i just came back from a movie date with a guy .. we talked about what we just watched for like 5 minutes ... i thanked him for taking me out .. he asked if im just walking home now and i say "i guess so! unless you want to do anything else" and he says "im just going back to my car" and we hug and i say again it was really nice going out. then i start walking home.did something go terribly wrong /r9k/ HELP HELP this was one of my first dates with anyone ever he just kinda made no moves i was trying to lean on him while we watched the movie too and he didn't take the hint and let me
>>84590797You have to take into account just how fucking much all this modern feminism shit has broken men. He likely did wanna do more shit with you, but was scared that if he voiced it you'd freak out and scream "RAPE! SEXUAL HARASSMENT!" and ruin his life. Make it known to him that you genuinely love him and are fine with stuff he wants to do. You will have to reassure him multiple times of this. Be as loving as possible without being a BPDemon freak who blows up his phone with notifications 24/7.
>>84590813okay well i don't love him yet it was our second time seeing each other, he just didn't seem into me?? or maybe he was suggesting i come to his car
>>84590797I wish dating had a handbook
>>84590850WHY ARE YOU GOING OUT ON DATES WHEN YOU DON'T LOVE EACH OTHER??? WHAT????? IS THIS A NORMIE THING???
>>84590941how are you supposed to begin to love someone without hanging out first what
>roastie goes on date>man doesn't get touchy enough>she goes on r9k to complain>roastie goes on date>man gets too touchy>she goes on Reddit to complain
>>84590958Hanging out isn't a date retard.
>>84590988he asked me to go out to see a movie and we've already kissed!! it was a date. isn't the purpose of initial dates yknow being in each other's company and getting to know the other person on a more intimate level? if you think people fall in love on sight with googoo eyes and first dates are wildly romantic you watch too much anime
>>84591010WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU KISSING SOMEONE YOU DONT LOVE???????????????????????? WHAT THE FUCK
>>84590813>and scream "RAPE! SEXUAL HARASSMENT!"you think god would finally hear her?
>>84591030are you 5
>>84591051I'm fucking appalled people are kissing people they don't even love is what I am.If thinking doing shit like that with someone you don't love makes me immature I am proud to be a manchild.
>>84591072your concept of "love" is from a fairytale. the idea that you "fall in love" first and then have your magical first kiss is playground shit dude
>>84590797the same thing happened to me except I was acting like the guyafter another date i told him that I don't want to continue dating him lol
>>84591072its a slippery soap, innit? yes kissing someone you dont love is wrong; at least a little wrong. and if it wasnt, then why do you feel uncomfortable about being with them huh? because you actually really do know you really do belong to someone else! and you really do know you should be saving all your kisses for them. and you really do know you really do desert so much more than what you have. and if you dont get what you want? theres going to be HELL to pay and youll make sure they know whos the REAL victim, drenched in blood and bruises! >spotlight focuses down from heavenits........ YOU! IT WAS ALWAYS YOU! THE WORLDS GREATEST VICTIM AINT SHE GREAT.
>>84590797>Make it known to him that you genuinely love himBuddy, it was either their first date, or one of their first... saying something like that after seeing a movie together, and maybe having dinner once, is creepy, and would likely come across as lovebombing/insincere. Don't do that.Although I mostly agree with the rest. It really is a weird climate for male expression of attraction. Men are very paranoid about seeming like they're only interested in sex, on account of women online being very vocal when complaining about "men only want one thing and yada yada", and it creates the opposite problem of men just being averse to expressing sexual attraction.I'm gonna guess, because OP is posting here, that the guy she went on a date with was nerd/beta-adjacent (not one of us, mind; he was probably a 7/10 and we're still unfuckable sub/5s even to the foids that post here, remember that) and probably just really didn't want to come across like a sex pest/porn addict/etc. that all men get labeled as nowadays, and scare you off.So you'll just have to slut it up, OP, sorry, we don't make the rules.
>>84591230Sorry I have microplastics clogging my brain, that was meant for >>84590813
