>Just go out, bro! Who cares if you don't have friends?>*you go out*
>>84598770you shouldnt go outside without friends
what i do is I walk up to groups outside of clubs ask them for cigaretes talk to them for like 20 seconds and then go away, low risk of getting embarrassed.
>>84598787This is a good one.Also just gotta wait for natural convos to spring up. It's really difficult to explain but there are just moments where you know a bit of something that some people are talking about and if you do it right you can join/carry a convo.
>>84598770>Be me >Go out>Try to loudly attract attention>Get ignored. Lol
>>84598779How do I get friends?
that's very clearly a bar and not a club
well obviously dont try to talk to the uptight guy trying to appear cool
>>84598770Lots of attractive normies go to clubs alone and get all sorts of convos with randoms due to their social proof. An autist will literally never go to a club even with others
>>84598900>Lots of attractive normies go to clubs aloneNo
>>84598836If you're familiar with your city you can just walk up say some fact about the place you're next to. The hospital I was born was turned into a club so I always go there tell people "you know I was born here" and it gets a laugh everytime.
>>84598909Um yh womanizers go alone as a challenge
also if you live in a tourist city you have an infinite number of potential friendly social interaction, tourists are always happy to chat with locals unless its stag/hen party degenerates but they're easy to spot.
Im black lots of black guys treat the club like a casual place so just go alone and come out with lots of pussy. They treat clubbing like going to a bar.
>>84598770This is just them exposing their own insecurity about going out alone. Not endorsing some cringe lone wolf philosophy but people naturally feel bolder and more safe on groups. Be aware of this fact or you either behave like this or let the fear of this behavior hold you back. You can enjoy yourself without company, it's just easier when you already have a social net.
>>84598958I remember finding out normies are scared of going to restaurants alone, with was a shock to me because I've been doing that since I was 13 and never realised it was something weird to other people.
>>84598770Somehow I got a band to give me free drinks(I danced like a monkey with a bunch of black dudes hyping up their friend's band). Unfortunately since I drove I only got myself like 11 sodas.Went by myself to the same club two other times. Ended up having a black vamp chick jump on me and we danced together, unfortunately I can't talk to chicks I'm actually into for shit so after dancing shit went nowhere and I just kept dancing in the crowd(not like a monkey this time).And the last time I went by myself it was on Halloween and I get the bright idea of smashing my head and mask onto the stage. Somehow that got me cool points.Surprisingly shit is kind of worse with friends(sometimes) since they try to pressure me to talk to fat bitches(don't do cause I don't like fat bitches) or ask normal/skinny chicks for number sometimes(only got like two chicks' number and I think they only gave them to me out of pity or to make sure I was my group's designated driver) or my one friend being very gay with me due to his ass being drunk as fuck.I just want to dance and get bruised up in a mosh pit.>>84598836I feel like natural convos kind of go nowhere. Like sure I go to the club just to party but also I would like to make new friends or pick up a chick. Maybe my one friend is right in regards to emos, goths, and vamps being autistic.
Dude, everyone realizes how pointless going to a bar or a club is. That's why certain places are charging women and letting men in for free.
>>84598770>ClubThat's a bar
>>84598918Can confirm. Drunk people are very interested in the history of their city.
>>84598900You dumb nigger, normies never go out alone. You clearly have no idea how clubs work.
>>84598865go outside>b-butyes you have noticed the conundrum as well
>>84598993and men still aren't showing up kek
>>84598865>How do I get friends?By posting on r9k, of course :^)))
>>84598993>charging women and letting men in for free.Huh?? This is the exact opposite of how I thought it worked
>>84599469it's become a thing at some singles events in nyc. not very common
>>84599443That's good. Imagine showing up for a humiliation ritual you already know will be fruitless.
>>84598865Have a nice, appealing personality, be enjoyable to be around, and make effort to put yourself out there to your peers in elementary and middle school. And then network off your existing friends if you want more friends If you don't have an existing friend group by high school, you probably aren't "friend material" and it makes sense that people wouldn't want to be friends with a friendless loser
>>84598770I thought men become friends easily affording to all the memes they spam about it.guess that was a lie
>>84599806Most men are stuck up or creeps nowadays. Its easier and more fun to be friends with girls.
>>84599806I just want a gf bro
>>84599564brutal but so truenormies are exhausting to be around anyway, listening to all the meaningless bullshit they care about
i live in south korea one advantage of this country's conscription is that even if you were a friendless and unpopular boy at school, through the military you can become friends with people you had absolutely no contact with in societyfor example, you could meet top-tier elites who graduated from the best universities, third/fourth generation heirs of chaebol families, or even famous actors or singersand if you are a decent person you can continue your friendship with these guys even after you have fulfilled your military serviceeven when i was a soldier, there was an actor serving in my unit
>>84598770I don't understand he was having a ball and everyone else was a weird cunt.
>>84600534>I live in south koreaBing bong ching chong eat rice
>>84598978>never realised it was something weird to other people.It's weird to npc normies and autistic incels.Notice the horseshoe once again
>>84598770how hard can it possibly be to understand what "pov" means
>>84600700Obviously the guy filming is the one that came alone?
>>84600700tbf it just says "pov" not "pov you're..."
Yeah, no thanks. Solo (non-Chad) men are not welcome anywhere, especially if they want to form connections.Also the whole friend group thing is also a problem. First because we don't have that; second, even if there were a foid there who was interested, there is no 'in' without a high chance of being humiliated by her group.As a result, any attempts I have made to go to bars and perhaps pick up a foid, is impossible. Over a decade ago, I tried frequenting the same bar every Saturday night. I drank screwdrivers to overcome the anxiety. I had one brief exchange with a foid who was getting drinks for her table. That was it. No chance for anything more. Every time I go to bars alone in the evenings, I always soon think that I'd be better off rotting at home in peace. FML.
>>84600570Why So mad Pajeet? >>84600534Your words sound interesting, but Germany is a failed shithole. This shithole of country is now nothing more than a cesspool for shitskins like Turkroaches, Niggers, and Pajeets. If you dedicate your life to this sinking ship, your IQ must be in the double digits or even lower.
>go to clubs if you want friends, incel>you shouldn't go to clubs if you don't have friends, incelYou niggers completely missed the point. If you graduated school without any friends you're basically fucked. Adults aren't willing to have new blood join their social group unlike kids and teens where the only thing you have in common is that you both play on an Xbox 360. There are also less social spaces for adults now than ever before.
>>84598770Can't go out with my guy friends because I'm scared they'll rape meCan't go out alone because I'm scared I'll be rapedCan't go out with my girl friends because we're all scared we'll be raped
>>84601396Nobody is going to rape your stink hole, troon
>>84601403I tried to greentext that, I don't know what happened
>>84598770>theres 7 people in that bar total not counting the staff>only one womanGo out anon, there genuinely isn't anyone out there to bother you and so few women you won't have to worry about spurious sexual assault claims
>>84598770he looks a little short, so this video comes off a bit pick me "look im one of the good ones i know single dudes are weird and creepy"
>>84598770>club>clearly in some hickshit barAlso, you need to be able to have fun by yourself. You wouldn't play a multiplayer video game by yourself trying to make friends right away, right? You play because it's so enjoyable to you that you enjoy doing it solo. Also, that guy seems actually fun.
>>84598770I LIKE GOING TO BARS ALONE AND PLAYING POOL WITH PEOPLEIT'S FUN.
>be me >go out alone>nothing to do at bar but drink>everyone else hanging out with friends>try talk a few people>shun.exe>drink at bar>????>wake up next day>arms hurt>face hurts >what happened.nordvpn>go to bar again next week #yolo>i'm barred because of last week>told to fuck off>still don't know what happenedIts so hard making friends anons.
I have 0 friends but a gf, she has attempted to get me friends but people do not want to be my friend. People already have them and do not care. There was one dude who I was supposed to go to a gig with and he decided to not reply to me on the day of to my msg of times to go. I have tried going to local gigs alone because unlike a club its acceptable to go alone and despite talking to people and even chatting with people for the gig duration, they do not care to hang out after. It is impossible. I also do not give a fuck about warhammer or dungeons and dragons so I dont want to go to games nights, other clubs are shit for middle aged women like book clubs. I tried my cities discord but after lurking I dont really fuck with the people in the discord.
>>84599564this is very enlightening stuff, you are definitely the smardest person in this thread! can i subscribe to your xitter profile for more great takes?
>>84602486>You wouldn't play a multiplayer video game by yourselfCompletely different situation. In games my goal is to show everyone that I'm better and also call my teammates niggers
>>84598779I go outside alone, get drunk and bully hacidic jews in brooklyn. One day I'll get caught spitting on them
>>84598836I have nothing to talk about except for history memes and some stuff about estoric shit and mythology
>>84598983Wow, so you jestermaxxed. That's incredible
>>84601396Why can't you tell which type of guy would rape a woman and which type wouldn't rape a woman before making them your friend and putting yourself in a vulnerable enough position for them to try and rape you?
>>84602902How did you get a get a gf with zero friends? What's the catch?
>>84603456I had her before everyone moved after after university years ago and I just cannot make friends again
The point of view is some 5'2" manlet whose standing completely still and looking at some guy.
