How many of you dudes are in your late 20s and older and have literally done nothing with a woman? Never been a date, never had a first kiss, never held hands, never had sex, never seen one naked outside of a screen, never been hit on by one; never had one show interest, never even hung out with one. Literally nothing to where you have as much experience as a prepubescent boy. Maybe even less than some of them.
>>84644343I'm afraid of them. Nothing will change.
>>84644343I haven't even spoken to a non-family member woman since I was like 16yo (that's when I dropped out of high school).
>>84644369Not even employees when you go to a store or something?
I am a 35 year old schizoid.However, despite being asexual, I am a very attractive man, so many women have expressed interest.
>>84644343>How many of you On here I guess a fair amount, even though the majority here are not older than 25Gotta take this on wiz
>>84644373No. I use self checkout when possible and I don't do small talk.
>>84644343Yep, it's a strange feeling. I don't think it makes me sad anymore, it's as if I've forgotten that I'm supposed to feel bad in the first place.
>>84644378Being an asexual schizoid sounds amazing, ngl
>>84644385Not every place has that which is why I am skeptical
>>84644460Which is why I said "when possible." Do you think I'm having deep conversations with the cashier? Lol
>>84644466No but you are talking to them which means your claim that you only talk to female family members is a lie
>>84644343I've exchanged nudes and had an e-gf, but have never done anything romantic or sexual IRL33 years young
>>84644419It is not. Between the apathy, anhedonia, and asociality, the most likely outcome is homelessness or imprisonment.
>>84644492Yeah but it beats being lonely and horny but being too unattractive and weird to fulfill your needs of companionship and intimacy
>>84644343lets see I've:>gone on (casual) date>held hands>had interest shown in me>hung out one-on-oneI have intimacy problems for sure. idk what it is, probably some repressed childhood trauma or something. I find women sexually attractive, but interacting with one beyond a casual level is apparently impossible for me
Lonely 20 something dudes get super defensive about how their lack of experience will get them judged lol. She isn't thinking about a big black man pounding her, relax.
>>8464451599% of women want nothing to do with a 30 year old virgin
>>84644520Yeah I don't blame them. You act like huge faglords.
>>84644539Yeah no woman wants some short, mid or worse looking neurodivergent dude
>>84644505EXACTLY me but as a nonawill hopefully change within the year but damn................ fuck......... we're all in this together...........
>>84644343I'm the town lolcow what woman would want anything to do with me?
>>84644562yeah but a woman with that level of experience is viewed as a good thing, even with intimacy issues. a man in his 30s? not so much.but I do hope it works out for you and your asocial quiet bf (yes I remember seeing you in that other thread tonight). Wish I was that lucky
>>84644674mm idk, my bf is nearing that age with marginally less experience than either of us and he got meit's never over!!! i met him on r9k of all fucking places so it can happen......
>>84644343The only sexual experience I've had with a woman was her trying to suck and puke on my dick.That was over 14 years ago.
>>84644685i've tried interacting with a few from r9k, but that didn't really work out well. but that probably has as much to do with my issues as it did theirs.
>>8464434337, close to zero social interaction with any female for basically my entire life. Since I left school, I have scarcely even said a single word to any female my own age.
>>84644343>How many of you dudes are in your late 20s and older and have literally done nothing with a woman?Most of this board is younger than 25, but the being absolute failures with women label still applies. Lot of real losers here.
>>84644343I'm 28 and the closest I got to a woman was one poking the back of my hand last year
>>84644343>It ain't me playsstill a virgin at 29 though
>>84645840How have you managed to avoid women this long?
>>84645852>Most of this board is younger than 25At these posts speeds? This daily traffic? Fucksakes anon most of the OPs are talking points from 10+ years ago. Hell the most active threads are from shit before people 25 and under were even born. Most young people either out right don't use the internet or stay in much tighter specif spaces. It's why most companies aiming at youth push discords and the like as they are trying to badly imitate the close knit communities they make. In a world of bots and slop places like 4chan are only appealing to people that grew up with it before it became bots and slop. Everyone else wants a human connection.
>>84648301my guess is MMOs and Door Dash
>>84644343Right here all of those unless you count that one time some gals and 3 guys (including me) got together for drinks one year after school and hung out.>>84644373Those dont count.>>84644384Not enough, too many sex havers bleed in here for some reason.>>84644697Instructions uncler was she trying to suck your dick AND puke on it falling at the task.Or was she trying to suck sour dick puking in the process.>>84647053Lets meet here in a year, maybe you can give me a guid on how to use my wizard poweres, been at it for 8 years and still nothing.
>>84644343I have had 3 LTRs and a bunch of lays. I can tell you, it leads to the same road that being a virgin does, that is, realizing women are transactional, shallow, solipsistic beings whose only benefit to you are sex and children.You won't find warmth and existential understanding in the bosom of a womanI wish they could love and understand us as we do for them, but their 'love' is tied to status and resources, i.e. it's not real sacrificial loveHeed my warning or suffer. Do shit for your own self and find meaning somewhere else. Have kids if you must with a woman, but don't expect her to stick around forever.
>>84648333I disagree, my guess is wfh.
>>84648333>Door Dash.Paying a 300% mark up on something a jeet has shat in.I miss th days where you had to call your local piazza place and they send out some guy actually working there.
>>84648301Where could I possibly interact with women? Since I left school there exists zero context to even be near people my own age. Pretty much the only singular female I have had any familiar interaction with is this one server at the local chippy who was in my school year. And the extent of that interaction is just a handful of words spoken whilst she is preparing my order.
>>84648333>>84648358There is more to isolation than just work from home. You have to do active behavior to avoid actually interacting with anyone. Then again, the anon said "his own age" which can make this unimpressive as he could just be living with decaying parents and is taken around their social groups like say church and he talks to people, just not anyone his age because he is an incel with mom and dad. Random note that's about 40% of the US population that's between the ages of 30 and 44.
>>84644343What's the point of this:>Literally nothing to where you have as much experience as a prepubescent boy. Maybe even less than some of them.knife twisting? You don't seem like the kind of person I would like to have a conversation about this with.
>>84644343>Never been a date, correct>never had a first kiss, nope>never held hands, god I wish>never had sex, obviously>never seen one naked outside of a screen, do old people at a nudist beach count? problably not>never been hit on by one; never>never had one show interest, not once>never even hung out with one.only platonicallyI'll soon be 30, so at least I can enjoy my wizard powers in the near future.
>>84648401You replied. That might have been all OP was after, if it made you mad or sad is pointless, you gave a reply, which keeps the thread going a little longer.
>>84648418Okay, so what? Oh noes! Some thread is up! I have to kill myself now! I gave my input, and if some person other than OP wants to engage with me, then I'm open to it. Alternatively, maybe I'm wrong about what I think OP's framing of this thread is and they can correct me.
>>84648438>Okay, so what?Nothing? You ask why and I noted the most likely answer. > Oh noes! Some thread is up! I have to kill myself now! What? You just loaded assumptions into what was noted. The goal is to get a reply, I never said if it was a "gotcha" bait or just simply OP understands that on 4chan a more mean spirited or polarized comment gets replies easier.
>>84644343Yeah, all of that applies to me at age 29. I really don't mind as much now as I did 7-8 years ago. I think the opportunity, if it ever existed, has passed me by at this point. I have a decent enough life. I work, I eat well enough, I have money to spend on vidya and my other interests, I don't live with my parents. Things could be a lot worse.
>>84648371Unsure sorry. I asked since even as a shut in neet I managed to befriend some women online. Maybe dating apps?
>>84648408>never held hands, >god I wishAnnon..just nmot in public ok?!>do old people at a nudist beach count? problably notYou do your age bracet (ffs keep it legal)But they have to do it infront and for you>at least I can enjoy my wizard powersWhat will be your Aligment?I can never be evil, no matter what I do I end up being chaotic good.
>>84648469Okay. I misunderstood what you were saying. The way you phrased it gave me the impression that you were trying to do this "you replied therefore you lost, bruh" as some people do. But you were just answering the question I posed. That question frankly was rhetorical, so it wasn't really meant to be earnestly answered. I was posing an accusation through it. But it's all good.
>>84648503What could a 37 year old autistic NEET possibly offer. Attempting to use a dating app would just be a pointless embarrassment. Any female who would want me would be a very strange human being. Very unlikely to actually exist.
>>84648599Stranger still for them to be on an online app too I imagine.
>>84648599>What could a 37 year old autistic NEET possibly offer.Anon, free yourself from the shackled of female parasitism. You judge your own value as a man by that which you can provide to women. No, abandon that train of thought
>>84644343>girl in elementary school and I had mutual crushed on each other and hung out a few times, in middle school she said her friends didn't like me so she couldn't like me anymore (i hated middle school and was an overall dick to a lot of people), never saw her again after that >other girl in middle school said she thinks I'm nice and wanted my number, hadn't memorized my phone number yet because I just got it and sort of just guessed, ended up giving her the wrong one when I checked later that day, never saw her again >asked a girl out once in high school, got rejected, never tried again >working minimum wage job just before closing, girl asks if there's a 'pretty girl discount'. Having been deprived of sleep and at the end of a 12 hour shift I think they're asking for me to discount their stuff for them (which I can't) and I reply 'uh, I don't think so'. Immediately apologize with spaghetti flying out of my pockets, never saw her again>go to college later on and one girl seems to go out of her way to talk to me. Comes up to me in the parking lot to walk in with me, talks to me after classes, offers to give me a ride home (it's 40 minutes away and she still said she would), offered like 6 times to get me a drink when the class was studying together (offering water, soda, tea, coffee, pretty much went down the list to the next one if I declined). Never thought she had a real interest in me so I never pursued her, and she's gone forever I think there's something wrong with me
>>84648599The worst thing is that on some fucking apps you have to provide "atleast 6 pictures".I maybe took 10 pics in the last 12 years all of them with family.+ face defermaties.
>>84644343Done a bunch of sexting but no physical contact
>>84648669God those hit close to home. especially the last one. Why do we do this to ourselves? I'm not asexual, am I just retarded?
>>84648669>asked a girl out once in high school, got rejected, never tried again >working minimum wage jobYou are miles ahead of my and many here with that.>Never thought she had a real interest in me so I never pursued her,Thats a more logical conclusion than anything else, going buy life experience.
>>84644505>Few unsolicited kisses by 2 girls when I was 15That's all
>>84644343I had a few kisses in middle school and highschool, grabbed some ass and felt some tits with one girl I dated for like 2 weeks. Never did anything past that and am not a chad.
>>84648669too close to home. Later on I was aware that those women were interested in me but always thought that it is always better to be safe than sorry, that I dont feel like asking her out right now, only to regret this later on. I'm telling myself that the next time will be better, but I'm still here.
>>84644343Me. I am almost 26 and have never kissed a girl.I went on 3 seperate dates a few years ago. 3 dates off tinder. None of them showed any interests in me. I am a 5'7 average white guy, never went to college. i work a shitty office job and have no friends and never go anywhere or do anything I have really given up on ever finding a woman. Even if I did, I would never be able to get over the resentment knowing she's been sucking and fucking since middle school, like the majority of women.
im just replying because i reply to everything. not that this thread has value or anything. we should all have already moved past this kind of self pity
>>84649099>b-b-backa.FFS man this whole bord was created for ranting and self pitty.
>>84644343I lost it at 15 and 10 years later I am married with my first child on the way. A man getting to 30 with zero experience is just pathetic.
>>84644343some girl gave me a chance in high school, but my good christian dad kindly drove over and stopped me from having naughty relations with a womenthat's when I stopped caring about romance
>>84650676>25>married>calling anyone else pathetic
>>84644343Yeah pretty much. I've held hands in non-romantic context like the prom-equivalent of my country, and I've heard after the fact that some girls have had a crush on me, and possibly missed the signals in a few other cases but I can't be certain. This was all more than a decade ago, since then I entered university but went from just regularly skipping school to pretty much hikikomori, studying in my room and only showing up for exams. I never finished my bachelor's degree some courses had mandatory attendance or lab work, ended up dropping out and NEETing for a while before getting a part-time job delivering mail, so basically I've had no more than a handful of spoken sentences worth of interaction with the opposite sex in the past 10 years.
>>84651285A guy who marries and reproduces young is a Chad
>>84651609>wastes the best years of his life for a kid that'll hate him.
>>84651637>he thinks the sign of a winner is being a manwhore fuckboy
>>84651646>Thinks being a crappy dad is an achievement Your kid will hate you lol
>>84644343>How many of you dudes are in your late 20s and older Me>Never been a dateMe>never had a first kissMe >never held handsMe>never had sexMe >never seen one naked outside of a screenI've accidentally seen my mother and sister naked coming out of the shower but I dont think counts. Pretty sure you meant have a non-family member willingly show me her naked body for the purposes of sexual excitemet. I'm assuming public flashing for attention doesnt count either, not that that has attempted to me>never been hit on by oneNot me>never had one show interestOne girl in school told her friend to tell me she liked me, other than that, no>never even hung out with oneI got friendzoned once. Then I learnt women will happy lead you one, then say nothing when her jealous bf come up to you and show you a picture of them kissing. Thankful at that point I took the hint and just walked away. No emotional resposne. I didn't even formally end the friendship. Any attempts by her to contact me were ignored until they stopped. Was it out of spite? Shame? Or did I just feel nothing?I'm also assuming you're asking these questions because you're a normie who can't FATHOM the idea that some men are truly unfuckable in this society. How did I make it this far without convincing one of the BILLIONS of women on the planet to fuck me? I wish I knew too. I'm going with being ugly, brown and autistic but I could be wrong
>>84651609Not in this divorce ridden hellscape. He's a fool that is about to get 60%'d
>>84644343I've had multiple sexual experiences that I masturbate to frequently before getting sad.Sometimes it wasn't even about the actual sex. Just knowing that I woman wanted to fuck me was enough. And I abandoned the opportunity because I knew she was sexually interested in me.
>>84651679You know this how? I have a beautiful wife that is crazy about me and have successfully passed on my genes while you have never even seen a tit outside a screen. Loser.
>>84648669dont engage with the women mind games, if they like you they will actually pursue you
>>84644343I'm almost 35 and never dated or been in a relationship. Never tried to be honest and that doesn't really bother me at all. I am not a very social person and I enjoy solitude over even minor social interaction. I actively avoid people when I leave the house and do not feel energized or excited by social attention. I am also probably autistic to a degree and my childhood was defined by my parents' terrible marriage, which I suspect is a cause of my disdain for social relationships, family life, and even surface-level acquaintances. I am very guarded about who I interact with and I like things a certain way.I am also relatively attractive and fit, so that's not really a problem for me. I do notice when women find me attractive, but I just don't care enough to assume the level of risk with no reward that I attribute to being involved with women.I also tend to not meet women in a social context where I think it would be appropriate to pursue them since I do not socialize or go out; one: since I don't enjoy it, and two: I can't afford to do that very often since everything is so expensive now.Part of the reason for my lack of care about this is also that I do not respect women at all.This doesn't mean I hate them, but I have never met a woman who wasn't foolish in some manner, and in my schooldays and working career I can't help but notice they are never held to the same standards as men, and are coddled and pampered compared to how a man would be treated in identical circumstances. This has gone on for as long as I've been alive to notice and has only gotten worse.I am also quite aware that women can simply take things from me on a whim because the system of law still permits alimony to exist as a concept - yet women do not pay dowries anymore. I have also watched many men - mostly the fathers of my friends - have their lives ruined by their spouse in a divorce and the women feels no qualms about it whatsoever, since they have permission from society.
>>84644343All true, except I'm 31 now.
>>84651961Kill yourself you fucking genetic dead end All of you old loser virgins, KILL YOURSELVES NOW
>>84652100do you feel better champ
>>84644343I'm a volcel. I don't think any woman counts, so no. The women that I've wanted have always said no. The ones that I've barely wanted or had limited attraction to, sure, but they're nothing to brag about.
>>84644343>>84644476What is the point of your nonsensical nitpicking, op? You can go to the store and not say a single word to the cashier even if they talk to you. Are you just looking for easy "gotchas" so you can increase your useless internet arguments won count?
>>84652100We are human beings, not a source of untapped resources you are entitled to exploit.If our mere existence causes such distress or alarm, then you are weak and the sort of society you have thrown your lot in with is also weak.
>>84652100>>84652147Your type commits mass violence because of your inability to get your dicks wet
>>84644539Ooooooor we're just physically unattractive and you're doing just world theory shit nigger
>>84652155>YOU EAT BABIES!!
>>84652155I'm not the one filling every formerly stable country with niggers and subsequently letting them run amok to cause mayhem and scam suckers.You're just reaching into a pot of meaningless insults meant to hurl accusations of low social value/proof because your feelings are hurt and you mistakenly believe that its possible to socially shame most men.If you're a woman, you'll never actually understand because your gender gets taken as spoils of war in the event of your tribe being defeated, so your grugbrain instincts have developed in this manner, which you're probably entirely unaware of.
>>84652155I don't hate women and I would never commit murder. t. >>84651961
>>84652155>Your type commits mass violence because of your inability to get your dicks wetOdds are no one your talking to has that in them. If they do, then you should act nicer so that their good nature wins out over their capacity for violence. So when you punch down on incels you're either hurting some innocent loser that was never going to hurt anyone anyways, or actively contributing to something terrible.
>>84644343A big yes on all fronts!
27 Never had an extended conversation with a foid outside of family
