I guess I will go fuck myself, oh well
>>84591363People who talk like this about avoidant people are actually evil as hell. Ive noticed this
>>84591363I mean... I had a career planned out ahead of me. had they never found out about you, I would have still been set for life. I dunno what plans you had...
>>84591363I prefer avoidants
>>84591363A true avoidant doesn't even get into relationships.Or maybe that's just me.
>>84591382I wasn't staying still like you, is what I'm saying. I wasn't avoiding life like yo.you would have had to face it sooner or later. Hell who knows you could probably have been a mommy by now.
I thought maybe I would find some insight on how to have a relationship, but apparently I'm a fundamentally bad manipulative personhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AILlDmrq454
>>84591392agreed, true avoidants are like live in the woods and hate people types, 4chan avoidants are the "pwease fix me I cant cawwy my own burdens" type
>>84591402that is a schizoid
>>84591363What does avoidant even meanAlso yes these people are genuinely fags that can't empathize. BUT MUH NEEDS WE NEED TO TALK EVERY SECOND OF THE DAY, YOU'RE SELFISH! Ironic...
>>84591401>Sometimes an avoidant person gets swept up by someone who lovebombs them completely. >Usually someone with their own severe attachment issues, usually loud, disorganized, or even crossing over into borderline personality disorder. >The intensity feels like connection because it's flooding them not only with dopamine but for the first time overwhelming them and shoving oxytocin into their receptors. >It is such a saturation of it that the avoidant person is blindsided and confused and has no idea what's happening. >It's one of the strangest patterns I've ever seen play out. And sometimes they come to me deeply confused and unsettled about what's happening and they want more connection, but now they're even more afraid than they were before because that person usually ends up devastating them.haha imagine
Swallow your pride and go to a massage parlor already.Why is it always some Evangelical fucker who probably had a church-arranged marriage set up for him that has to post garbage that causes people to second-guess the relationships they found on their own?
>>84591363why would you care lolyou don't want to be entwined with people who make comments like this. 90% of people are trash who need to be filtered from your life. even better if they do it themselves.
>>84591363If it's about avoidant personality people the women are actually worse than the ones with BPD in my experience. But people in general? Like coworkers? Idk I'd probably find those ideal, I hate chatty faggots who have to talk while they're working near me.
>>84591637> avoidant personality people the women are actually worse than the ones with BPDhow and in what way?
>>84591499Avoidant boys are for BPD girls to play with
>>84591392I'm a true avoidant, due to living in a shitty area with no hot dudes to fuck. I stimulate myself with cybersex from SuperGrok.
>>84591915yes it's true i love bpdarlings
>>84591363>>84591401Women want to be saved and taken, not save and take. Fair or not, this is how women operate.
>>84591363>you should just avoid avoidant peopleI don't think they'll care
>>84591363avoidant to foids like this means the chad that avoids commitment because he has a roster of cunts to use
>>84591363you don't have to care about the opinions of bitter women who have been dumped by chad
>>84591669BPDs have more of a heads up over time as they lose interest, avoidants can do it at the drop of a hat. BPDs have a more visible cooldown and you can renew their interest indefinitely with different things, once the AVPD is out its over.
>>84591499literally my last relationship holy shit.
>>84591363Please dear god PLEASE FUCK OFF >>84591381>Waah waAh ur evilYou get what you give Your mind are a blight on the face of this earth and need to be rounded up Of course it's almost always foids or the random dude who gets too much attentionNone of you know what actual loneliness or pain is like. You need to be tortured to feel the full extent of this pain
