She is everything. Smart, funny, gorgeous. The catch? She's happily married and they just had a baby. I have to sit here and watch her be happy with a man who isn't me, raising a family I'll never have.The worst part is she actually loves her husband. She talks about him with so much affection it physically makes me sick, but I just smile and nod like a good friend. I know we will never, ever be together. I am completely invisible to her in that way.Has anyone else ever been this brutally cucked by reality? How do I stop loving someone who doesn't even know they're destroying me
It's called limerence not love anon. Be grateful you can still feel something for someone and use that energy towards finding a women who can reciprocate
>>84607939You are aware she is miserable and cuts herself. Posts photos of it online. Complains about him and how she wishes she never met him. Also she is not married.
>>84607945Now why would op same fag this comment hmm?
>>84607939>How do I stop loving someone who doesn't even know they're destroying meThere's no immediate fix and anyone who tells you otherwise doesn't know how emotions work. The only thing you can do is understand you can be happy in life without a certain person and prove it to your mind by indulging in other facets of life and avoiding behaviors that reinforce your sadness. You can of course do nothing about it and keep your infatuation for her alive but that wouldn't get her to elope with you.Btw I don't like giving helpful advice. You just bored me by compelling me to write that.
>>84607939We skinjobs are simply too damn gross for normies. We can only look away. Do you really want to keep looking at your oneitis and her not-so-secret bf hearting their gay little posts to each other? No. Spare yourself from the unnecessary baseline deviations, agent.
>>84608282Honestly, man, that's exactly what I needed to hear. No sugarcoating, just facts. Thanks for looking out and giving me the reality check, even if it wasn't your favorite thing to do. I appreciate it.>>84608435Baseline is definitely compromised right now.
