Would you ghost a woman for being a brainlet?
i would have ghosted all of them if i so
>>84576144Thank you anon... You're helping me feel better
>>84576140What makes you think you're a brainlet?
>>84576140yeah, because when they are it's never benign, they always cause a problem at some point.maybe i should start beating them or something instead of just leaving.
>>84576164Idk I'm pretty ditzy, forget what day it is, lots of typos etc.
>>84576169You could at least say goodbye instead of ghosting
>>84576182Doesn't sound too bad. As long as you're nice and caring, then you don't really deserve getting ghosted.
>>84576140No I don't like ghosting people. I'd ghost you if you'd leave me on read for more than an hour every day
>>84576193Thank you. I agree. As you can see itt though, sometimes people ghost for other reasons
>>84576190i do actually, but it seems to bother them all the same.
>>84576200Imo being left on read isn't necessarily worse than being left on delivered for the same amount of time.Maybe they're thinking for a while, esp if you sent a lot.Noted though.
>>84576204This board has a lot of mentally ill people, so that's to be expected. Why do you ask though? Did you just get ghosted or something?
>>84576205I'm sure the rejection can be hard, but then it's not ghosting.I'm talking about someone you've had several full conversations with at least and you just bounce.
>>84576220He hasn't responded in more than a day, and he has barely responded the past few days
>>84576234Maybe he is just busy? If you aren't in a relationship, then that's not too bad. There are people I haven't talked to in weeks. If you are in a relationship, then he should be communicating more or explaining why he's not there.
>>84576250We aren't in a relationship. We met on a dating app though and have called on the phone and stuff. He seemed interested then fell off pretty hard. I know he's on a trip atm but kinda weird to not respond at all imo.
>>84576262Oh, a dating app. You're going to meet a lot of people looking for casual sex there. And, if you aren't in a relationship, then you aren't really entitled to a reply. He's probably enjoying his trip or something. It sucks to get attached to people this fast, so if I were you I'd work on that, unless you want your heart to be broken many, many times.
>>84576276He told me he was interested in marriage and kids. I checked. I've been very intentional about looking for that and being clear about it.Some might still lie, so I'm alert for that, but I at least check.Maybe he found someone more interesting on his trip, idk. Wish he'd just tell me clearly, because we had enough rapport that I think I am worth a response.
>>84576140Maybe, depends on how bad it is and how much we've talked.
>>84576304I think you're thinking too much about it. Having rapport with someone doesn't mean they see you as girlfriend material, but you're right about the whole situation being awkward. He should have told you something before going inactive like that, especially during the early stages of dating. Either way, I'm going to sound like a broken record, but please work on your attachment style. Treat these relationships as job interviews, where you don't really expect anything out of it. It's going to work wonders for you during dating and in future relationships.
>>84576140NoSeems mean
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>>84576140Unfortunately yes and I have before. I don't think a long term relationship would work with someone I don't find competent.
>>84576808There's a difference between rejecting someone and ghosting them anon.
>>84576182It really depends. I once ghosted a girl because she didn't even know what Auschwitz was but being a ditz and spelling stuff wrong can be cute. Right now I'm talking to a foreign woman who spells things wrong pretty often but I find it pretty cute
>>84576140If she's intentionally being so, yeah, or being a brainlet for whatever negative outcome
>>84576140we can bee brainlets togother <3
>>84577244Aww thanks anon lol.That does make me feel a bit better.Idk if you'd be my type even if he did ghost me though.
>>84577266Is your type Chad? Be honest. 100% honest.
>>84577277Yes I like a flavor of Chad. I have fairly conventional beauty standards with some caveats. The most beautiful man I've ever seen is a notable looksmaxxer (not the one you're probably thinking of).
>>84576140Dumb women are way better just don't talk to much
