>build up the courage to tell my dad I can't take care of mom on my own anymore>he tells me he's leaving tonight to Minnesota and will be gone for a monthEverybody else in my life gets to just decide unilaterally to do things for themselves, like going on vacation for a month. Everyone except me and my chud fucking life
it's your fault.you're not 12. you can (and should) decide unilaterally to do things for yourself.like i decided unilaterally at 18 to never do anything for my parents as a reward for all of the fucked up shit they did to me. I'm 36 and still holding that promise, much to their eternal crying.
She's over 18 now. Charge her rent or kick her ass to the curb. Bootstraps and buttplugs and all that. Maybe you can spare a couple cardboard boxes if feeling generous. It's spring so she has until winter to figure something out.
>>84620160>>84620284What if this is a test from God and he punishes me for quitting?
>>84620571god doesn't exist. but Stockholm syndrome does exist.you are the perfect goycattle for sociopathic boomers. you get abused and you like it. you also punish yourself for even considering that maybe you shouldn't be goycattle.
>>84620571You might qualify for some kind of respite thing. Nursing homes aren't great, but respite is not the same as dumping. You can get three or four days vacation then pick her back up so you're better prepared mentally to deal with her microwaving the tv remote, wondering why the cordless phone stopped changing TV channels, and calling 911 at three am because there's a strange man (you) in the house.
