want to make money so I can fuck as many women as I want.
I'm terrified to talk to women IRL and am really in no position to be dating (live with parents and only work part-time in my thirties)Sometimes I try to get in contact with girls online, but non-normie women are exceedingly rare
>>84568420I'm from NYC and I don't mind texting cause I live with people anyway
>>84568463Oh I am sorry can you vc if you live with others some people can't
>>84568453Still have a small chance. Know a few total losers who somehow have a loyal gf and put up with all the bs.
>>84566637Yeah. Ended up with one of them getting hurt and then cheating on me, then getting literally abused by other retards she met on here after. Next one also got hurt, this time over literally nothing, and then cheated even worse. Third was a total whore that used me for attention and who wanted nothing more than mindless sex. I'm tired, I just want someone I can turn to who would stick around for me, but I'm a loser with nothing to offer at this point
>no dating apps (too ugly)>no friends to meet mutuals>workplace is a sausage fest>don't really drinkI've looked at cute girls in public and thought about saying something to them, but that's about it.There is literally no path for me to get a gf. So I gave up.
>>84566637>2 confessions from girls>2 relationships>1 rejectionGave up for a while because I needed to heal from the "it could just happen again" mindset. Granted, she was really sweet so I figured if someone like her could lose her marbles anyone could. But 10 years later? People my age have matured, younger people are waking up as they see the consequences of certain paths taken by those before them, and it's easy to theorize the worst when you've not yet met friendly people who want to spend more time with you. So despite reaching a point of "I can take it or leave it" I find myself thinking about taking the chance again. I was thinking about it before meeting the people I know now because I had started learning new skills that made me more capable of enjoying life (or later would do so), so I also wasn't the same as I was when I originally gave up.
>>84566637im only interested in cute anime girls :(
>>84566637No girlfriend has ever worked out for me. I got restless every 2-3 years with a few fat gfs, and when I finally got one pretty and pleasant enough to settle with she dumped me before we got married. Now I'm in my 40s and my contemporaries are either pretty-but-toxic, fat, BEAT, insufferably "quirky", and/or single moms. I get a young one that fetishizes me now and then but their family doesn't accept it or it's just a fling. It may actually be over for me.
no ive literally never tried. iam terrified of women my age. i am great at socialising with men, old women, and kids love me. but women my age are anathema to me. i get some sort of primordial fight or flight response when around them. i have mever flirted with or approacjed a woman my age, and if one shows interest in me, my brain pulls out all the stops in an effort to make her lose interest. i gofrom a social butterfly making friends with random dudes i met in a bus or getting a job offer from a middle aged guy i talked to on a train for a few hours to a nonverbal autist when talking to girls my age. but if they show no interest towarss me, are wlsbians or already taken, then i can talk to them normally.
I tried finding a gf. It failed completely. I got called ugly and almost got in trouble with the police. And this was back in high school mind you. If a girl is interested in you, she will make it known. None of this game bullshit or lies they make up. You will know if she is interested in you.
No i look like a dysgenic incel chud theres no females who want me plus im really dumb
I have been trying. Almost at the point of giving up again. Thought there was some hope but that didn't go well
The only time I was romantically interested in a girl, she rejected me. This was about a year ago (junior year in university). I wouldn't say I've given up, but finding a gf isn't really my main priority right now.
I accidentally met someone, it didn't go well. I'm 35 and the bpd discord tranny was closest I have been to anyone in my adult life
>>84566637I edated a guy from r9k, then he broke up with me for being needy. Years later we're now in a weird dynamic where we like each other and we sext, but are just friends.
>>84566637Dated a girl off here with the biggest boobs I've ever seen in my life. And they've gotten bigger since we met.
>>84568330>but if he fetishizes my masculine physical traits then definetly noWhy would anyone?Reason I like transgirls is they have better personalities than biogirls.They are not obsessed with performative social status bullshit.They are capable of being happy with what they have, they do not constantly want more more more (even though I'm providing a comfortable place to live and paying all her bills, in the current economy) like biogirls.They are not constantly nagging me and pressuring me to pretend to be busy for no fucking reason like biogirls because they don't freak out instinctually every time their man takes a minute to fucking chill.They do not live on instagram and they aren't full of unrealistic expectations about how they deserve to live like supermodels and influencers.I can actually have a conversation with them about the dumb nerd shit I like.In a world where western culture has destroyed the minds and personalities of afab women, transgirls are the only way to find a decent partner who's actually worth spending your life with.
>>84566637>tried finding a gfyuh>what happenedalways bet on nothing>why did you give upwell if you put a lot of time/effort/money into something and get the same effect as if you'd put no time/effort/money in that thing it's natural to eventually go the more efficient route
>>84566637>tried dating for the first time 2 months ago>had first date/kiss/hand-holding within a week>lost virginity within two weeks>have had same girl as gf since then>tons of sex trying out everything I have wanted to try>breaking up with her today or tomorrow>going out with different girl on SundayAvoiding dating for so long seems silly in retrospect, but I'm not sure if I prefer having a gf to being alone long-term. I don't think I have gotten that used to having to focus so much on someone else and what they want. Watching anime all day is more comfy.
>>84566637Not since 2013. I'm just gonna be a wizard i guess
>>845666376'2'', average face, slim/fit. Some 8 ugly femanons have tried to flirt with me from 16 to today (31). All of them were below 5/10. I simply didn't want any of them but even if I did, I have no idea what to do with the attention. I don't want to get married and don't want kids, so I'm a bit scared of ending up in a relationship. It's 4:46 am and am nearly 4l of beer in. I like my life. I never gave up, because I never even tried.
>>84570452>i found a new shiny toy so I'm swinging branches and throwing the old one awayyou sound like a terrible person.
>>84566637>Have you tried finding a bf or gf, r9k?No>Why did you give up?They're so scary, anytime I'm near one I feel too anxious to even move, thinking about them makes me sweat.
>>84570569that's any dude who is successful with women
>>84570726no, you're just low class trash.
>>84570812if I were I'd be getting laid
>>84566637no i have never tried and i probably never will it either just happens to me or it doesn't
>>84570452You're a really bad person. I hope you die.
>>84570569She's kind of crazy. She says masturbation is cheating, wanting to use a condom is disrespectful, and not cumming inside of her means I don't care about her. Plus, she proudly talks about how she doesn't track her period. Even got angry when I said I don't want to cum inside of her while she's ovulating. Cried when I said I'd rather wait till it was safer to have sex. Yet, she also claims she isn't trying to make me get her pregnant. My mind was clouded by everything being so new, but I can see clearly now. I already spent my entire life not having sex. I'd be crazy to "accidentally" impregnate her now, just because I want to have sex.
not really. i assumed it was something that would happen by chance if i went about life normally. never did.>never really pursued a relationship>have hinted to a few woman interest but kept it ambiguous to leave an out>interest was never reciprocated - usually i just fell into a friend-zone>never even considered an option by women - even with those I get along with well>get asked at every wedding or similar why i don't i have a date or similar>am told I am decently attractive - not unattractive - enough that people question why I've never had a date>no friends after isolating out of a sense of shame over the years>unable to relate to other people now that everyone else is married and has kidsawhy did you give up?>because no woman has ever approached me in 30+ years of existence>i take the fact that no woman having considered me an option is indicative of fundamental inadequacy>i am not going to waste my time attempting to market worthless goods to buyers that aren't interested>cannot even attempt dating when i cannot even afford a place on a single income in this area (despite earning more than most here - 150k+). ultimately, when the last girl i developed a crush (a coworker) on in my late 20s/early 30s never considered me an option despite her being single, i gave up hope. we got along with well. we worked together closely for 4+ years, managed to get our schedule's changed to work together more. yet she never made a move/responded in kind. she claimed we "vibed". felt she was my last chance. I could tell she was not interested when she wanted to set me up a dating profile and stuff, rather than considering me an option. Too old now for more chances. biological clock is setting in. too far gone after years of isolationI really only meet people by forced circumstance (e.g. work). no new opportunities anymore. It's an avoidant feedback loop. i imagine my desires for a family or connection will not resolve the lack of fulfillment or anhedonia.
>>84566637>Have you tried finding a bf or gf, r9k? I never have.>What happened?I view myself as a unredeemable loser. Besides, what would I say to them?>Why did you give up?Because even the type of women I'm into are hard to find. Even if I found one my socially stunted ass would get in the way. Besides, it's hard to be optimistic about my chances when I view myself as a loser. I get nervous around women and feel like they're always scrutinizing me. It'd never work.
>>84566637I tried. Got one pretty easy. Dated for five years until she became insufferable and heinous and eventually cheated on me. Realistically there's probably good one's out there they're just impossible to find because they're just living their life, working during the week, staying home on the weekends, etc.
>>84570452You should really kys asap
>>84566637I stopped trying. I don't really like people at all and im in my 30s so my options are single moms looking for a paypig or other low quality women.
>>84566637By the time I was in High School I understood that I was ugly and awkward enough to be invisible to women, and if I had any promise at all I'd have received SOME sort of positive feedback. The complete absence of that taught me there's no point in trying, I'd just make a fool out of myself and disturb some woman and then feel like shit for being ugly and unwanted. At this point I'm too socially inept and emotionally unstable to even have a friend, let alone girlfriend. I really hope they invent sapient robot waifus or something because that's literally my only chance at experiencing this fundamental part of human life
>>84566637No I've never put any real earnest effort into getting a gf. I've never approached a girl and asked her out in person. Women do not like me
>>84566637no, I'd be such a horrid bf that there is just no point to making some poor woman go through the torture that is being with me
>>84566637Tried tinder. Got a few dates, nearby arranged a threesome. Decided to clean up my internet presence. Havent tried since
>>84566637I have not tried because I am too afraid of rejection.
>>84566637I had a few dates many years ago but nothing since then. I think my power level has increased a lot.
>>84568420>an actual late 20s posterIf you're looking for more than one friend, I'm early 30s and rarely see people around my age.
>>84566637YesI'm not neurotypical enough for any girls I would encounter irl. The fembots I've talked to either decided I wasn't good looking enough or didn't have enough money, so here I am.
>Have you tried finding a bf or gf, r9k? What happened? Why did you give up?Though I have given up hope. As a NEET hermit, I am stuck with the apps and sites, which we all know never work for non-Chads. Also, it's clear that I cannot live with the whole dating/relationship bullshit. I really just want a fuck buddy I can spent the night with a few times a week. Instead, I am stuck with escorts I cannot afford or perform well for, or faggots. It's miserable. I wish I could even get an old woman to fuck. FML.
>>84570876This. I have this exact attitude. If it happens, great. If it doesn't, whatever.Only person I could probably ever fall in love with is someone equally as mentally ill and terminally online as me, as in terms of women that's like finding a needle in a haystack.
tried once, found a girl on tinder. dated got married and then got divorcednow i avoid women whenever wherever i dont want to look at them and hope they dont look at me and I walk circles around them and cross to the other side of street like with niggers
>>84573813What the fuck did you do to her? I would be so embarrassed to get divorced as a woman were you beating her or cheating
>>84573813also i made it so that i am now a taxcheat i pay only very little taxes, mostly vat on groceries, so my taxmoney doesnt go to women, especially single mother ones, the niggers, the healthcare, education etc to keep the government running
>>84566637I was a shit bf to her and I regret it every day because everyone else I've met after was trash and far more unstrustworthy. She wasn't perfect either yet was perfect for me. I wish she'd understand that I love her and that I'd give anything to spend my life with her. I wish she'd see that we could easily work through our issues, but then again, I'm a dumbass who can't deal with things delicately or with patience. I deserve what I got, but I can't stop longing for her. She sees me as pathetic now, and I slammed shut every small crack in every door she left open for me. It's over.
>>84566637i tried a few times but the bpd autism combo makes me pretty undatable desu
>>84573820she beat me. physically on top of emotional violence. didnt hurt but it cut deep down in heart i knew at that moment it was over. i gave her one more chance and 2 weeks later she attacked me again. punched me in the chest when i was sick with pneumoniai am smart one i walk away domestic violence womemes dont walk awayshe was 2 in 1: she got drunk often and started beating(the alcoholic abuser trope) and if i tried to get her out of apartment a pulled her arm and i left a bruise so she immediately made a photo and started sending it everyone and claim she was the victim(the manipulative cunt trope)
>>84573884i slapped the divorce papers on the table btw
>>84566637YESWENT ON SOME DATES AND EVERYTHINGFUNNY THING IS I FEEL LIKE I CARE LESS NOW*HITS OPIUM PIPE*THE BETTER OFF YOU DO FOR YOURSELF THE LESS YOU GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THINGS LIKE "LOVE" AND FOCUS MORE ON THE GOOD THINGS LIKE "CA$H" AND "INVESTING IN A ROTH IRA">>84568083>After living together for seven months she finally realized "quiet, frugal with money, prefers to stay inside" wasn't just a quirk but who I actually am and she leftYOU SOUND LIKE A BUDDY OF MINE WHO WAS MARRIED FOR LIKE 10 YEARS BEFORE HE DIVORCED HIS EX WIFE FOR BEING A PSYCHO AND CHEATING LOLHE'S CURRENTLY HOUSING YET ANOTHER PSYCHO BPD ZOOMETTE AND PLANS TO HOUSE A PSYCHO DOGFUCKER ZOOMETTE IN THE FUTUREMY CONDOLENCES AMIGO
>>84573859But frankly I don't know if I'd truly be happy with her either. She's just too fucked in the head to be normal
No. FUCK YOU CHAD FUCK YOU AND YOUR THUNDERCOCK
>>84574112Who are you talking about? The girl I was talking about was a handful but I know we could have been happy togetherWe were both fucked in the head in similar ways and yet she didn't see that
>>84566637I know the process to getting women but it sucks as a subchad guy. you have to go through a lot of ghosting, rejection, etc with multiple women and hope one says yes. I've never had sex or a relationship before though
>>84566770>dating a bpdYou can only blame yourself, idiot
I'm 30, I've never had a job, and I've had multiple gfs. I've only not been in a relationship 1 year out of the past 10 years. Women don't give a shit if you're a loser, they care about>sex quality>how much time you spend with them>if you have good conversation and make them laugh>how high your energy isleading with money to a woman is totally retarded, she'll put you into the betabux category in her mind.
>>84574051>AND PLANS TO HOUSE A PSYCHO DOGFUCKER ZOOMETTEDetails?
>>84574546I'm not a Chad. I'm probably more Incel than you are.
>>84574838>Details?NONE REALLY HE'S JUST GONNA SHACK UP WITH SOME FUCKED UP CHICK WITH CUTS ALL OVER HER BODY THAT FUCKED HER DOG CUZ SHE'S INSANE AND WANTS HIM AND ALSO NEEDS SOMEWHERE TO STAY HE'S GONNA GET HIMSELF FUCKING KILLED BUT HE CAN'T RESIST INSANE BITCHES
Women have made it abundently clear that to them I'm just a subhuman excess man
>>84573884That's funny I only get drunk and emotionally abuse my bf she sounds gorilla mode. Never actually swung even blackout was she bigger than you or just low inhib?
found my gf on this board, been together for a year. she's kind hearted and that's more than i could ever ask for
>>84575479she fucked up and lost control>inb4 women the princesses are perfect nu-huh its the mens faultits the womens fault they fuck up plain and simple lose controlif they didnt they would be scientists and heads of nations if they could never make a mistakeI do see womemes in truth now. the sooner evolution is done with them the better good riddance
>>84566637Never triedHad a couple times where girls were obviously into me but either they were older or ethnic, or I was just visiting their city or about to move awayIf a white woman younger than me ever gives signs I promise I'll go for it
A gf is so much work. Having fuckbuddies is easier.
>>84570452>>84571158Plan is to go over her place and break up in-person tonight. Will probably be a shitshow, but I'll post about it here afterwards, assuming she doesn't stab me or something.
I'm never dating a girl unless she's my type (virgin, cute, tolerates autism and bpd)
>>84577600dubs of luck, but I'm still praying for you
>>84566637When given a choice between the parody and nothing, I choose nothing.
>>84566637No I haven't but I like a girl and I met her off of here and that never happens I want to get to know her but will have to hide that I like her next times she calls which is fucked because I hope I act chill
>>84577600That woman is obviously either insane or gaslighting you, don't dignify her with an in-person breakup. Just ghost her.
>>84566637>Have you tried finding a bf or gf, r9k?yup, ever since i was a teenager. nothing worked so far. discord dating threads, dating apps and websites, speed dating events, approaching at the bus stops, posting my number on wooden billboards in small towns, trying to date a prostitute...>What happened? Why did you give up?i think i had some successs with brown women from third world countries like argentina. we were discussing future plans, exchange photos, sexting, then months later come to find out they live with their boyfriends in the same apartment.
>>84566637No. I gave up on friends, let alone girlfriends, when I was forced into social exile in the form of expulsion at age 11.
>>84566637no, never bothered to try. I'm in decent shape but I'm 30+ Hikki NEET on NEETbux for the 'tism. I'm just not good enough for a GF and never will be. People with 'tism are doomed to foreveralone status at birth.
>>84566637somehow in my 24 years of life i never did. About to finish my masters degree in cs and getting a job before talking to a woman
>>84569588This is true. Both of my long term relationships have been due to a woman clearly showing interest in me. Every other attempt I made was a failure. Dating apps are terrible. Literally Discord works better just because its a place where you can mingle with people. Dating apps only make sense of you're looking for fuckmeat for the night like Grindr. Maybe men should just lookmaxx and hone their personality.
>>84568150Just be upfront about the fact you're not a woman and some tranny chasers may like you depending on other characteristics of yours.
>>84579923It's not that uncommon nowadays. 24 is still very young. 30 is when you need to start being more worried (though there is still time then too). People have this obsessive idea of age, but it really doesn't matter because nothing magical ever happens. You just accumulate wear n tear and get a day older every day.
>>84566637i've never bothered looking for a bf because i know i'm ugly and nobody would want me
>>84566637I never tried. i met so few women that i can even tolerate the presence of. im just too autistic. but i recently found one thats just as autistic as me, is racist, goons to hentai. my perfect soulmate. we are friends but shes a yuri. how can i cure her, bros?
>>84566637Never once tried. Always assumed women dont find me attractive and I dont want to bother women by approaching them unwantedly. I havent spoken to a woman in 26 years and have never been alone in a room with a woman or had a private, 1 on 1 conversation with a woman in my life. Im 36 now.
>>84576059Oh shut up you liked it
>>84579977Forgot to add that of course Im KHHV
>>84569463You have great taste in anime women, anon. I'll give you that.
>>84579953If you're female and not obese or retarded then yeah someone wants you
>>84566637Nope. I barely ever socialize so it hasn't happened naturally. I haven't actively done anything to make it happen either.Besides, I'm not really built for stuff like that. How the hell am I supposed to keep a conversation with a stranger going for a whole hour or longer? I'd need to develop a personality to pull something like that off. And keeping up a conversation isn't even enough, you also have to make them like you. So I'd need to acquire a likeable personality somehow.
