>be me>hanging with friends>topic of "low effort" men comes up>start kinda talking myself up bc i know i'm an awesome boyfriend>"yeah i mean its pretty simple, buy her flowers and make her cum and you're basically better than 90% of the guys out there">one dick (John) speaks up>"IDK if that's true anymore man, standards have really gone up">most of the guys agree with him>he starts talking about how his gf doesn't value "shit like flowers" because they don't mean anything>he prefers "real value" things like helping her around the house and making sure he's tight with her friends and family>guys start laughing and saying he bitched me>feel like a shitty bf>call my gf that night and explain situation>she sides with John too and says it'd be way more awesome if i helped with the chores more>get frustrated and hang upI have to kill this motherfucker John.
>>84609069It depends, people have different love languages. Some want to give gifts to show their love, some want to receive gifts to feel appreciate. Others need to touch and feel their lover. Some perform romantic acts, some perform chores and daily task to show their love.If your GF told you what she prefers, be grateful she is willing to open up to you, a lot of couples don't talk about it and confusion happens when they're not on the same page. That doesn't mean you need to start doing chores for her, but that option is there. So is the option of explaining your position or finding someone else who shares your love langauge better. If I were you, I tell her that you feel unappreciated because you think hard about remembering to get flowers and other things to show your love. There should be a compromise between the both of you.
You sound like a massive asshole, anon. I'm sorry for your girlfriend and I hope she realises that she deserves better.
fuck being a boyfriend.If you don't hate her now you will later
John sounds like a dumbass. If I'm working two jobs and paying the bills, the last thing I'm worrying about is chores. Let the bitch clean the house.
>>84609069Holy normie loosh farm cycle LMAOYou wanted to be king normie and got absolutely BITCHED by your """"friend"""".Errrrrrm just do xyz bro hermmm loleYou thought the shitty advice you gave while punching down on 4chan would make you king normie in real lifeHOLY FUCKING KEKLMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
>>84609069Not a single sentence in this post belongs on r9k. Did you watch a greentext compilation and assume this is what we do here? Please leave.
>>84609115This, you can't even help them clean the house because they are so neurotic and anal about it.
>>84609069John's right, you know. you should also work on your communication skills.
>>84609069Is this how you actually think men talk?Reddit and movies have lied to you.Men simply don't discuss these things at all. If you tried all the other men would be awkward and uncomfortable.
>>84609069flowercel is seething lmao
