Im 31. Shes 21. We met a yr ago. I wasnt really into her first few months but then feelings developed I guess. I look youthful. Straight up I haven't aged since high school. I'm ngl tho. I feel weird about the age gap itself. Well I guess it's mostly because I wouldn't typically aim for someone under 24-25. Gives me creep vibes.But here's the thing. I'm a kissless virgin. I look pretty good, but I had one other gf before and idk if I can even call her that. Point is I dont settle with used chicks so my dating pool is tiny. We're both Christian too which is rare nowadays since other people say they are, but are straight up openly embracing moral decay. Thoughts? Like there's chemistry. We both have immature aspects, but she takes morality seriously enough for me to see her as mature compared to 30 yr old sluts that still sleep around. Idk tho, man. The numbers themselves bother me a bit. Like fr I never actually wanted a chick this much younger than me, but legit since I only go for virgins, my dating pool is essentially locked to low 20s anyways so the older I get, the more impossible it becomes. Cause no way I'll be a 40 yr old dating a 20yr old. Im cool with 30yr olds if there's chemistry AND if they are a virgin WHICHBIS IMPOSSIBLE TO FIND. YOU'RE ALL WHORES OR ALREADY MARRIED BY THIS AGE
Wow, that's the same age as my parents were when they met.
>>84585068just date a shota mommy, also is she a pawg? is she taller than you, how is her face
>>84585068nothing wrong with that age gap. my worry would be that she is looking for somewhat of a sugar daddy, someone who buys her whatever she wants. i also grew up in the church, and i noticed a lot of girls have that expectation, that it's your duty to spend lavishly on them
>>84585068Tell people you're younger than her it literally doesn't matter
>>84585105Short, but she is pog. Mid face tho tb'h, but she's curvy/thick in the right places. We both said we're waiting till marriage though
>>84585113She knows I'm poor. Told her about how I lost over 200k at 25 and am working myself back up
>>84585068Swap genders and that's me and gf
>>84585068I know at least 5 women irl off the top of my head who are dating a guy that's 10 years older than them.It's very common and women don't care. Don't listen to virtue signaling freaks on Reddit man.
>>84585068If it's something that feels so bad, then just don't do it.I think that you would be a complete retard to let a girl like that (kind, pure and cute) go away just because she is young and you don't like being judged by people you shouldn't give a fuck about, but don't torture yourself if it's so awkward for you (the next guy won't have a problem, and he won't even bother to marry her).
>>84585068I was on the other side - she was older by 11 years. It does feel weird sometimes. You can try and see how it goes.
>>8458506810 year age gap is literally nothing.
>>84585068>10 yr age gap?Do it.>I'm ngl tho. I feel weird about the age gap itself.Wow, what a faggot.Imagine being surrounded by loneliness and then having a hissy fit over the youth of the woman that you're fortunate enough to have the affection of.I'm also 31 and I would get off on publicly flaunting a relationship with an 8 year old just because it makes normies seethe.>Idk tho, man. The numbers themselves bother me a bit. Like fr I never actually wanted a chick this much younger than meYou're gay.
Trust me never date with someone you have to squint to like even if they look good on paper. You will just become miserable and end up mistreating them. I went through it. If she were the right one the age thing wouldn't even matter to you
>>84585068You're a virgin, do your best, be a gentleman, but treated like the slut she wants you to treat her like. Have fun! As long as you're having fun, learning from your experiences, and trying to improve consistently, you'll have no regrets.t. 28yr old with a 21yr old.
>>84585099Mine too>>84585068OP if you throw this away for "feeling weird" you're a dumbass. Do you both like each other? You're both mature adults with similar morals, goals, etc? Then go for it.
Reminder that the hysteria against "pedophilia" is spread by rapists, murderers, and domestic abusers. Moral people don't give a damn.
>>84585140not pog, pawg. phat ass white girl.>>84585068>I feel weird about the age gap itselffaggot, pass her to me if you dont want her.
>>84585068It's fine. Who even cares?
>>84585068>I look youthful. Straight up I haven't aged since high school.You have. You just dont notice it yourself, but you look 27-30 so dont think you're kidding anyone.
>>84585068I'm almost literally you (don't care for the virgin shit tho), but the girl is 17... it's legal here anywayI don't think it's a crime to do some harmless flirting when the other person is receptive, but I wouldn't try anything serious.So I told myself that I wouldn't push it unless she explicitly, on her own, out of her own will told me it was OK without any manipulation, begging, coercion etc. from my side.Which she did after saying she feels I want to be more than just friends and then telling me it's alrightAnyway, we had our first kiss yesterday, so here's hoping I'm not going to screw up (she does genuinely seem infatuated with me and my autistic ass has no idea why)
>>84586214me bad at maths baby
>>84586637seems gimmicky dont you think. your not gimmicky are you
