I finally got a gf anons after years of being lonely I got a mid foid that I have sex with. But what I hate is how I have to conform to her cause I'm afraid she'll leave me. I can't browse image boards as much , her hobbies are ones we have to do with each other and I have to pretend I like her shows.Being an incel felt more free than this anons now I have to police my every act to make what could be my only opportunity of getting affection.
>>84585051>I finally got a gfbye.
>>84585051i wish i had this anon
>>84585051Is this the place to vent about your girlfriend I dont know what to do with mine We have almost nothing in common and talking to her is honestly stressful sometimes
>>84585051Welcome to women anon.The only worse than not having a girlfriend is having a girlfriend
>>84585051>Being an incel felt more free than this anons now I have to police my every act to make what could be my only opportunity of getting affection.Yep. When you're in a relationship all you want is 5 minutes to yourselfBut guess what, homie, hahahahahaAnd you have to listen to how her day went hahahahahaAnd it's all mundane, boring shit hahahahahaha
>>84585051>I have to conform to her>I have to pretend I like her showsWhy? I wouldn't want my gf to pretend to like my shows. Stuff like that sounds like a recipe for gradually building up feelings of resentment towards each other. I'd much rather we both be honest about our personal tastes, do stuff together we both genuinely like, and set aside some personal time for hobbies only one of us likes to do on their own.
>>84586222I don't trust anyone who says be genuine you only get through life by faking it. If she knew real me she'd leave
>>84586248Yeah, I'm sure the current relationship you're in where you feel trapped by her expectations of this fake persona you've created will last a lifetime.
>>84586248exactly. I am so obsessive and crazy, its so hard to keep faking being normal.
>>84585051are you the voice anon from yesterday? in any case congrats man. i get that you're afraid of losing this since it's your first relationship, but you shouldn't make yourself miserable trying to keep it. you've already proven that you're capable of attracting women and getting into relationships, let yourself be free and be yourself. and if that makes her leave, so be it. you won't be able to keep up a facade forever anyway.
Theres no way shes gonna leave you for those reasons unless you autistically sperg out on a topic she can give no meaningful input in for an hour or ignore her for it. Just be authentic otherwise she is not worth the trouble
This is what I feel would happen with me. I want a relationship but it feels impossible to ever find a girl that would just enjoy me being me. I'd have to change to whatever it is that she wanted.
>>84585051dont let her move in with you whatever you do lmao
>>84585051>gets gf>IMMEDIATELY becomes pussywhippedHahahahaif you've ever wondered how we got into this mess, its because of people like op
